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*sigh* why am I doing this?

LuckyJuJuLuckyJuJu member
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As I lay here in bed with sore aching ovaries trying to relax for ER tomorrow, I hear my DD going.... "Mooooom"

*sigh*

She is 16. Has a car. Has a job. She also has strep throat. She tested positive today. I told her I can't come in contact with her so I quarantined myself in my room. I did bring her ice cream, Tylenol, throat lozenges, Gatorade, chloroseptic spray and put them on the couch.

She insists on yelling. Is refusing any of the medicine but wants me to know she is dying.

Why exactly am I putting my "old" lady eggs through this again?
M:36/DH:43
DD#1:16/DD#2:13
TTC: since 08/2012
IUI: met with clinic 01/13 - due to SA results - straight to IVF
IVF Cycle 1: Long Lupron Protocol with fresh transfer and ICSI
Baseline U/S 11/27/2013 - Lining 3mm and good to go go stim action!

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  • pettycrockerpettycrocker member
    Girl, I ask myself this almost every day and my kid is only 2. I feel like every person on the planet has to question themselves at some point when they are considering having MORE kids. It's like really? Freaking kids are hard. 

    We're doing it because we love our kids LJJ. It's because WE LOVE THEM. 


    Spontaneous pregnancy #1
    DD1 July 31, 2011

    Trying for #2 since Oct 11
    732973 Clomid Cycles
    2 IUIs 
    3 Fresh IVFs= 1 Ectopic treated with MTX
    Spontaneous pregnancy #2= Ectopic #2= lost left tube
    Spontaneous pregnancy #3= DD2 January 29, 2016
    Spontaneous pregnancy #4= Ectopic #3
    Spontaneous pregnancy #5= Baby #3 is a BOY!!! 



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  • SnowflakeBride06SnowflakeBride06 member
    You did all the right things now she has to do the rest! Rest those ovaries! If yours are old mine are getting there ;-(


     6/09 right tube loss (fallopian torsion) 12/09 BFP #1 (DD born 9/10)
    8/12 dx Lupus (ANA+/APA-), 12/12 BFP #2  natural m/c 6w 2d 
    TTC#2  since 9/12  50mg Clomid/Ovidrel IUI #1 Beta 10/4=BFN
                                 50mg Clomid/Ovidrel IUI #2 Beta 11/1= BFN
                                      100 mg Clomid/Ovidrel IUI #3 Beta 12/26=BFFN
    100 mg Clomid/Ovidrel IUI #4 Beta 2/14= BFFN
    Took a LONG Break
    Lots of Luck and Love BFPB for life KOFMKG
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  • LuckyJuJuLuckyJuJu member
    :) thanks ladies. I don't know what I will do when she graduates. My dh (not her father) thinks I coddle her too much :) I don't really care though. I am super protective.

    Children and babies are hard. Having babies is hard. Nature is a bey itch to pump us full of chemicals that make us want to reproduce.... But it is necessary though :)

    I just want a baby, to love to hold to teach how to say the perfect phrase to drive my husband crazy ;/

    Man I hope my retrieval goes well tomorrow. My anxiety disorder can't decide if it should fill my brain with visions of empty follicle syndrome or premature ovulation. So I may try and go to sleep before it picks one!
    M:36/DH:43
    DD#1:16/DD#2:13
    TTC: since 08/2012
    IUI: met with clinic 01/13 - due to SA results - straight to IVF
    IVF Cycle 1: Long Lupron Protocol with fresh transfer and ICSI
    Baseline U/S 11/27/2013 - Lining 3mm and good to go go stim action!

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  • KC1212KC1212 member
    Good luck!

    I'm 27 and I still want my mom when I'm sick! :) lol.

