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Living up to the title of this board...

emilystadtheremilystadther member
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I guess I could say this is my intro...I have been looking at this board for a week or so and I guess it is just one of those days. I had an unexpected pregnancy with lose in August. I was only about 5-6 weeks along. My OB said the earliest she wants to see me back in would be December but My husband and I decided to wait because we want to be really ready. So we decided to wait until the summer before I get off the pill again. But right now, all i want to do is get off the pill and start trying. My miscarriage has been the hardest thing I have ever been through and when I was going through it all I wanted to do was wait years but now all I want to do is start trying because in the back of my head I am so worried; what if this happens again? what it takes a while? We had a plan and right now, i hate plans. Thanks ladies for listening to me vent! I don't who else has been in this boat but would love advice...My brain is literally all baby!
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Re: Living up to the title of this board...

  • capinjen152capinjen152 member
    Sorry to hear about your loss. I suggest talking to your husband about this and seeing if he is willing to bump up your timeline or not.

    Also, change your screenname if it is your real name. You don't know who is reading about you.
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  • lifeonthehilllifeonthehill member
    I suffered an early loss as well. It was horrible timing, unplanned and we were in no way ready for a baby then. It didn't matter. It hurt us so badly and I wanted to start to try. We agreed then no TTC until we were better financially, married and both of us were ready. That happens to be next December. I am going crazy with wanting to try but I know I want us both on board fully and I want to be as stable as possible.

    Keep hobbies. I started playing piano and it has been a life saver. Whenever I feel sad or anxious about anything I sit down and practice. I work on finances and I watch a lot of netflix as well. My mind wanders when I read so I avoid that. Find what works for you.

    As far as wanting to try earlier maybe you guys could meet halfway? So say you want Dec. and he wants June then start at the end of March?
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