Hi all! Sorry to be late today - but here are a few getting to you know questions! Please join in!
1. What are your favorite websites, blogs, news spots, etc. on the web? Share a few links to sites you love! This can be anything, no necessarily (but can be) kid, TTC, pregnancy, baby, etc. related.
2. What do you hope to get for xmas? Do you have something picked out for your SO?
3. What are your favorite childhood holiday tv specials?
4. What are you wearing right now?

5. What are you up to this weekend?
Bonus: Any PIP you'd like to share!
Re: GTKY Dec 6. Edition!
1. What are your favorite websites, blogs, news spots, etc. on the web? Share a few links to sites you love! This can be anything, no necessarily (but can be) kid, TTC, pregnancy, baby, etc. related.
To be honest I mostly just search the web and read things EV sends me, or that I find from friends/family on Facebook. I use the internet for school, craigslist, recipes, the Bump, my Mothers Group, personal business, pinterest, netflix, etc. I like the "i am pregnant" site for updates on baby's development.
2. What do you hope to get for xmas? Do you have something picked out for your SO?
I have no idea, money's tight so I'm not sure we're doing grown-up gifts. I wanted to make EV a digital picture frame and fill it with pics of Kaden, and our travels, etc. We're having a digital photo crisis though and our pics are mostly not on iPhoto anymore but lost on various hard drives. EV is so stressed (she manages it), about having potentially lost images (she wiped her computer to install software for school several times last year). Needless to say its hot button issue and she won't talk about it... There are a few other things she wants but I'd rather surprise her.
For me, I'd really like to go to Disneyland in January for my Birthday (and to visit our friends who moved to LA. They're also pregnant from our donor 1 month behind us, so this visit might be the last before the babies are born).
3. What are your favorite childhood holiday tv specials? I really like Rudolph (the old original) and Frosty. And we watched the Sound of Music often around New Years.
4. What are you wearing right now? Black maternity pants and a beige top with maroon design.
5. What are you up to this weekend? Homework...Homework and supporting EV through her finals. There's a Christmas parade and tree lighting happening downtown on Sunday evening so I might bundle Kaden up and head over there. EV should be done with her semester by Sunday night so she is likely heading out to see Catching Fire solo after the parade. Instead of date nights we split babysitting duty and go off on our own. ;-)
Bonus: Any PIP you'd like to share!
2. What do you hope to get for xmas? Do you have something picked out for your SO?
This year I found it really hard to make a list for xmas/chanukkah. I do think that gift cards to lowe's will be the best as my DW and I are trying to redo our landscaping and that would be a great budget-saver. I am already done with my xmas shopping so I have a few things that I am ubber-excited about for M and then just some small tokens of affection for her to enjoy.
3. What are your favorite childhood holiday tv specials?
I do not know that I have any specific holiday tv specials as the holidays are usually time away from the tv
4. What are you wearing right now?
LOL...khakis and a polo shirt with my school's emblem on it (love dress down fridays!)
5. What are you up to this weekend?
There is so much to do leading into the holiday season. We are meeting up with two of our friends tonight (they are expected a baby girl---they just found out the sex today!) and going out for wings then having a game night at our house. Tomorrow is the only day for the next 3 weeks that I think M and I do not have some sort of thing to travel to and participate. We are going to spend it relaxing and doing some movie time together. I am fighting off some sort of illness so I am really looking forward to this! Sunday I have my niece's baptism and then my sister in law is celebrating her graduation from nursing school.....busy busy busy
Bonus: Any PIP you'd like to share!
Married to M and proud mothers to Olivia and Elise (8/19/2014) and to our fur-babies: Capone (pitbull), Jax and Atticus (cats)
I periodically check out offbeat home and offbeat bride.
Other than that I follow links from Facebook that take me to all the cool websites for an article, recipe, or video here or there.
2. There isnt much I want. My mom already gave me a winter jacket as an early present. That was the major thing on my list. I can't even remember what things I suggested to my mom.
M and I are doing a low cost homemade presents exchange. I'm excited about the things I plan to make sure but I can't tell you what they are because she will see!
3. Christmas tv specials? I don't think I actually know what this means. I always think of Christmas movies. It was "Christmas story" for me growing up.
4. Black pants. They are technically athletic pants but everyone says they look like regular black pants so I'm pretending they are. A black t-shirt. And a purple argyle v neck sweater (from old navy).
