It's been almost a month past my d&c, and life overall has gone back to normal. I definitely have some ups and downs, but they are further apart and less extreme than a month ago. My parents check in with me, as does MH and sisters to see how I'm feeling. If I feel like crap, I tell them. If I'm feeling ok, I tell them too. However, aside from the first few days of my miscarriage, my in-laws have NOT asked how I am at all. My MIL & FIL were at my house Wednesday afternoon through Friday morning, and no one asked how I was doing, or what the dr has said. I don't want ppl to be fawning all over me, and I get that it's hard to talk about, but ASK!!!!! It is just so frustrating. I feel like they are acting like our miscarriage never happened. To make it worse, they were talking about my SIL and her pregnancy with no problem!
I am really not looking forward to spending 4 days with them before Christmas. I am already dreading seeing my SIL at 8 months pregnant. I wanted nothing more than to be pregnant this Christmas. I was excited because everyone would know, and I could dream with close family and friends about having a LO for next Christmas.
I am trying not to dwell too much on any of this, but it still sucks. Sorry for the vent, but I had to do it!
BFP#1 9/14/2013 || EDD 5/25/2014 || mmc discovered on 11/1/2013 || d&c on 11/6/2013
BFP#2 12/8/2014 || EDD 8/19/2015 || please be our RAINBOW
I am so sorry you have to go through this and I just got done spending Thanksgiving with my very pregnant sister in law and it was difficult--she kept guiding my hand to her belly to feel the baby kick and I was screaming inside. I think your feelings are normal and I am suffering with the loss right now and it has been a month. The healing process sucks. Thinking of you and your family over the holidays!! Hope it gets easier....
i wish familywould ask me how I'm doing too. talking about everything -even though i get teary every time -really helps. being on here helps but i would like to talk out loud too
Missed M/C natural cycle 10/2013
DX PCOS 3/2014
2 cycles Clomid 50 mg + Ovidrel + TI
1 cycle Clomid 50 mg + TI - no response stair-stepped to Clomid 75 mg + Ovidrel + TI
Re: Just need to vent....
Missed M/C natural cycle 10/2013
DX PCOS 3/2014
2 cycles Clomid 50 mg + Ovidrel + TI
1 cycle Clomid 50 mg + TI - no response stair-stepped to Clomid 75 mg + Ovidrel + TI
1 cycle Clomid 50 mg + Ovidrel + IUI
1 cycle Letrozole 7.5 mg + 150 mg Follistim + Ovidrel + TI
1 cycle Letrozole 7.5 mg + 150 mg Folistim + Ovidrel + IUI
1 cycle Letrozole 7.5 mg + 150 mg Follistim - no response, repeated Letrozole 7.5 mg + 150 mg Follistim + Ovidrel + IUI = success! 12/2014
Beta 1 - 15 dpiui, 324, Beta 2 - 17 dpiui 750. Twins!!
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