I had never gotten a real professional massage until this past summer. I got a hot stone one and it was insane! So good! It was my Mother's Day gift but I didn't take it until right before school started.
Fantasy, I wasn't too get the loan for the restaurant short notice, sell my crappy house for more than I paid (possibility b/c I bought it foreclosed), move back to WI, and finally be reading above water financially and not have to live paycheck to paycheck ever again.
For real I want my husband to actually get me a Christmas gift that I didn't have to pick out or buy myself. I don't even care what it is our even if I can ever use it.
Or I wasn't a Kitchenaid 6q Stand mixer. Not going to happen though because we just had to get the new washer and dryer.
Fantasy, I wasn't too get the loan for the restaurant short notice, sell my crappy house for more than I paid (possibility b/c I bought it foreclosed), move back to WI, and finally be reading above water financially and not have to live paycheck to paycheck ever again.
For real I want my husband to actually get me a Christmas gift that I didn't have to pick out or buy myself. I don't even care what it is our even if I can ever use it.
Or I wasn't a Kitchenaid 6q Stand mixer. Not going to happen though because we just had to get the new washer and dryer.
Watch for deals after Xmas for that! I'm pretty sure Kohl's sells them and they always have ridiculous after-holiday sales and there's always coupons floating around - you may be able to get one for cheap!
Fantasy? A new job for my husband and a new house (hopefully not fantasy for too much longer, but fantasy for Christmas at least).
For real- a gift card for a massage. I hold all my tension in my neck and shoulders, and there has been a lot of tension lately
I've been thinking of you! I hope everything is okay with you and your hubby. And I can't think of anyone more who deserves a nice massage!
Fantasy- I wouldn't HAVE to go back to work and could just be a SAHM and have more babies, or only go back to work part time if/when I want to. (Sorry about spacing- on my iPad here). For real- be able to get into this house we're buying quickly so we can rent ours out and be able to do the renovations cheaply (my DH and I do it ourselves) cause there's not much in the bank account. And I'm thankful that DS is too young to ever remember not having an extravagant Christmas.
For reals: massage, for my three speed to be fixed and for a bike caddy for DD. I won't be able to bike much until Easter but I'm super excited for it!
Fantasy: 2 acres of land with a South facing slope and a spring.
Fantasy - a week long vacation somewhere warm, with DS, but an angelic, good sleeping version of him.
Reality - I would really like the Japanese straightening treatment done on my hair so that it could be wash and go. I hate all forms of primping and barely have time for it, but I also hate looking homeless.
Fantasy- I wouldn't HAVE to go back to work and could just be a SAHM and have more babies, or only go back to work part time if/when I want to. (Sorry about spacing- on my iPad here). For real- be able to get into this house we're buying quickly so we can rent ours out and be able to do the renovations cheaply (my DH and I do it ourselves) cause there's not much in the bank account. And I'm thankful that DS is too young to ever remember not having an extravagant Christmas.
YES to the above. That's my ultimate fantasy.
I also often daydream of getting a hotel room, drinking as much wine as I want to, sleeping in as long as I possibly can, and watching any and all of the trashy TV that I can handle.
Fantasy? A new job for my husband and a new house (hopefully not fantasy for too much longer, but fantasy for Christmas at least).
For real- a gift card for a massage. I hold all my tension in my neck and shoulders, and there has been a lot of tension lately
I've been thinking of you! I hope everything is okay with you and your hubby. And I can't think of anyone more who deserves a nice massage!
Thank you Things are a lot better. He is going to regular counseling appointments and seeing his family doctor for depression. His doctor also put him on an antidepressant. Overall DH seems to be in a better mood lately, and not in denial anymore that he needs help. His job still sucks though, and job searching has not turned anything up yet. Hopefully the new year will be better.
PCOS with long, irregular cycles First round of Clomid in May 2012= BFP #1, DD born January 2013 BFP #2 in January 2014, DS born September 2014
Fantasy? A new job for my husband and a new house (hopefully not fantasy for too much longer, but fantasy for Christmas at least).
For real- a gift card for a massage. I hold all my tension in my neck and shoulders, and there has been a lot of tension lately
I've been thinking of you! I hope everything is okay with you and your hubby. And I can't think of anyone more who deserves a nice massage!
Thank you Things are a lot better. He is going to regular counseling appointments and seeing his family doctor for depression. His doctor also put him on an antidepressant. Overall DH seems to be in a better mood lately, and not in denial anymore that he needs help. His job still sucks though, and job searching has not turned anything up yet. Hopefully the new year will be better.
Oh I am so glad!!
I'm sure with the new year there will be plenty of new job opportunities! My DH is putting out feelers for a different job as well.
Fantasy: I wish there were two of me so that one could provide loving care (and boob) to DS while the other me gets a massage and reads magazines at the spa without worrying about DS' naps or nursing schedule.