5. Babysitting this evening. Tomorrow afternoon I have a meeting of the dissertation group I'm a part of. We take turns reading each other's chapter drafts. So Saturday morning I have to read the chapter for the meeting. Saturday evening M and I are going to her/our friend's drag and comedy show. Sunday is a bit open. I need to spend a couple hours working on reference letters for students who were in my class last year and are now applying for graduate school. Also we have a whole lot of thank you cards still to write from our love party.
We're queer. I'm 33, have severe stage 4 endo, and had both fallopian tubes removed. My love ("Manada" on the boards, 32) was diagnosed with diminished ovarian reserve. We did Partner IVF (my eggs, her uterus). We lost our twins Tavin and Casey at 21 weeks gestation.
Our IUIs
with @Manada: IUI# 1-7 (December 2012- September 2013) all BFN. Tried natural, femara, clomid, puregon/follistim, clomid and menopur combo, both the ovidrel and HCG triggers.
Our IVFs:
IVF #1 my eggs November/December 2013: Cancelled IVF due to poor response
IVF #2 my eggs/Manada's uterus January/February 2014
BCPs and lupron overlap Stimmed: 1/22-2/2: Bravelle and Menopur (dosage ranged from B300 and M150 to B375 and M150 to B300 and M225)
2/4 retrieved 10 eggs. Endo was much worse than expected. Only 3 eggs fertilized; February 7 transferred two day 3 embryos, froze one. All great condition.
BFP eve of 6dp3dt; Beta 1 (11dp3dt): 110; Beta 2 (13dp3dt): 175; Beta 3 (15dp3dt): 348; Beta 4 (19dp3dt): 2222; Beta 5 (21dp3dt): 4255
1st ultrasound (3/6 6w 1d): TWINS!!!! Twin A measuring 6w1d with a heartbeat of 118bpm. Twin B measuring 6w0d with a heartbeat of 113bpm.
***July 18, 2014 we lost our beautiful babies at 21 weeks gestation. They were born too early. Tavin Sara T. and Casey Elizabeth T. are beautiful and precious and we will love them and miss them forever.***
FET #1 December 2014
1. What are your favorite websites, blogs, news spots, etc. on the web? Share a few links to sites you love! This can be anything, no necessarily (but can be) kid, TTC, pregnancy, baby, etc. related. I like justmommies.com, pinterest,
silver chucks, jeans, and a blue UMB shirt (my work)
2. What do you hope to get for xmas? Do you have something picked out for your SO? i want an ereader. Im getting her Miley Cyrus tickets:p
3. What are your favorite childhood holiday tv specials? I loved all christmas movies!
4. What are you wearing right now?
5. What are you up to this weekend? Putting up the tree and relaxing.
Bonus: Any PIP you'd like to share!
my doggies! the puppy has gotten bigger since this pic! but only by a bit!
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1. What are your favorite websites, blogs, news spots, etc. on the web? Share a few links to sites you love! This can be anything, no necessarily (but can be) kid, TTC, pregnancy, baby, etc. related.
Right now, The Bump is at the top of my list. I do get on FB, but I'm really not enjoying it for the most part anymore. I use the Pinterest app on my phone. I really only get on our laptop to pay bills and get on here besides when I'm mobile bumping.
2. What do you hope to get for xmas? Do you have something picked out for your SO?
All C and I really need is money. I'm hoping we get gift cards that we've requested. I believe my Mom is getting us a Keurig. I'm kind of excited for that. I do have something planned for C, but can't post it because she has expressed interest in getting on here now.
3. What are your favorite childhood holiday tv specials?
I used to watch Rudolph, but haven't in years. I'm really not big into holiday tv stuff.

4. What are you wearing right now?
My t-shirt from Buffalo Pride two years ago and grey capri sweats. It is cold outside but nice and cozy in our house thanks to the woodstove.
5. What are you up to this weekend?
Our usual bowling on Saturday night. Looks like we're planning to go to our local bar afterward to see a musician we like. Sunday we might meet some friends for breakfast.
Bonus: Any PIP you'd like to share!
This is one of the free range cattle that we ran into (almost literally) during our trip in California. Never did I imagine California had cattle next to the ocean! When we were talking about driving along the coast, I had pictured a flat, straight road along the beach. Boy was I wrong! We live out in the middle of nowhere with farms everywhere. Seeing cattle isn't a big deal, even seeing them in the road is no biggie. Just not something I expected to see out there.