    I tell people all the time you just can't replace "Dr. Mom" !
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    Me: 27 DH: 33
    Married 6 years
    Conceived DS after 4 years of MFI

    TTC # 2 (not trying,not preventing ever)
    May 2013 - August 2013 Timed Intercourse = BFN
    September 2013 Timed Intercourse, Weekly Acupuncture, Herbs=BFN
    October 2013 Timed Intercourse, Weekly Acupuncture, Herbs, and "warming foods" = BFP
    Beta #1 19, Beta #2 18 Progesterone 4.6 Miscarried 11/9/13
    November 2013 - Benched, waiting for first post-loss AF.
    No longer benched per New RE/OB!
    Jan. 15 2014 - BFP. HCG 3900 - Ectopic :( 
    Jan. 16 2014 Left tube removed and D&C
    March 2, 2014 First AF


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  • CheesyPeasCheesyPeas member
    I hope retrieval goes well tomorrow and that DD feels better soon!
    November 2010 - 10.5 week loss  o:) 
    October 2011 - DS (7)  <3 
    July 2014 - Stillborn DD (24 weeks)  o:) 
    August 2015 - DD (3)  <3 
    April 2018 - 5 week loss o:) 

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  • freakyfastfreakyfast member
    Good Luck on retrieval today! Hope your DS is feeling better! Make sure you let us know how it goes. 



      


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  • tuscanbride2007tuscanbride2007 member
    Good luck today!

    BFP #1 12.24.07 - DD born @ 39w1d on 08.26.08
    BFP #2 08.04.11 - DD born still @ 37w3d on 03.25.12

    Lilypie Angel and Memorial tickers

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    TTC #3 since May 2012

    BFP #3 12.29.12 - CP @ 4w2d on 01.02.13
    BFP #4 10.17.13 - CP @ 4w2d on 10.23.13
    BFP #5 04.06.14 - MMC 05.07.14

    No longer trying to conceive.

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  • Momarazzi007Momarazzi007 member
    Thinking nod you you! Hope ER went well and daughter is feeling better!!!
    January 2007- Stop BCP! Let's DO this!
    June 2010- MFI. BS. IVF! Ectopic. BS. image

    November 2010- FAILED FET! BS!
    January 2011- BFP FET! TWINS!     February 2011- lost twin. BS. image

    SEPTEMBER 2011- DD Born! Most awesome girl in the world!
    November 2013- FAILED FET! BS! (screw you November FETs)
    April Fresh Cycle, FAILED. Frozen embryos frozen for future FETs.
    FROZEN CYCLE JUNE! BFP
    BABY BOY VINCENT!
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    We can't wait to meet you!
    Conception:image    imageimage Potato Love!

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  • Jen071407Jen071407 member
    Hope ER went well!!

    Two DDs 10/08 and 08/10, no primary IF
    TTC #3 since 10/2011 - dx unexplained/weak ovulation
     3 BFN clomid + TI cycles, 5 BFN clomid/gonal f IUIs, 1 mmc IUI
    2/19/2014 IVF #1 Unexpected low E2 (oversuppressed) -> increased to max doses = 3 or 4 follicles, converting to IUI
    BFFP Saw 1 beautiful heartbeat at 6w6d, follow up u/s at 9w showed mmc. Eff this.
    NTNP 5/2014-9/2014, OPKs and TI 10/2014 - 1/2015. 
    RPL testing all normal, AFC, AMH, and FSH all normal. 
    IVF 1.2 1/22/2014 natural cycle start, AFC 28, 300 gonal f/150menopur. 
    ER 2/3/15 14R 8M 3F w/ICSI Day 5 transfer on 2/8/15 of one "Grade A+" blast and have TWO frosties! 

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  • LuckyJuJuLuckyJuJu member
    Got 4 :) my dd wants me to cook her lunch when I get home.... Ha ha ha. She can make Mac and cheese I think. She should be feeling better by now on the antibiotics.
    M:36/DH:43
    DD#1:16/DD#2:13
    TTC: since 08/2012
    IUI: met with clinic 01/13 - due to SA results - straight to IVF
    IVF Cycle 1: Long Lupron Protocol with fresh transfer and ICSI
    Baseline U/S 11/27/2013 - Lining 3mm and good to go go stim action!

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