This was great. Made me feel good about what I'm doing. I just asked my mom last night. Is LO okay? Should she be doing x, y, z? Am I doing right by her? Am I doing everything I can or should I be doing more? (Going back to work has really taken a toll on my confidence in what I'm doing with her. Too tired to do a lot of the things that we were doing on an everyday basis. Stressed the MIL sees my daughter more than me and that feeling of who is really the one raising her now...) It's hard. My mom told me I was doing fine, but that little voice in me didn't really hear that. I beat myself up over what I am or am not doing. This reminded me that I shouldn't. Thank you.
What she said is all true! I use to have major OCD, that now has gone down the drain! With 3 boys ( including DH) and one little one that is right behind them. My livingroom is never clean.
Re: the mom confession
LOVE!!!!
DS1 2-26-07
#4 Due May 2015
IT'S A BOY