Me: 30 DW (aka C): 29
Together since 2/15/11 ~ Legally married in NY on 9/29/12
***CP mentioned***
We've been working on baby #1 since July 2013 using Open ID donor sperm. 8 IUI attempts with 5 actual IUIs and one chemical pregnancy. We have one fresh IVF cycle under our belts as well as a FET. I have endometriosis and a uterine septum that was corrected via surgery in November 2013.
11/14/14 - Second HSG shows that tubes are still clear and ute is looking good.
12/6/14 - Started BCPs in prep for IVF #2
12/22/14 - Saline u/s and endometrial scratch (All was clear and OUCH!)
1/2/15 - Began stimming for IVF #2
****All Welcome!****
We are Mommas to four fur babies - 3 dogs and 1 cat.
I use Pinterest, mostly for food, but I don't go on it more than once or twice a week. I used to read a lot of food blogs, but when they got rid of Google Reader I forgot to move them all over and ended up just giving up on most of them. So these days it's pretty much TB, FB and Gmail.
2. What do you hope to get for xmas? Do you have something picked out for your SO?
A healthy Maternity21 test? Might be too soon.
3. What are your favorite childhood holiday tv specials?
Rudolph and the Charlie Brown Christmas special.
4. What are you wearing right now?
Oh damn, I've already come home and changed into jammies, so you're going to see how truly glamorous I am. Red fleece pants with snowflakes on them, a brown t-shirt, and my wife's old college sweatshirt. Hot.
5. What are you up to this weekend?
Well, I kicked off the weekend by picking up what should be my LAST box of Endometrin from the fertility pharmacy after work! Tomorrow we're decorating the tree (it's up already) and the rest of the house. We also need to clean up a bit. On Sunday I'm going to a cookie swap at my sister's house.
9 IUIs = 9 BFNs
IVF October 2012: 22 eggs retrieved, 17 fertilized, 5 frozen
ET #1: 1 blast = BFP; Blighted ovum discovered at 7w5d; D&E
FET #1: 1 blast = BFP; Missed m/c discovered at 9w5d; D&E
Karyotyping: normal ~ RPL Testing: normal ~ Hysteroscopy: normal
FET #2: 1 blast transferred 10/25; BFP 10/31!
EDD 7/13/14 ~ Induced at 37w4d due to pre-eclampsia ~ Born on 6/28/14
*Everyone welcome*
I don't really have any- there is some mom-blog about the wonder weeks I read occasionally, and friends LJ's and FB's. And a bunch of adoption ones.
2. What do you hope to get for xmas? Do you have something picked out for your SO?
Getting SO: cufflinks with photos of bean on them, shirt and tie (like always) and a few other various things I know he wants.
3. What are your favorite childhood holiday tv specials?
year without a santa claus, miracle on 34th street.
4. What are you wearing right now?
Pajama shorts and a cami
5. What are you up to this weekend?
Tonight we did some xmas shopping and put up our new artificial tree, tomorrow we're going to visit friends upstate, Sunday church and more tree/house decorating.
I am probably on thebump and facebook the most. I check out pinterest on occasion and news sites to see what is going on in the world.
2. What do you hope to get for xmas? Do you have something picked out for your SO?
3. What are your favorite childhood holiday tv specials?
Probably Rudolph or It's a wonderful life
4. What are you wearing right now?
Good question. I read a lot of huffington post, pregnant chicken cracks me up, other random sites via FB.
2. What do you hope to get for xmas? Do you have something picked out for your SO?
3. What are your favorite childhood holiday tv specials?
4. What are you wearing right now?
I have a migraine so I'm still laying in bed with a black tank and red basketball shorts on. Wifey is at the store so I'll get up and get busy when she gets back, she ordered me to stay here and get better while she was gone.
5. What are you up to this weekend?
Bonus: Any PIP you'd like to share!
I love nameberry dot com for baby names, etsy for looking at cool stuff, the onion cracks me up.
2. What do you hope to get for xmas? Do you have something picked out for your SO?
I'll take a positive pregnancy test, Santa. Seriously, J and I are donating to our super-cool indie radio station and getting a tile on their new building at Seattle Center under the Space Needle! It was her idea, and she is not terribly sentimental, but came up with a song quote she texted me when we were first dating and said she wanted to do the tile for our Christmas gift to each other and that "we can take our kids to see it someday..." - which floored me that she was thinking about it that way! I got her a bunch of little odds and ends, and had a few groupons I used for one metal and one canvas print from our wedding for our house.
