Hi...mainly lurker here, occasional responder, but never a post starter.
Sunday evening I started experiencing menstrual cramps. This carried over to Monday but they subsided during the day but came back Monday night. By Tuesday I was having back cramping and menstrual cramps for hours straight with no relief. My OB had me come in and turns out I've started to dilate (not really surprising since I have a 6&7 yr old at home), but she didn't think I was in active labor yet (I have not lost my MP and the cramping isn't regular). She also decided to send me for an U/S because I was measuring smaller than I had been in previous visits.
I went today for the U/S and baby girl is measuring in the 4th percentile overall. However, her belly is measuring in the 1st percentile which means what nutrients she is getting from the placenta are going straight to her heart/brain instead of plumping her up; it's called asymmetrical intrauterine growth restriction.
My OB has instructed that I have NSTs and BPP U/Ss twice a week until I deliver. They will induce me on 12/30 if they do not end up taking her before then. I've been put on modified bed rest and instructed to eat, eat, eat and drink, drink, drink.
I was caught off guard w/ this news today. Has anyone experienced anything similar? When was your LO born? How big were they? How long did they stay in the hospital? How was the labor?
I have to diligently do kick counts every two hours and call immediately if I have no decrease in movement. It's all so very stressful. Meanwhile the back cramps continue.
Edited/Added:
I lost my Dad to cancer on 11/27 (2 weeks ago yesterday). I feel like the grief of that and the stress of this news...well I'm just not handling it really well. I feel guilty that I can't give baby girl what she needs.
Yesterday I was upset over the idea of possibly having to leave my baby at the hospital (even though I know that's the best place for her). In the middle of the night I woke up with the thought that maybe they should take her now. Maybe I should call our Pediatrician (who we love and have used with the older two) and talk to him, then call my OB and talk to them about my concerns. I know being stressed will only hurt her more in the long run but when I think of those percentile numbers 4th and 1st...she's starving in there. This all breaks my heart.
Re: Asymmetrical IUGR
((Hugs))
I freaked out when I first heard, but what I've read is pretty reassuring overall. Growth restricted near-term babies may need extra hospital time, but usually not too long. They're tiny like preemies, but they don't have the lung/organ maturity issues. And once they get out and you start feeding them, they grow faster than seems possible and often catch up to other babies their age in a matter of months.
So, it's good that they are monitoring closely. They're most worried about the placental function failing further. But here's hoping that lying down and chugging water will help your baby plump up a bit soon!
And hang in there. Mine is currently holding steady percentile-wise, with any luck lying on your left side and drinking lots of water will help the placenta work better, and he'll gain by your next appointment.