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Who Wants To Join My "I Had To Go To Work In The Snow" Pity Party?

Or any other general whining, bellyaching, or venting? Please feel free to let it all out in this thread!

I am cranky and pouty today because both DH and my brother are home from work because of the weather, and I had to drive in to work! BOO! Stupid Pennsylvania drivers can't drive in the snow. You think they'd have it figured out by now, since it only snows here EVERY.FREAKING.WINTER! But no, as soon as the white stuff starts falling, they drive around with their heads up their asses. In addition, my three guys are at home hanging out together and having fun, and I'm stuck working (Bumping). I should be home baking cookies and online Christmas shopping in my PJs. 

The butthurt is strong with me today, lol!
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  • Gknauff79 said:
    @mrsjessicamitchell - you know all that could be fixed by moving to Florida :) sunshine and 80 degree weather - just sayin!
    But my family is here! And my job. And my church... Though it seems you have an amazing church you belong to. Hmmm, the prospect of 80 degree winters is tempting! LOL! 
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  • Gknauff79 said:

    @mrsjessicamitchell - you know all that could be fixed by moving to Florida :) sunshine and 80 degree weather - just sayin!

    Ohhhh.... 80 degrees sounds heavenly right now. I had to come to work too. Booooooo! The worst part is that I am sitting here and NONE of my patients are showing up. I don't blame them for not wanting to venture out in the snow, but I am twiddling my thumbs and thinking about how much fun it would be to take DS out on the snow.

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    BFP # 3: 11/8/13, EDD 7/17/14, mmc 10wks

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  • I had to come to the hospital to see two doctors and have an MRI. The first one I saw was a youngin and I knew more than her and could have diagnosed myself so that was pointless and I had to leave LO for 30mins with my grandfather who can't really manage her unless she is sleeping or happy.
    It was snowing so hard here my windshield wipers stopped working because it was to Heavy for them to push.
    And I am having the worst pain on both ovaries its just like ivf, why can't I ever just be normal ?

    Would it have been too hard to have normal cycles after giving birth ?
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    Anovulatory cycles, increased Synthroid Diagnosed Sep 2010
    Natural cycle Dec 2010 BFP M/C 6 1/2 Weeks, D&E Jan 2011
    1 Clomid/Ovidrel BFN May 2011
    Natural cycle Aug 2011 BFP M/C 4 Weeks
    1 IUI Sept 2011 BFP M/c 7 weeks
    Provera Dec 2011 BFP M/C 3 Weeks
    DQ ALPHA HLA MATCH, High NK Cells Diagnosed Dec 2011
    IVF March 2012 BFP m/c 4weeks 5 days (IL, Prednisone)
    IVF#2w/DS July 2012 MEGA FAILURE BFN (IL, Dexamethasone)
    Diagnosed No real HLA Match, DQ Beta Triad, High TNF, Low NK Cells
    Oct 2012 Natural Cycle m/c 4wks (Lovenox, Prednisone) 
    Went to Beer Center- high tnf, low lad, implantation failure
    Nov/Dec 2012 LIT Treatment
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  • Minnesota sucks too! Why do I live here? Driving to work takes twice as long now because when it snows everyone forgets how to drive and their cars can't seem to go past 20 miles an hour! Not to mention last Saturday I got rear-ended with the kids in the Jeep! Lucily everyone is okay. Minor back issues but my chiro says the kids should be fine by next week. I will take a little longer. I just hate that the kids were in the car and I keep thinking of how it could have been avoided. Of course, even though I couldn't have prevented her from hitting me, I still blame myself.

    TTC is frustraing me too. I'm just such a planner that when things don't go my way, I get very disappointed and even depressed which only makes things worse.  If it doesn't work this month I'll have to wait probably 4 cycles before trying again so it doesn't interfere with my year-end at work.

    My boss put in her notice a couple weeks ago. She's done at the end of the year and the guy under me is applying for her position.  Although I don't want her job, I don't want him to get it either. Selfish yes - but I can barely work with him under me but to have his arrogant a$$ be my boss and make more than me - I can't do it.

    All this on top of an already typically busy year-end (I'm an accountant) and add on new software changes that I have to test and go live with on Jan 2.

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  • @salsa_wifey sending you HUGE (((HUGS))) lady! You've got a lot going on! Glad you and the kids are okay after the accident.
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  • @luvboston, big (((hugs))) to you, too! Hope all goes well with your testing, and that you get the results you want.
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  • I live in Pennsylvania too and can't stand how people forget or can't drive in the snow! I never get a snow day either :( bla
    @salsawifey I've been thinking about you! I'm really hoping this is ur month and you don't have to wait! I'm a planner too and TTC is so rough!!! FX for you :) it wasn't my month again, I didn't even O :(

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    BFP#2~12/15/11~EDD 8/25/12, Hannah born 8/22/12~ 7lbs 10oz & 21 in. long. :)

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  • @charmedgrl517 where in PA are you? We're in Bethlehem. 
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  • mrsjessicamitchell  Thank you for the Hugs. They are much needed lately.

    charmedgrl517 Ugg! Sorry to hear you didn't O. TTC sucks!!!

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    BFP #2: 4/2008 - Natural m/c at 6w.
    Met with RE in 5/2008 full cycle analysis and SA normal. Not considered high risk for blood clots but prescribed 1 baby aspirin a day precautionary during TTC and Progesterone suppositories during 1st trimester of pregnancy.
    BFP #3: 10/17/2008. EDD 6/23/2009,  Third time's the charm! Healthy baby boy born 6/27/2009 via emergency c-section.
    BFP #4: 6/14/2011. Healthy baby boy born 2/16/2012 via elective c-section.
    BFP #5: 1/15/2014. EDD 9/22/2014. 
    2/17/14:.We have a BABY!!! Heart rate 167 and measuring on time. 3/10/14 u/s #2 baby measuring perfectly at 12 weeks at heart rate of 166. NT u/s was normal. Maternit21 blood draw on 3/5/14. Results back on 3/19 - Normal.  It's a BOY!!!  4/10/14 at 16 weeks, 3 days discovered baby's heart stopped at 15 weeks, 6 days. D&C 4/11/14.  Pathology results were all normal.  New information on 8/11/14 - blood test revealed 1/3 of babys blood was in mine caused, most likely, by a tear in the placenta from extreme coughing.  Doctor believes this to be the cause of death.  Repeat D&C and Hysteroscopy scheduled for 8/19/14.  My Chart

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  • @mrsjessicamitchell. Pittsburgh! :)

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  • @charmedgrl517- you are about 6-7 hours west of us, then! 

    @mamato3boys- where are you in our gigantic state?

    @andrea ri 80- DH works construction and hasn't been able to work all week- he does commercial roofing and the GC won't let them shovel the roof off, so they have to wait for that crap to melt! He would love to make the snow disappear from the jobsite, lol! 
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    @charmedgrl517- you are about 6-7 hours west of us, then! 

    @mamato3boys- where are you in our gigantic state?

    @andrea ri 80- DH works construction and hasn't been able to work all week- he does commercial roofing and the GC won't let them shovel the roof off, so they have to wait for that crap to melt! He would love to make the snow disappear from the jobsite, lol! 
    Actually not too far from Bethlehem. On the Berks/Lancaster County line.
    That's pretty cool! You're about an hour and a half away.  Perhaps a playdate is in order in the new year?! 
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  • live in WI. It's snows a lot every year here. Yet people still drive like asshats. :(

    Watch this scary 40 car pile-up that happened on Sunday about an hour from me. It could've been easily avoided if people just slowed the eff down!!!

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