January 2014 Moms

We have a plan

Well, sort of. More of one than before, anyway.

My OB agreed that completely weaning off the meds was not in my best interest or the baby's best interest, so I am going to continue my pain management routine. (Originally, she wanted me to try to be completely done with the pain meds by this point, but that was not working, clearly.) My next appt is set for two weeks from today, but she told me that if my pain is out of control or my BP can't be controlled to call anytime to come in, of course. She is willing to admit me to the hospital at any time for pain management and monitoring and to prepare for induction, but if I can make it to 36 weeks, we will schedule an amnio to check the baby's lung development, at which point she assumes I will either go into labor on my own OR we will start planning for induction at 37 weeks.

It feels good to have at least some direction. And to know that I can take pain meds if I am having a bad day. I hate that I have to continue doing that, but the stress on my body and the baby is not good, so it's a lesser of two evils situation at this point.

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  • That's good to hear!  I'll keep you in my thoughts and prayers!  Keep us posted!
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  • That sounds like a great plan. If I am reading it right, you are looking at about 2.5 more weeks, tops, yes?

  • I am so glad you guys have a plan in place now.  I can't imagine what you have been dealing with and I hope you get some relief soon. 
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  • I'm glad you have a new plan! 
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  • Glad you have plan in place.
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  • Sorry you are still in so much pain!  Sometimes just having a plan in place makes me feel much better and helps with anxiety - glad that you know what your options are at this point and can make some plans accordingly.
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  • I'm glad your appointment was good, and it sounds like everyone is on the same page, and a plan is in place. For me, having a plan for all the different outcomes is a big deal, and would lower my anxiety level.
  • So glad you have a plan! And glad you're not in pain limbo anymore. :-/


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  • Great to hear you have a plan in place, I hope the meds help make everything easier to manage. So exciting you'll get to hold your little one soon!
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  • I'm happy for you that you got a plan. Praying for you now til baby is here :)
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  • That sounds like a great plan. If I am reading it right, you are looking at about 2.5 more weeks, tops, yes?
    Yes, that's about right. Probably 3 weeks, tops.
    Awesome. I hope that your pain is manageable until then!

  • You must feel so much better having a more attainable goal. And don't feel bad about the pain meds. His organs can flush them out as well as yours (maybe better, considering) at this point and he gets more time to grow!
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  • I'm glad to hear there is a plan. I hope you can control the pain at home and avoid being hospitalized.
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  • So glad you have a plan.  The end is near!! When is 37w for you?  January 4th?  You should make some sort of countdown to help you get through this... take it one day at a time.  Everyday counts for that sweet boy of yours.  You're doing AMAZING mama!
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  • So glad you have a plan!
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  • Glad to hear you and your Dr made a plan that gives you a specific date you can aim for. Light at the end of a tunnel!
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  • mrsjenni said:
    So glad you have a plan.  The end is near!! When is 37w for you?  January 4th?  You should make some sort of countdown to help you get through this... take it one day at a time.  Everyday counts for that sweet boy of yours.  You're doing AMAZING mama!
    Yup, Jan 4th is 37 weeks. My next appt is Dec 31st (unless something goes awry) and that's the point when things will go into motion.
  • That's great news! So bed rest in the meantime or are allowed some mobility? 

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  • Sounds like a great plan that considers both mama and baby's needs. I'm glad you seem to feel a bit better about it.
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  • Plans are good! Glad to hear there's a finish line in sight for you!
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  • So glad you have a plan now Peanut! I hope these last 2-3wks go quickly for you, and your pain stays somewhat manageable! Sending good thoughts your way.
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  • That's great news! So bed rest in the meantime or are allowed some mobility? 
    Just modified bed rest. My cervix is still Fort Knox -- ain't nothing breeching that fortress! I have to monitor my BP and take it easy if it starts to go up. Same goes for contractions. But I am allowed to make small trips when I'm feeling well.
  • Sounds like a good plan! I hate that you have been dealing with so much pain. You are a tough lady!

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  • That's great news! So bed rest in the meantime or are allowed some mobility? 
    Just modified bed rest. My cervix is still Fort Knox -- ain't nothing breeching that fortress! I have to monitor my BP and take it easy if it starts to go up. Same goes for contractions. But I am allowed to make small trips when I'm feeling well.
    Goodness gracious peanut, you're a champ. You're used to a lot of movement on a regular basis so this must suck. I hope you can get some fresh air and change of scenery every once in a while. Hang in there!

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  • I'm glad you have a plan and are feeling better about things. I hope you are able to be relatively comfortable over the next few weeks.

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  • Glad to hear you have a plan!
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  • I hope having a plan makes you feel a little better.  I know with my placenta previa, after 14 weeks of having no idea what was going to happen, I was happy when we made a plan.  Even if the plan still scares me a little.  Good luck!
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  • I'm so glad you have light at the end of your tunnel! Stay strong!
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  • I'm so grateful of your doctor for working out a legit plan for how to manage your pain and go forward after that with induction.  Just keep taking it easy, though I know that's easier said than done in your condition. 
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  • I'm so glad you feel better having a plan. FX that everything stays manageable for you until 36w.
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  • Glad that you have a plan!
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  • Wonderful news that the appointment went well and you have a plan in place! Sending positive thoughts that the next two weeks are better for you!!

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  • Awesome news.  I love a plan and I'm so happy you have one!! 
  • Gosh what a roller coaster for you! But glad to hear you have plan you are more comfortable with!
  • I'm glad you're able to get at least some comfort from having a plan in place. I'm sure the uncertainty was only making things worse. :( Sending you many thoughts and prayers!

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  • Really glad to hear that you have a plan in place!
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  • Glad there is at least an end date in sight for you, peanut! 
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  • @peanutmuse. I had to get on here to check on you. So glad there is a plan!!!!! I have thinking about u all day! Not in the weird girl crush way....lol...well maybe a little. ;)
  • 3 more weeks! You got this!

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