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bunnybun4bunnybun4 member
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I know we should all avoid Facebook...I am at a point where most of it doesn't bother me anymore and I have been staying away since my third loss last week but...

I get on this morning and someone who had a baby around the time I was supposed to have bunny just announced that they are due again in june (my EDD month for my most recent loss).  I mean really???  they already have a healthy happy baby and now they get to have another healthy pregnancy???  whereas I went thru hell last year and then have since lost 2 early pregnancies???  I just don't get it...at all.  And announcing it on FB...I know before my losses I wouldn't have batted an eye and we all deserve to get to announce good news...but I just want to scream thru the computer- "do you know how hurtful this is to people that have had losses or struggle with infertility?  The guy that announced tragically lost his brother last year so I just keep reminding myself that no one has it easy but it still just blows my mind that I can't even have one healthy baby and now he is on to two.

sorry for the whiny, angry post.  I am just so pissed at the universe.

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8/12-Suprise BFP- Sweet Bunny Born Sleeping 11/21/12 (19 weeks)

-5/7/13- MMC (8 Weeks)

11/6/13- BO discovered at 7 weeks- natural MC 11/25/13

8/14- Surpise IF dx...low AMH (.24)- moving on to IVF

IVF #1- 11/14- 6R5M4F=2 perfect frosties

12/19/14- FET of 2 embabies = BFP!!!  One Little Bean EDD: 9/3/15

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  • BrittianyMBrittianyM member
    I have and do feel the same way. Hug to you!

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    Big ((hugs))! 
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  • bunnybun4bunnybun4 member

    to top things off I just emailed and asked my MIL to come over next week and look at my Christmas decorations and help me with final touches because DH and I are throwing a big party in 2 weeks...she told me that she can't come because she is going to visit SIL because her twin babies are sick.

    why does this make my blood boil???  if my kids were sick I am sure my mother would want to help me...I know it isn't logical to be mad but I just feel like no one cares.  it makes me feel like they think that because I am functioning that I am not really sad and hurting anymore.  I know I am being irrational but it just makes me so jealous.

    sorry ladies for being so crazy...I think my HCG must be plummeting from my mc last week.  just having a bad day.

    Lilypie Angel and Memorial tickers

    8/12-Suprise BFP- Sweet Bunny Born Sleeping 11/21/12 (19 weeks)

    -5/7/13- MMC (8 Weeks)

    11/6/13- BO discovered at 7 weeks- natural MC 11/25/13

    8/14- Surpise IF dx...low AMH (.24)- moving on to IVF

    IVF #1- 11/14- 6R5M4F=2 perfect frosties

    12/19/14- FET of 2 embabies = BFP!!!  One Little Bean EDD: 9/3/15

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  • BrittianyMBrittianyM member
    You are not crazy for feeling that way. I feel like I have lost all my marbles many times. Hope it gets better soon for all of us.

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  • jess123456jess123456 member
    Many hugs to you. You are absolutely not crazy for feeling that way. I have felt the exact same way. Facebook is just plain awful sometimes. It is just not fair.
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  • CRUN2012CRUN2012 member
    You are absolutely not crazy or irrational! We are stuck in this awful place where we are at the mercy of our emotions no matter how and when they come out. And its not always easy or fun. Bottom line is that it doesn't matter why we feel the way we do sometimes. The fact is simply that it is what It is....and this board is a great way to connect to people who understand. Good for you for expressing your feelings! :)
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  • stefugestefuge member
    I really don't understand people sometimes. We have a friend who has had a late term loss as well as two early losses, and they just recently posted they are pregnant. I just don't get it. I'm happy for them and sincerely hope that this is a rainbow baby, but it's still hard to see all the photos and posts on Facebook.
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  • TwinkleTorTwinkleTor member
    I am so on the same page! I get frustrated so often on FB now a days. I don't even really enjoy going on anymore. I'm sure it's not the case, but all I notice are all the pregnancy announcements and pictures. It makes me so jealous and angry. Your not crazy for what your feeling, us here totally see your rationale. Hope you feel better too! Sorry for you loss. XO
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  • irons633irons633 member
    I feel the same way!! Hugs!!!
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