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When did you know?

deebride1020deebride1020 member
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When did you ladies know when it was time to leave your relationship? I just feel like my husband and I completely are disconnected and after the blow out we had tonight I just really don't think this will work.
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  • momof2buggsmomof2buggs member
    When the heartache of being without him became less than the heartache of being with him. That's when I left him. That was almost 3 years ago, and I never looked back. *Hugs* 
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  • 20thirteen20thirteen member
    :( I'm sorry to hear that.

    My BD was getting distant and I didn't have the same feelings for him like when we first met.  I just didn't have the balls to end the relationship.  And then when I got pregnant, I figured we'd do what we could to figure out what was best for the baby and then I would tell him it was over.  That's not how it played out, but we did break up.
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  • inthelostinthelost member
    he left me when i got pregnant...
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  • SimpleComplexitySimpleComplexity member
    When I'd go days without hearing from him when we used to talk all day every day.
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  • pregokatpregokat member
    wish I could help ya, 
    I kicked mine to the curb before I found out I was pregnant. 
    I haven't seen him face to face since that day. 
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  • blueyedsweety28blueyedsweety28 member
    he's an alcoholic .. when I realized there was no changing that .. 
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  • mamaHippo23mamaHippo23 member

    When I realized how easily I could live without him and how much I'd rather be on my own. Try mentally erasing him from your life and think about how you would cope with doing it alone. I had a moment when I felt absolutely confident that I would be a better person, a better mother, and have a better future if I got out of this relationship. Even after I felt sure, I still waited a little longer just to give it more thought and avoid doing anything impulsive. I also realized that we had some fundamental differences in values and it became obvious neither of us were ever going to be satisfied.

     

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  • rmajbusinessrmajbusiness member
    Today. After being told I posses no parenting skills, that he could buy me, and I am a project b*tc*. I'm crying because it hurts, but I know a verbally abusive relationship is not ok, nor how I need to bring my LO into this world
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  • inthelostinthelost member
    you do NOT want your child around that, rmajbusiness. oh my god. i think you should have the right to bitch slap him...seriously...*hugs* please feel better!
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  • Kathy1013Kathy1013 member
    My ex was just an all around asshole? He would make nasty comments like yours did OP, but I was with him for so long I felt like I had no other option but to stay. He cheated over and over again, I finally kicked him out then I found out I was pregnant and stupidly took him back. After my daughter was born I didn't want her to see me sad and cry over her dad, and thought to myself I would never want her to think it's ok for a man to treat her like this. I kicked him out for good November 1st (DD was born Oct 22)
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