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Late Term and Child Loss
diamante1181
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Trending: Paul Walker! *rant*
diamante1181
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I am just a little annoyed that my FB newsfeed, quite literally, has every single person saying "Omg! Too young!" etc. Of course, any person passing tragically deserves to be honored/mourned/etc. I just wish everyone had posted with the same amount of sentiment when I spoke of losing my twins. It really makes me think of how twisted people's perspectives are, when they mourn a movie star/celebrity, with such alacrity, yet they seem to ignore infant/perinatal passing. Every one is a person, including our babies. It just makes me feel slighted. I suppose it's our job as the parents to keep the legacy alive, to keep talking about our children, keep their memory going, even while the world forgets the mark they left in our lives. My Sophie and Gabriel existed, they lived if but for a little while, and no one is talking about them but me.
On 10/23/13 Baby Sophie and Baby Gabriel born at 21+5 weeks. They grew wings and flew away from us. May God bless them always. We love you beans!
Phoebe Jaslene born at 19w3d. We love you beba! 
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Re: Trending: Paul Walker! *rant*
I totally understand how you're feeling. I don't understand why people think ignoring it is the right thing to do. I was so so angry at my brother last November. He had a memorial table at his wedding with grandparents, an uncle, and a cousin who had passed....but he didn't put his niece. How could he leave my daughter out like that...I'll never forget that. It makes me so upset just thinking about it. I don't understand why people think ignoring our babies is going to make it hurt less.
Jillian Rose- born 8/26/12 at 24 weeks. "It broke my heart to lose you but you didn't go alone, for a part of me went with you, the day God took you home"
I love you always, my beautiful girl.
Hysteroscopy 3/1/13 Dx: Unicornuate uterus
|| <a href="http://www.fertilityfriend.com" style="font-size:smaller;" >Ovulation TrackeMy Ovulation Chart
BFP 3/18/13- Please be our Rainbow, we love you so much already.
6/4/13-Found out we're having a BOY!!
10/30/13-He's here!! Happy Birthday, Ryan! We love you so much! xo
No, I didn't confront him. The worst part about it is that we had always been super close...and he really was heartbroken when we lost Jillian, but as time went on he either got over it or thought talking about it would make me more upset. It just sucks that we'll never be close like we were because I'll never be able to forget the (more than a few) really hurtful things he (probably unintentionally) did.
Jillian Rose- born 8/26/12 at 24 weeks. "It broke my heart to lose you but you didn't go alone, for a part of me went with you, the day God took you home"
I love you always, my beautiful girl.
Hysteroscopy 3/1/13 Dx: Unicornuate uterus
|| <a href="http://www.fertilityfriend.com" style="font-size:smaller;" >Ovulation TrackeMy Ovulation Chart
BFP 3/18/13- Please be our Rainbow, we love you so much already.
6/4/13-Found out we're having a BOY!!
10/30/13-He's here!! Happy Birthday, Ryan! We love you so much! xo