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salsamommy · December 2013

2 Days in a row of drama!

This one's been replaced by porn!

https://forums.thebump.com/discussion/12184923/my-husband-replaced-me-with-porn

brideandbreve · December 2013

I want to click on this so bad, but I'm at work.

My office is laid back, but I don't know if I could explain away reading a thread called, "My husband replaced me with p0rn."

Boo.

Munchie2.0 · December 2013

So what does that make couples who watch it together?!? *gasp* lol

I haven't clicked on it yet... Sooo interested

salsamommy · December 2013

@BabyKezar So far it seems like that question has been avoided! But one girl on here tells her husband not to "get off" because "Jesus is Watching"! I can't stop laughing out loud!

I'm glad I'm alone in the office right now!

Munchie2.0 · December 2013

Lol! I am on page 2... I kinda want to post something like -solution: make a porn for him to watch of yourself! Hahaha

I stand corrected! It has been suggested to watch it together-

cnwilbur1030 · December 2013

Maybe I should post this in UO, but I kinda have a problem with porn. Not like I watch and have an addiction but I'm not ok with it. For DH and I (and remember DH is a pastor) we try to think of "whatever is true, whatever is right, ... whatever is pure... Think of these things." Philippians 4:8. For us, porn doesnt fall into these categories and actually hurt them. That's us though, and I understand not everyone thinks the same nor do I think I can push that on everyone. So don't flame too hard!

Edit: posted mid thought

Munchie2.0 · December 2013

Kinda curious as to what peoples thoughts are regarding making your own naughty video...

I much rather dh get off to me than porn and I am sure he feels the same way

@cnwilbur1030- I think you said it perfectly! not your thing, and can't change someones opinion

Siblynika · December 2013

I don't see anything wrong with porn. Looks like I may be the minority here. I can see how the OP is upset that her husband opts FOR porn over sexy time with his wife- but that by no means, means he's "emotionally damaged" or has an addiction- maybe it's a marital problem.

I do, however, think the woman who keeps her husband from masturbating by telling him Jesus is watching is an absolute hoot.

Winnieella · December 2013

Porn isn't my thing but I don't care what other people do with it since it doesn't affect me.

With that, if my H couldn't have sex with me without thinking of porn stars I would he a bit hurt but wife H is more vanilla than me I don't think I have to worry.

Hkula · December 2013

I'm dying laughing over this comment...

"So he shot off some knuckle- children to a hot blonde? "

MrsGraham06 · December 2013

I think my H is the only one who doesn't watch porn. Like ever. He doesn't do strip clubs either. He'd rather have the real deal and wait as long as he needs, than take care of things himself. Works for me

(besides while pregnant, we usually have a very active, healthy sex life)

brideandbreve · December 2013

Siblynika said:

I don't see anything wrong with porn. Looks like I may be the minority here. I can see how the OP is upset that her husband opts FOR porn over sexy time with his wife- but that by no means, means he's "emotionally damaged" or has an addiction- maybe it's a marital problem. I do, however, think the woman who keeps her husband from masturbating by telling him Jesus is watching is an absolute hoot.

I'm with you. Porn doesn't bother me.

I firmly believe that couples have to be on the same page when it comes to stuff like pornography. If you are a woman who is insulted, intimidated, or made uncomfortable by porn, then I feel your husband has to be of the same mentality, otherwise this sort of situation is going to come up at some point or another.

As for the masturbation comment, LMAO.. really?

megngregk · December 2013

cnwilbur1030 said:

Maybe I should post this in UO, but I kinda have a problem with porn. Not like I watch and have an addiction but I'm not ok with it. For DH and I (and remember DH is a pastor) we try to think of "whatever is true, whatever is right, ... whatever is pure... Think of these things." Philippians 4:8. For us, porn doesnt fall into these categories and actually hurt them. That's us though, and I understand not everyone thinks the same nor do I think I can push that on everyone. So don't flame too hard! Edit: posted mid thought

I think this situation is completely different, and nobody would flame you for feeling this way due to religious beliefs. I certainly hope not, at least.

For the one poster to say that those who have watch porn have deep seeded wounds from their childhood is just bonkers. I can assure you, I have no issue of the sort, and I have zero problems with porn (assuming it is between consenting adults -- not something like child pornography, people sold into slavery, etc.). DH watches it, I watch it, we've occasionally watched it together. It's a personal thing, and obviously some people have legitimate problems, as it appears OP's H does, but the other woman is just crazy cakes.

EmeraldCity84 · December 2013

I think porn once in a while when things are in the slow lane is fine, but when your man is turning you down for that instead... that's a problem.

jnschutten · December 2013

My hubby doesn't watch it either. He prefers the real deal and thinks its disrespectful to women to do that.

MamaP19 · December 2013

Porn is an individual thing. I don't care if someone watches or doesn't, but I think it's a little naive for women to think that their H doesn't look at it ever. They just get better about deleting their search history if they know it upsets you. I know there are men that don't watch, but I really think the large majority indulge at least every once in a while.

But no masturbating? That's crazy talk.

slmille4 · December 2013

I watch with DH all the time, in fact if I looked at our cable bill I could prolly tell u which one LO was conceived to lol.
I didn't read the whole thing but feel bad if it's something couples can't communicate to each other that they watch, what they like, etc. I think THAT is what makes a healthy sex life with or without porn.

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