When did you take your little one in public? There is a holiday party tonight and I really want to go! My LO is 9 days old. I would wear her in a sling and not let anyone touch/hold her. Opinions?
Now if you would have asked me 2 weeks ago I would say go for it. Now I would say no and be very very careful. I'm currently in the hospital with my LO, we've been here for a week and a half. She has RSV that she got from someone. And I was careful!
I took DD to a Christmas party for DS's playgroup-so tons of kids- at 10 days. She was even passed around to most of the mommies. We just kept the kids away. She slept the whole time and all was fine.
I took LO out 4 days PP, DH graduated from his sheriffs academy and I didn't want either of us to miss it! I had her in the car seat or held her, and didn't let anyone other than DH touch (I didn't want her thrown around like a hot potato). A mommy friend of mine recommended putting the mittens on her hands, because everyone wants to stick their dirty fingers in a baby's hand (so true, I hadn't even thought of that before)
If you wear her you should be fine. Anyone who comes into your house from the outside world is bringing in germs and I see you have a 3 year old who may as well be a petri dish Germs will ALWAYS be in the air but if you keep her close and people aren't breathing right on her, a party is no different from the grocery store.
I am always nervous around lots of little kids...they seem to always have runny noses. I didn't take my LO in public until almost 2 months. I did however go to family members houses because they know to let me know if they are sick even the least bit and I would stay away.
Pedi said to avoid crowded places for 6 wks. First 1-2 weeks, out with car seat to restaurants 3x - I didn't touch anything but baby and silverware and I was the only one to touch baby. Now at 3-4 weeks, out wearing baby, adult party (at restaurant) and family party (in home). Taking some risks...
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Re: LO public
I'd be cautiously okay with wearing a baby to a small party with no other kids there, but otherwise I'd be a bit worried.
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