Oh, and I wish my hair would hurry up and grow back so I wouldn't have these random tiny pieces of postpartum hair regrowth sticking up everywhere.
Real- scrapbooking supplies! I've been so wanting to put some together. I'm also kind of hoping for a gift card- preferably visa. I would need money to print out photos, and it would also be nice to do a little bit of clothes shopping for myself. So any of these, really would do.
Fantasy- a home. I really just want to put my baby in a nice, afforadable home. I want him to have his own room. And I want a pool, while we're in fantasy land.
Fantasy: a beach vacation just the three of us (DD, DH and Myself). While I am dreaming I would like us to magically arrive there without having any travel time!
Reality: A gift card to Victoria Secret so I can treat myself to nice new bras once I am done BFing!
Fantasy: a beach vacation just the three of us (DD, DH and Myself). While I am dreaming I would like us to magically arrive there without having any travel time!
Reality: A gift card to Victoria Secret so I can treat myself to nice new bras once I am done BFing!
Nice! I worked there in college for three years and it has spoiled me on nice bras for life!
Fantasy- I'm on board with a spa day (mani/pedi/massage/haircut/color) and then a night in a fancy hotel with DH ordering room service and lots of wine without having to worry about pump and dump.
Reality- for my baby to finally STTN bc DEAR LORD I am a crazy person after almost 10 months of sleep deprivation. Actually I usually function pretty well at this point but still, I would kill for a full night! (I might as well put this in fantasy thought bc soooo not gonna happen). Maybe also a gift card to go on a date night? Idk I'm boring, all I want is for my kid to freaking sleep :P edit - sorry about the huge text block, I'm on my iPad!
Reality: Cash. Super boring, I know, but boy would it make my life a bit less stressful right now... Some new clothes would be nice too. Haven't gone shopping for myself in a while.
Fantasy: A 2-story home with at least 3 bedrooms and a front and back yard in the city not the suburbs.
Reality: Cash. Super boring, I know, but boy would it make my life a bit less stressful right now... Some new clothes would be nice too. Haven't gone shopping for myself in a while.
Fantasy: A 2-story home with at least 3 bedrooms and a front and back yard in the city not the suburbs.
I'm still wearing maternity clothes because my boobs and belly are too big for pre prego clothes and I haven't found anything that fits. Or looks nice. Or can afford. *sigh* I miss new clothes. And zippers.
Fantasy- pay off student loans and truck note se we would have and extra 1k a month. Move back home to New Orleans. A day job. For my mom to get a better job (she just had to take a huge pay cut and now has to travel 40 minutes one way because she's not young enough to retire)
Reality - new running shoes and dslr camera, but I know the camera isn't happening
Fantasy- pay off student loans and truck note se we would have and extra 1k a month. Move back home to New Orleans. A day job. For my mom to get a better job (she just had to take a huge pay cut and now has to travel 40 minutes one way because she's not young enough to retire)
Reality - new running shoes and dslr camera, but I know the camera isn't happening
Re: What do you want for Xmas?
For real- a gift card for a massage. I hold all my tension in my neck and shoulders, and there has been a lot of tension lately
First round of Clomid in May 2012= BFP #1, DD born January 2013
BFP #2 in January 2014, DS born September 2014
For real I want my husband to actually get me a Christmas gift that I didn't have to pick out or buy myself. I don't even care what it is our even if I can ever use it.
Or I wasn't a Kitchenaid 6q Stand mixer. Not going to happen though because we just had to get the new washer and dryer.
Reality: I want a spa gift card. Or a liquor store gift card lol. Or liquor to drink while at the spa.
Fantasy: 2 acres of land with a South facing slope and a spring.
Reality - I would really like the Japanese straightening treatment done on my hair so that it could be wash and go. I hate all forms of primping and barely have time for it, but I also hate looking homeless.
I like cookies.
Thank you
First round of Clomid in May 2012= BFP #1, DD born January 2013
BFP #2 in January 2014, DS born September 2014
Oh I am so glad!!
I'm sure with the new year there will be plenty of new job opportunities! My DH is putting out feelers for a different job as well.
Oh, and I wish my hair would hurry up and grow back so I wouldn't have these random tiny pieces of postpartum hair regrowth sticking up everywhere.
Fantasy- a home. I really just want to put my baby in a nice, afforadable home. I want him to have his own room. And I want a pool, while we're in fantasy land.
a cast iron griddle
a new coat
an Excalibur dehydrator
fantasy - a cleaning lady who comes once a week
reality: not sure? we don't usually do presents (weird, I know). we prefer to treat ourselves year-round.
Reality: I asked for Just Dance 2014 and several bottles of sriracha.
DS born: February 2013
TTC #2: Nov. 14
Chemical pregnancy 09/16/15
BFP: 12/25/15 EDD: 09/04/16