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I'm so weird.

CeCe8579CeCe8579 member
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I mean some of you have probably realized that by now, haha! I actually love my weirdness! Random confession coming.... I cope with SIF by thinking of baby names....weird!!!! How do you cope? I have gotten tattoos in the past but I'm broke so that's not an option for a coping mechanism right now. I like to shoot stuff too! It really relieves stress. 
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  • pettycrockerpettycrocker member
    Well I was coping through non stop shopping, but I have to put the kibosh on that. Now, IDK? I'm just trying to focus on taking care of myself and staying positive. I've been reading more lately too.

    I'm always coming up with baby names!  


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  • CeCe8579CeCe8579 member
    Mrs Castillo said:
    Well I was coping through non stop shopping, but I have to put the kibosh on that. Now, IDK? I'm just trying to focus on taking care of myself and staying positive. I've been reading more lately too.

    I'm always coming up with baby names!  
    I've caught myself wanting to buy baby stuff but then my DH puts a stop to it. I still want to. I am trying to focus on taking care of myself and focusing on my family too. I have been stuck on RHWs of any season, haha! 
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  • KC1212KC1212 member
    I've also had the urge to buy baby stuff! And then I'm like wtf is wrong with me!? Lol glad it's not just me.

    I also shop, drink during AF, clean (like obsessively sometimes) get manicures, decorate (the house), read, write, and watch bad reality tv
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  • CeCe8579CeCe8579 member
    KC1212 said:
    I've also had the urge to buy baby stuff! And then I'm like wtf is wrong with me!? Lol glad it's not just me. I also shop, drink during AF, clean (like obsessively sometimes) get manicures, decorate (the house), read, write, and watch bad reality tv
    I clean obsessively, watch bad reality TV and drink during AF too. 
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  • chrissynenachrissynena member
    I shop, it's out of control. Lol. I always am thinking of baby names, H makes fun of me so I stopped telling him.

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    Mrs Castillo said:

    Well I was coping through non stop shopping, but I have to put the kibosh on that. Now, IDK? I'm just trying to focus on taking care of myself and staying positive. I've been reading more lately too.


    I'm always coming up with baby names!  
    I bought a pack and play last night :-/
    It's an addiction and I can't help it. Lol I'm also a buyer (-;
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  • Jen071407Jen071407 member
    Gah the shopping. Oh the shopping! I also bump when I should be cleaning/cooking/working/playing with my kids. I've got baby names chosen, and I actually try not to think about them bc it makes me sad...so add denial to my list?! I also read. Like obsessively throw myself into a book to escape the real world. :|

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  • mrsgabusmrsgabus member
    edited December 2013
    Sounds like me,

    I bump, facebook, make up baby names, throw myself into a book. Online shop , and occasionally get a tattoo

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  • CeCe8579CeCe8579 member
    It sounds like we all have shopping in common as a coping mechanism!
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  • lcloffredolcloffredo member
    When you guy shop what gender do you buy for? I always find myself looking at boy stuff but I try to stay gender neutral :)
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  • +SouthernMomma++SouthernMomma+ member

    @lcloffredo I definitely stay on team blue! lol... But I do buy everything gender neutral just in case.

     

    Btw, add a Car Seat to my list of recent purchases.

    NO SHAME!  Lol

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  • tachetache member
    Add me to the shopping list! I've also really gotten into doing DIY projects. The only problem is I'm terrible at it. I tried to make DS an advent calendar to occupy my mind and save money. It turned out terrible and probably cost more than a pre-made one because I had no idea what I was doing so I just kept buying stuff to try and fix it.
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