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Birthday Party Question! Beach or Home? Opening Gifts at Party?
beautiflaw
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What sounds best to you as a guest at a 3 year old's bday party? A Twinkle, Twinkle Little Star themed party in an apartment? Or a beach picnic?
Twinkle, Twinkle is DD's favorite rhyme/song, and I was thinking of doing a themed party here at home for her, but she also loves the beach. I think it would be easier to keep everyone together for party activities if we had the party at home, but if we went to the beach I wouldn't have to decorate the house and there would be more room for everyone. Plus what kid doesn't like the beach? This is my first time throwing a birthday party where kids are invited (we only had family at the others) so I don't want it to be a miserable experience (for me or the other parents lol). I figure there are pros and cons to both.
It would be more overall fun at the beach, and as far as food I'd probably just do like sandwiches and cut fruit and veggies, and for drinks water and juice. I could do cupcakes or maybe ice cream sandwiches instead of cake. I wouldn't need to organize party activities because everyone could play in the sand and water. But we wouldn't have a "gift table" so probably we'd end up sticking presents in the trunk of our car or something. And if everyone is playing in the water and sand, I don't see it being more than just a group beach trip rather than a "party" atmosphere. Plus we live at the beach, so a beach party is not going to be anything special in terms of a party. Everyone invited probably takes a trip to the beach at least once a week.
If we did a TTLS party, we'd be having it in our small apartment. We have two bathrooms so that wouldn't be too bad, and the kids could play in DD's room between party activities. Our table is small and we don't have many chairs so I have no idea how we'd have the kiddo's eat. Unless they sat on cushions all around the coffee table and the adults sat at the dining room table? I'm also not sure what kind of activities we'd do. I'd want everything to go with the theme, so I was thinking we could have a "storytime" and read Twinkle, Twinkle Little Star by Iza Trapani, and then maybe so a sing-a-long and sing the song together. But that would take no time at all to do that and I don't know what else we'd do. Pin the star on the milky way? lol! I don't know. I don't want to go overboard on the theme or do too many activities and make it so structured that the kids don't get to play.
Also, we are from the South but we currently live in San Diego, CA and I know traditions are different outside the South. But in the South we believe in opening presents at the party to show appreciation for the gift and giver. (by making a big display of oohing and ahhing over gifts, etc) But I know that is not done outside the South so much now because some people think its rude to "show off" your presents by opening them at the party, and the other kids get jealous, or some people are just bored by it, etc. So I am trying to decide if we are going to open presents at the party. I am thinking of erring on the side of caution and saying we will open presents after the party is scheduled to be over, and anyone who wants to hang out and watch can do that. Would that be acceptable for those who don't want to watch the presents being opened? We live thousands of miles from our families and we always videotape DD opening presents for our families (they like to see her reaction when she opens presents) so we'd be videotaping the party and the present opening.
Any thoughts?
Twinkle, Twinkle is DD's favorite rhyme/song, and I was thinking of doing a themed party here at home for her, but she also loves the beach. I think it would be easier to keep everyone together for party activities if we had the party at home, but if we went to the beach I wouldn't have to decorate the house and there would be more room for everyone. Plus what kid doesn't like the beach? This is my first time throwing a birthday party where kids are invited (we only had family at the others) so I don't want it to be a miserable experience (for me or the other parents lol). I figure there are pros and cons to both.
It would be more overall fun at the beach, and as far as food I'd probably just do like sandwiches and cut fruit and veggies, and for drinks water and juice. I could do cupcakes or maybe ice cream sandwiches instead of cake. I wouldn't need to organize party activities because everyone could play in the sand and water. But we wouldn't have a "gift table" so probably we'd end up sticking presents in the trunk of our car or something. And if everyone is playing in the water and sand, I don't see it being more than just a group beach trip rather than a "party" atmosphere. Plus we live at the beach, so a beach party is not going to be anything special in terms of a party. Everyone invited probably takes a trip to the beach at least once a week.
If we did a TTLS party, we'd be having it in our small apartment. We have two bathrooms so that wouldn't be too bad, and the kids could play in DD's room between party activities. Our table is small and we don't have many chairs so I have no idea how we'd have the kiddo's eat. Unless they sat on cushions all around the coffee table and the adults sat at the dining room table? I'm also not sure what kind of activities we'd do. I'd want everything to go with the theme, so I was thinking we could have a "storytime" and read Twinkle, Twinkle Little Star by Iza Trapani, and then maybe so a sing-a-long and sing the song together. But that would take no time at all to do that and I don't know what else we'd do. Pin the star on the milky way? lol! I don't know. I don't want to go overboard on the theme or do too many activities and make it so structured that the kids don't get to play.
Also, we are from the South but we currently live in San Diego, CA and I know traditions are different outside the South. But in the South we believe in opening presents at the party to show appreciation for the gift and giver. (by making a big display of oohing and ahhing over gifts, etc) But I know that is not done outside the South so much now because some people think its rude to "show off" your presents by opening them at the party, and the other kids get jealous, or some people are just bored by it, etc. So I am trying to decide if we are going to open presents at the party. I am thinking of erring on the side of caution and saying we will open presents after the party is scheduled to be over, and anyone who wants to hang out and watch can do that. Would that be acceptable for those who don't want to watch the presents being opened? We live thousands of miles from our families and we always videotape DD opening presents for our families (they like to see her reaction when she opens presents) so we'd be videotaping the party and the present opening.
Any thoughts?
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Re: Birthday Party Question! Beach or Home? Opening Gifts at Party?
About gifts, I personally don't like sitting through kids opening them. It's boring, and the kids could care less. Most parents seem to like it though and may ask when you plan to have your LO open gifts.