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Spicing up baby making?

barelybarely member
edited December 2013 in Babies on the Brain
Ok, so my husband and I have been TTC for 7 months. For me it has been no big deal, even when we were trying to do the BD every other day. But for my husband I think it's kind of taken the fun out of it. Has anyone faced this and how did you deal with it? I know I need to spice things up, but I have tried a few things and I'm running out of ideas.
TTC since 5/13
BFP 1/23 
MMC 3/4
D&C-3/12 
Currently NTNP
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Re: Spicing up baby making?

  • annibesannibes member
    Good luck, is all I can say. We've been TTC #2 for over 3 years so all the magic is gone for now. For the first year or so I just didn't tell him when it was baby or plain fun, but he's smart and figured out the patterns, haha.
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  • barelybarely member
    edited December 2013
    @joy2611 lol no, it def. isn't like that! And I haven't been temping but am planning to try it next cycle. And it really isn't just baby making to me, so even if I temp I don't think things will change in that area lol
    TTC since 5/13
    BFP 1/23 
    MMC 3/4
    D&C-3/12 
    Currently NTNP
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  • SmallllminSmallllmin member
    Get some new lingerie :) it'll make you feel awesome, too!

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    **Tinymin born 8/14 @35w1d**
    "Annnnnnd you win the award for best SN evar." -LindsRockies

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  • cleaneatingmamacleaneatingmama member
    Remember the days of good ol' raunchy sex??!! Bring those days back! Don't even think of babies! Drink some wine, have sloppy, loud sex and enjoy! :)
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  • barelybarely member
    @cleaneatingmama....hahaha we do that now. Perhaps we need to do it more often LOL.
    TTC since 5/13
    BFP 1/23 
    MMC 3/4
    D&C-3/12 
    Currently NTNP
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  • SmallllminSmallllmin member
    Kimbus22 said:
    I'm pretty sure my son was conceived when I was dressed like a pirate...
    Omg amazing. 

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    Dx: Vasa Previa w/DS1
    **Tinymin born 8/14 @35w1d**
    "Annnnnnd you win the award for best SN evar." -LindsRockies

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  • foreverapartofmeforeverapartofme member
    You should give each other massages and ease your way into so it is a fun relaxing thing.  Also, I personally love to purchase a trojan vibrating ring and use those every so often during sex.  Both my DH and I love how it feels and you can buy those at walmart, cvs, target... pretty much wherever.  Have fun!
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  • dogperson11dogperson11 member
    Kimbus22 said:

    I'm pretty sure my son was conceived when I was dressed like a pirate...

    This is the best thing that I've come across all day. Thank you!
    Married November 2009
    Clara, August 2014 
    Baby Boy due October 2017
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