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Jealous of DH

DD is totally in love with her daddy.  Whenever she sees him she squeels with delight and only wants to be held by him.  To give an example, the other night DH was holding her and it was time for her to eat.  I made up the bottle and was going to feed her.  I took her (she knew I had the bottle) and she started screaming and reaching back for her daddy.  This happens multiple times every single day.  He just left for work and trying to finish feeding her solids is a joke because she's so upset that he left.  When she sees me in the morning, she's like "whatever."  But when she sees him she's so happy! 

It's really disappointing day after day, month after month.  I'm the one who takes her to all her doctor appointments, feeds her, plays with her, gets up in the middle of the night with her.(about 4-5 nights a week!)  Last night she woke up at 3:00...didn't go to bed again until 4:00, then got up at 4:30, went to bed at 5:30 and then got up again at 7:00.  I couldn't get back to sleep since her first wake up at 3:00....so I've been awake for 5 hours already and I'm the one who comforted and cuddled her, but there's still no love for mommy.  *sigh*  I'm hoping that its a phase and she gets excited to see me, too. 

Whenever I leave her at Sunday school day care she doesn't care, but if daddy leaves its a whole different story.  I'm starting to get jealous of him. :(

Re: Jealous of DH

  • DH was a little Jealous of me and the way DS relates to me verses the way he relates to DH.  With me DS is really cuddly and loving with DH all he wants to do is play.

    I think it is different with each parent.

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  • Oh honey, I'm sorry.  That has got to be frustrating.  My neice did the same thing.  She went through a phase where she wanted nothing to do with daddy and couldn't get enough of mommy.  After awhile it passed.  I'm sure it will with your DD too.
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