November 2013 Moms

Just found out our LO might have Cystic Fibrosis

I took N for his one month appointment yesterday and everything was great.  He's 90th percentile for height, 75th for weight and head circumference.  He has almost full head support and has gained almost 2 pounds in 3 weeks-- which is great for an EBF baby according to our pediatrician.  I left the appointment thinking everything is going great and DH and I are doing an awesome job with him.

When I was almost home I got a call from the pediatrician that she received the results of his state newborn screening in that day's mail.  (At this point I assumed she was just going to tell me everything was normal-- because honestly I never expected otherwise.)  She said she called because she wanted to talk to us before we got the results in the mail (so I knew something was off).  She said that N had an abnormal test result for CF and explained the testing procedures that we'll have to go through at the children's hospital in the next couple weeks to determine if he is just a carrier or if he has CF.  Luckily it's a sweat test and a blood test- so nothing too invasive.  But DH and I will also have to do genetic testing to determine whether just one of us is a carrier or if we both are.  

This is a total mindf**k for us.  We didn't have any genetic testing prior to pregnancy because no one in our family has any kind of health problems and we aren't of ancestry where there is any particular risk, so this is a total surprise to us.  Chances are 90% + he is just a carrier and won't have the disease or its symptoms because they only found one mutation and it isn't one that typically causes the disease.  Our main concern is that the mutation they did find is more rare (usually found in people of Ashkenzai Jewish heritage- which we are not) and usually doesn't result in a diagnosis until later in life so that fact that he seems perfectly healthy isn't reassuring.  Fingers crossed that he's just a carrier and that only DH or I is a carrier and not both!  The next couple weeks can't go by quickly enough.

DH and I aren't sharing the news with our families because our moms would freak out with worry-- so we plan to share once we know what is going on after further testing.  Thanks for letting me share here with someone.  If I didn't get it out somewhere I felt like I was going to explode!  
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Re: Just found out our LO might have Cystic Fibrosis

  • Oh wow. I'm so sorry. Hopefully it's not the disease. :(

    I would reconsider sharing with your families, or your mom if you are close. My son had 2 seizures in the NICU and I was going to keep it quiet while they did testing but I ended up telling my mom and sister and felt so much better with their support.
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  • Good luck!! I hope for very quick results. I also hope for either a mistake or a carrier diagnosis.
    Please keep us posted. You and LO will be in my thoughts.
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  • Thoughts and prayers. I hope you get the results quickly.
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  • Thinking of you. I found out I was a carrier of SMA when I was pregnant with my second and remember how horrible the wait was to find out if DH was also a carrier. I also understand not wanting to share what you know with your families, sometimes their anxiety can add to your stress. I told my best friend but not my family while we were waiting. Everything was good for us and prayers that it will be for your family too.
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  • I'll go with odds that your LO is simply a carrier, and thinking waaaay ahead he'll know and have options when he considers children. Hmmm, is there a family secret in someone's genetics? I have a coworker and my BFF with related experiences. Hang in there; I know the wait can be hard.

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  • Thoughts and prayers that everything comes out fine... So sorry you have to worry about this!
  • T&Ps for you and your family. I hope that he is only a carrier!
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  • Sending so many T&Ps for the best possible outcome. I work for a large children's hospital and nationwide, they all do an amazing job caring for kids who do have CF. You will be in excellent hands either way. I hope you get the very best news from the tests.

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  • Thinking of you guys!  Hope you get good news!

     

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  • Thanks for all the support ladies!  DH and I have a positive outlook on things today, which is more than I can say for my ugly cry fest that happened yesterday. We're considering telling my parents tomorrow (my mom is coming over to watch him for 2 or 3 hours so I can go to DH's game-- and she's going to wonder why I am not taking him like I usually do) since I think my parents can handle the news without freaking out.  

    I'll keep you ladies posted and hopefully have good news in a couple weeks!
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  • Oh, goodness! I'm so sorry you are going through this. I would probably do the same thing as far as telling your family. Sometimes their worry can cause more (unnecessary) stress for you. Thoughts & prayers for you. Please keep us posted...
  • Sorry you are going through this. Invoke everything works out. I will keep yall in my thoughts.

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  • Thoughts and prayers for your little one, you and your family!
  • ((((HUGS)))) I am so very sorry you are having to go through this extremely stressful time. I will say that they do make mistakes. There are any number of things that could have gone wrong. We received a letter saying the test results for our second daughter showed further tests were necessary. I of course freaked out! Turns out, the original test had gotten contaminated somehow. It took a week or two of worry but thank God it all turned out just fine. Hang in there Mama. I think it's great that you and your husband have each other to lean on!!!
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  • Aww, sorry to hear about this. How scary to think about after having such a great appointment otherwise. Hoping hes just carrying it.

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  • Hope and pray he is just a carrier. Hugs to mama. Stay strong.
  • @mmm50 Big hugs to you. I can't imagine how stressful that must be. I hope and pray that all is well with your LO. Fingers crossed for good news.


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  • Hoping your little one is just a carrier. Big hugs your way.


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  • Sending good vibes your way! Hoping that the LO will turn out to just be a carrier and you guys can breathe a sigh of relief soon! hang in there, mama! *hugs*
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  • I'm can't imagine how nerve wracking this is. Keeping you in my thoughts and wishing only the best news comes your way.
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  • I found out during pregnancy that I apparently am a CF carrier.. Who knew!? Anyways, DH got tested and he was clear. Was nerve wracking at the time but fortunately it is such a small chance that they have it, even if both of you are carriers. My guess is your LO is a carrier.. Thinking of you!
  • I am so sorry that you are going through this. I am sending so many thoughts and prayers!! Please keep us updated.




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  • Wow. Sorry I missed this! Thoughts and prayers @mmm50!
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