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wwsaifd re daycare

At 15 mos at my daycare, rates go down $100 per month. Also, they transition them to another room with fewer teachers and les 1 on 1 attention. DS is not technically 15 months until the 4th (tuition due the 3rd) but they transitioned him almost a month ago out of the infant room to the toddler room. Naturally, when I paid tuition this month, I paid $100 less. When I picked him up they told me I owed an extra $100. I made my points above and the girl said something about he was in the infant room half a day...only he never is when I drop off or pick up! We just let it drop.

Dh told me if they push the issue to just pay it....it is not that much money. Thoughts?
IF DX: DOR & Fragile X pre-mutation carrier
2011: FSH 13.3 & E 99; AMH 0.54 2nd FSH 6.2 E 40's AFC: 8
BFP from Clomid/IUI ~ Pre-e and IUGR during pregnancy ~ DS born 9/4/12
Feb./March 2013: AMH less than 0.16 (undectable) and AFC = 4;
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Re: wwsaifd re daycare

  • Well, even by their explanation if he was in the infant room for half the day you would only owe $50, right? I think the bigger issue is knowing what room DS is spending his time in. If they told you he was moving and didn't really move him that is an issue to me. I would want to know where he is and when. If the girl was just making excuses then she lied to you and you also don't owe the money.
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    edited December 2013
    I'm really not concerned whether he is in the infant room or the toddler room in terms of his development...the teachers are fine in both. Honestly, at this point he probably gets more out of the toddler room even if it is less 1-on-1 with adults. The other kids in the toddler room are closer to him in development. And they told me they were transitioning him...whatever that means. However, I feel confident in saying that he is, in fact, spending the vast majority of his time in the toddler room. Every single day I drop him off there and only once in the past few weeks has he been in the baby room when I picked him up. I feel confident the main reason they "transitioned" him early was because they got younger babies in the infant room.

    None of their argument makes sense. Plus, he spent the better part of last month in the toddler room when I had already paid for the infant room and I just let it be...I was not going to nickle and dime them. But now I feel like they are trying to nickel and dime me over a freaking day when he is not getting any of the "benefits" (if you even want to call it that) of the infant room and has not been for most of last month when I paid the higher amount!

    It also annoys the f out of me that they can't deal with any of this (or any other issue) with my dh. They always bring up ish with me or call ME over bs when dh is pretty much 50 percent involved.
    IF DX: DOR & Fragile X pre-mutation carrier
    2011: FSH 13.3 & E 99; AMH 0.54 2nd FSH 6.2 E 40's AFC: 8
    BFP from Clomid/IUI ~ Pre-e and IUGR during pregnancy ~ DS born 9/4/12
    Feb./March 2013: AMH less than 0.16 (undectable) and AFC = 4;
    BFP from supps ~ DS#2 due May 2014

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  • Yep they moved him don't pay more!!

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  • Dh took ds to daycare today and is going to ask them just to call him for all issues. Frankly, I don't really need them stressing me out over minor stuff when I am trying to keep my bp low. I have enough stress at work and I can't get rid of that.
    IF DX: DOR & Fragile X pre-mutation carrier
    2011: FSH 13.3 & E 99; AMH 0.54 2nd FSH 6.2 E 40's AFC: 8
    BFP from Clomid/IUI ~ Pre-e and IUGR during pregnancy ~ DS born 9/4/12
    Feb./March 2013: AMH less than 0.16 (undectable) and AFC = 4;
    BFP from supps ~ DS#2 due May 2014

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  • That sounds like a good plan... let YH handle it because you don't need the stress right now. I hope it gets worked out!
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  • I agree that you should not owe the extra $100, but personally when it comes to my child's daycare I spare no expense. I would probably just pay it knowing my kid was in good hands regardless of what room he was in, especially if you really like the daycare.

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