3. What are your favorite childhood holiday tv specials?
Oh I loved The Year Without a Santa Claus (land of misfit toys)! And I loved the heat miser/cold miser. Oddly, I never saw It's a Wonderful Life until I was a grown-up! What was wrong with my parents!?!?
4. What are you wearing right now?
At 2:45 on a Saturday, I'm still in my jammies - I had to work all morning and been catching up on computer stuff. Lame! Plus a hoodie b/c it is cold!
5. What are you up to this weekend?
Last night my family was over for a cookie swap and stocking exchange. Growing up we did stockings on St. Nick's Day (I never had a stocking on Christmas) and one of my sisters wanted to revive the tradition, even though we are all grown-ups now. So, my mom, 3 sisters, my bro-in-law and J were all here.
Tonight is the big work holiday party at the Seattle Art Museum, but J wants to get out of it.
Tomorrow night we're seeing Jeff Tweedy (Wilco)!
Me (43) and J (45) - same sex couple. And we don't feel 40+!
June'12 - First RE Visit
Sept. '12 - Tubes removed
Dec. '12 - Donor Egg/Donor Sperm IVF Cycle - 4 good embies!
Dec. '12 - Fresh transfer, BFP! EDD 8/29/13
Mar. '13 - Missed m/c at 16w1d, baby boy stopped growing at 15w4d
Loss due to umbilical cord clot...baby was perfect.
Jul '13 - FET#1 - c/p
Sept. '13 - FET#2 - BFN
Dec.' 2, 2013 - FET#3 with our last chance embie - BFP!!!
Dec' 26, 2013 - hb!!
EDD 8/20/14 with a baby girl!
Little S was born on 8/21/14 - 8lb, 14 oz and 20 inches long.
We live in Seattle and used SRM for our donor egg IVF cycle
Edited to remove the pervy winky-face next to the question about what I am wearing. No idea how THAT happened ...
SUPER late to this game, but I'm doing it anyway since I'm trying to get back into being an active member of this board!
1. What are your favorite websites, blogs, news spots, etc. on the web? Share a few links to sites you love! This can be anything, no necessarily (but can be) kid, TTC, pregnancy, baby, etc. related.
Honestly I've had so little time to be online lately, I don't have much to contribute here.
2. What do you hope to get for xmas? Do you have something picked out for your SO?
S's Mom is giving us swimming lessons at the Y for Gabe (with us, of course).
I would LOVE to get an automatic car starter for my car, and our parents typically give us a check, so it's feasible. Living in MN without a heated garage, parking on the street, PLUS a kid in a carseat, AND a pump bag to cart to and from work every day ... well ... that car starter is kind of a must.
With the job switch and the kid, I no longer travel for work and we won't be traveling for pleasure very much (except to visit family) so I cashed in a lot of hotel points and ordered the Vitamix blender that S has been wanting for YEARS. I can't WAIT to have her open it.
3. What are your favorite childhood holiday tv specials?
Not really holiday related, but they were always aired around the holidays - The Sound of Music, and Oklahoma. Yeah, I'm a musicals geek.
4. What are you wearing right now
My favorite gray striped cashmere sweater and black pants.
5. What are you up to this weekend?
It's S's birthday, though she has to work and we don't have any special plans. But we have friends that want to get together and share their hoard of craft beers, so THAT is exciting.
Bonus: Any PIP you'd like to share!
I'm so bad at PIP, but I'll give it a shot. Here is one of the very few shots of the 3 of us (and though it looks like it, I promise S is NOT punching Gabe in the head)!

Married to my amazing wife 6/12/10
TTC since 6/11
Unmedicated IUI #1 - 6/28/11 - BFN
Unmedicated IUI #2 - 7/25/11 - BFN
Robotic Myomectomy (Fibroid Surgery) - 11/15/11
Unmedicated IUI #3 - 4/24/12 - BFN
Progesterone Supported Leuteal Phase IUI #4 - 6/21/12 - BFP!!
Baby Boy G Born 3/24/13
On to #2, are we crazy?
IUI #1 - 11/28/14 - BFP! Beta #1 (11DPO) 34, Beta #2 (13DPO) 101, Beta #3 (20DPO) 3043
Ultrasound at 6w4d shows a single, fluttering heartbeat. Say hello to Sticky Ricki!