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Another reminder....

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Today my hospital called to remind me that tomorrow me and the DH were supposed to be at our parenting class. I totally forgot all about reserving us for the class. And I had to get that message, just like a few weeks back I got the call to remind me of my breast feeding class. It's like damn!!! Speaking with my mother today she said that she has 3 women who work under her who are all due around he same time as me. They have a gathering next week where she doesn't want to go but with them being her subordinates she feels she needs to attend. It was like this last year when we lost EJ she had a secretary that was due the same day as me . On,y her second in command knows that I lost our daughter but I see that it's not just me that has a reminder. We lost our child but I'm my mothers only child and she lost her grandchildren.
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Re: Another reminder....

  • OSUWifey09OSUWifey09 member
    ***SIGGY***




    Last year, I got a reminder call about my birthing class the day after we lost Devon. I had totally forgotten about that class; having to explain what happened was so awkward and heartbreaking. I also had to call and cancel our diaper order from The Honest Company, because they were due to ship out Devon's first set of diapers the week after his loss; that phone call sucked, too. Those reminders blow so much. :(

    Honestly, if your mom isn't up to going, she shouldn't have to go. My mom stayed away from all things baby for awhile after we lost Devon, because the loss tore her apart, too. I hope your mom is able to step away if she feels she needs to.

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  • mingaling2mingaling2 member
    Those reminders are like daggers to the heart. I'm sorry. {hugs}

     
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    I'm so sorry, those reminders are awful.  Months prior I had ordered a free baby proofing kit, and it arrived, of course, the very day we got home from the hospital.
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  • VyD81VyD81 member
    I'm so sorry, hugs.
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  • sunflwrasunflwra member
    So sorry for this.  I know these things will sneak up on us from time to time and it's just horrible. Hugs :)

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  • AJCagle82AJCagle82 member
    I'm sorry you got that call. I hate the little reminders we never see coming. It really is like a dagger. 
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  • diamante1181diamante1181 member
    I'm so sorry. My reminder this week was the hospital bill.
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  • stefugestefuge member
    I'm so sorry. ((Hugs))
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  • irons633irons633 member
    Thank you ladies!! @diamante1181 yes I'm still looking at the hospital bills like wow!!
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  • TwinkleTorTwinkleTor member
    When I talk to my mom she tells me how hurt she feels when she talks to new grandparents. I'm her oldest, and Domenik is her first grandchild. My mom shares a lot of the same jealousy, envy, anger, and pain as I do. I talk to her a lot when I'm feeling depressed.

    Sorry you being reminded so frequently. Hoping next week is better. I have my EDD today, Angelversary tomorrow, and we are getting married on Friday. All these things have Domenik so prominent in my mind, it sucks and I just want to get out of my head. My heart is even physically hurting with all the milestones.

    Thoughts and prayers for you! XO
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  • cawettigcawettig member
    I am so sorry, those reminders hurt so bad {{{{{{{BIG HUGS}}}}}}}

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  • irons633irons633 member
    Thank you ladies!! @diamante1181 yes I'm still looking at the hospital bills like wow!!
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  • irons633irons633 member
    edited December 2013
    When I talk to my mom she tells me how hurt she feels when she talks to new grandparents. I'm her oldest, and Domenik is her first grandchild. My mom shares a lot of the same jealousy, envy, anger, and pain as I do. I talk to her a lot when I'm feeling depressed. Sorry you being reminded so frequently. Hoping next week is better. I have my EDD today, Angelversary tomorrow, and we are getting married on Friday. All these things have Domenik so prominent in my mind, it sucks and I just want to get out of my head. My heart is even physically hurting with all the milestones. Thoughts and prayers for you! XO
    @TwinkeTor I am so sorry you have those milestones this week. Congrats in your upcoming nuptials, even though I know it will be hard because you will be thinking of your precious baby Domenik. Yes my mom has those feelings also especially when she sees grandparents with their grand babies. I also talk to my mom when I'm feeling down. Many hugs to you!!
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  • irons633irons633 member
    Thank you @cawettig :)
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  • mingaling2mingaling2 member
    @diamante1181  Sorry. I had just stuffed it under a bunch of papers in our office to ignore it and forgot all about it.  This week the hospital called regarding payment. I am not known for not paying bills on time, so I felt embarrassed and shameful as well as sad.  This all just sucks.

     
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  • bunnybun4bunnybun4 member
    so sorry you are having to deal with this.  hugs.

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