TTC After a Loss

One step forward, 10 steps back:(

I posted a while ago that I got my period and my OB gave us the go ahead to try again. Well, the last few days I have had spotting after sex. Then today I went to the bathroom and pushed out (tmi) lots of blood clots and blood. Pretty much wearing a fricken diaper now. Called my OB and was told we should wait another month now:( I'm so angry I could scream!!! I should know by now that with good news always comes twice as much bad news. I'm giving up. Ugh.

Re: One step forward, 10 steps back:(

  • I'm sorry you're having a rough day and have to push back TTC another month.  ((hugs))  I know it's really hard waiting to try again, I hope the time goes quickly for you.



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  • Oh, I am so sorry this happened!! Big hugs to you. Wait is the worse. I hope the bleeding and clots pass and end soon and you can try again next month!
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  • So sorry ((hugs))
  • I'm so sorry love. I hope everything gets back to normal for you soon and that the holiday season helps the time pass. (((Hugs)))
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  • So sorry you have to wait another month.  Hope you're feeling better soon!

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  • Ugh. ((Hugs))
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  • ugh - sorry that you have to wait another month now!
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  • I'm so sorry that happened. It's frustrating when your TTC timeline gets pushed back.
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  • ((Hugs)) hun. I am so sorry you are dealing with this. 
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  • I'm so sorry! Waiting is awful. I feel time is just dragging through this whole process. Never give up or lose hope! I pray your mind stays busy so that before you know it you can try again! sending T&Ps!
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  • Bummer! I know how you feel, still waiting on AF to show! Good luck! ((Hugs))
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  • I'm sorry, big hugs.... it's really crappy to get your hopes up like that and then and then have to regress.
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  • So sorry to hear about your set back. Big hugs!
                                                                            
                                                          
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  • Waiting sucks.  I'm so sorry.
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  • I'm sorry you are going through this. The waiting game is awful. Did she tell you what the issue was?
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  • Oh, I'm so sorry, waiting can be so tough!  FX that the bleeding stops soon!
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  • I'm so sorry you're going through this. Waiting completely sucks. I know it's hard to think this way, but maybe it's a good thing it's happening now? It more than likely means that everything hadn't all passed and had you gotten pregnant again with old tissue, you likely would have miscarried again. Maybe it's a blessing in disguise... hopefully.

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  • Did she tell you what the issue was?

    She said there were no issues, just my body regulating.
  • ((Hugs)) I'm sorry you have to go through this
  • I'm sorry. That next month can seem like an eternity sometimes. Hang in there.
    Me: 34 DH: 38 3/2009: Married 3/2012: Started TTC (Unofficially, because I had 2 sizable fibroids and wasn't sure I could conceive) 5/2012: Miscarried @ 7.5 weeks 6/2012: Diagnosed with two massive fibroids, myo recommend 9/2012: Robotic Myomectomy performed 1/2013: Green light to start TTC 8/2013: HSG, diagnosed with small polyp(s), D&C to remove polyps 9/2013: OB/GYN recommends IUI w/Clomid, Consulted with ND to remedy Estrogen dominance/short luteal phase/fibroid growth 10/2013: Lack of Ovulation due to Progesterone Cream prescribed by ND 11/2013: Cut back PC dosage, actively TTCing now My chronicles: www.reproactivechic.blogspot.com
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