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**~~May Flowers Check In~~** *****BFP WARNING*****

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Happy Thanksgiving Ladies! Hope you all enjoy your day! ****BFP WARNING posted below****


Good morning mommas!This is a check-in for anyone who had a loss or an EDD in May (of any year). I am so sorry for each one of your losses. I hope that this can be a place to give support and help each other through this difficult time. Everyone is welcome! Members, give us an update on how you are doing. New members, introduce yourself so that we can get to know you. Ramy was kind enough to make us a badge, it is in my signature if you would like it for yours.

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ashx3renee- EDD 5/16/2013

BeanQueen83 - EDD 5/27/2014

C0602t - EDD 5/9/2014

czarmom - EDD 5/8/2014

Giants721 - EDD 5/26/2014

Hadley135 - EDD 5/30/2014

Hasmith25 - EDD 5/2/2014

HoldingOutHope - EDD 5/5/2013

HorseLover11 - EDDs 5/19/2013 and 5/29/2014

jlworden710 - EDD 5/31/2014

Kryan108 - EDDs 5/25/2013 and 5/27/2014

Lindsayhilleary EDD 5/08/2013

Lindsebert - EDDs 5/14/2013 and 5/25/2014

Lingchow8655 - EDD 5/20/2014

Mireland89 - EDD 5/15/2014

Ninthgirl - EDD 5/17/2014

Notchotchke - EDD 5/4/2014

Schulme2 - Loss Date 5/4/2013

Soxfan777 - EDD 5/16/2014

tvandewi - EDD 5/2/2014

Zapgurl44 - EDD 5/2/2013

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@czarmom - No update last week.

@Giants721 - Did that blinking smiley turn solid? Are you temping also? Hope timing was good if you did O.

@Hadley135 - No update last week.

@HoldingOutHope - No update last week. 

@HorseLover11 - It's almost 12/3! I really hope things go well for you at this appt! How are things otherwise?

@jlworden710 - Sorry about the way you were given the news about your ute. Did you have an HSG (or something along those lines) that determined the bicornuate?

@kryan108 - Has AF made her return? Anything else going on while you're waiting for your appt day?

@lindsayhilleary - (((Hugs))) for AF showing. So will you be moving forward with IUI#2? I'm so sorry things have been rough lately. PM me *anytime* you need to chat. My DH is also gone all the time with work right now. He's not even home today. Hopefully things improve, love.

@mireland89 - No update last week.

@ninthgirl - So glad that you have a plan in place and are feeling better. Have you gotten results back from testing to determine TTA or TTC?

@notchotchke - No update last week.

@soxfan777 - No update last week.

@tvandewi - ((Hugs)) love. Has AF showed or is it looking like provera? Hopefully if it is PCOS it will be something that a medicated cycle can help regulate.

@Zapgurl44 - No update last week.
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And as always, so many (((HUGS))) to all of you wonderful women!


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Soooo many congrats and happy (((hugs))) to @ashx3renee! Hope you have a very happy, healthy, and uneventful 9 months lady!
















More ((hugs)) ladies. Have a great day!
TTC Our Rainbow Since May 2011

BFP#1 9/9/12 -- EDD 5/14/13 -- MMC 10/10/12 Miso 10/19/12

BFP #2 9/17/13 -- EDD 5/25/14-- CP confirmed 9/21/13
 BFP #3 2/1/14 -- EDD 10/5/14 -- NMC 2/10/14

Dx: low progesterone & mild hypothyroidism

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  • TVLilyTVLily member
    @lindsebert how are things with you? I've been thinking of you.

    @notchochke glad the results came back good!!

    No AF hasn't shown, I got two +Opk last week but no temp rise so my body just let me down again, sigh. I get to call back the RE office on Monday so I am really going to push for the provera. Next Tuesday is 12 weeks so I think that's more than reasonable for waiting it out... I feel like it's making me a little more nuts lately so I'm hoping I'll feel a grasp more in control once I get AF and can get the cd3 testing done. I'd love to start medicated cycles right away but if I still need cd3 testing done I'm assuming I'll have to wait. Nothing else is new here, I just sound like a broken record.

    Happy Thanksgiving to all the American Ladies! And Happy Hanukkah to anyone celebrating!

    My favourite dish is stuffing for sure!!!

    EDD 5/2/14, NMC 9/11/13
    EDD 10/15/14, CP 2/8/14
    IF Diagnosis: PCOS, MFI 

    Current Cycle: 5 mg Femara/1000mg Metformin + TI = BFP, EDD 4/23/15 Please be our RAINBOW

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  • lindsebertlindsebert member
    @notchotchke - So glad the results came back okay. Hopefully you get that +OPK soon.

    @tvandewi - So sorry that this cycle is such a royal pain. I hope they let you start provera. I agree that you've waited plenty long enough. Hopefully it gets the ball rolling and you won't have long to wait after that.

    As for me, I've been doing okay. I'm waiting to test right now, because I'm not convinced that FF got my O date right. Either way I'm 17DPO or 14DPO. I just really hate seeing a BFN and would just rather see AF start. I have 0 symptoms, so I'm not hopeful at all. We'll see though.
    TTC Our Rainbow Since May 2011

    BFP#1 9/9/12 -- EDD 5/14/13 -- MMC 10/10/12 Miso 10/19/12

    BFP #2 9/17/13 -- EDD 5/25/14-- CP confirmed 9/21/13
     BFP #3     2/1/14 -- EDD 10/5/14 -- NMC 2/10/14

    Dx: low progesterone & mild hypothyroidism

    My Chart

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  • Giants721Giants721 member
    @lindsebert Happy Thanksgiving! How are you? I hope all you other ladies are doing well!

    I am 6 DPO. My temps keep rising, so I am hopeful. We hit -3,-1,O,O+1.

    my favorite holiday food is stuffing! I love carbs.
    Married since July 2012
    TTC #1 since April 2013
    BFP #1 9.16.13 / EDD 5.26.14 / Natural miscarriage 7w4d


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  • lindsebertlindsebert member
    @Giants721 - I have everything crossed for you!
    TTC Our Rainbow Since May 2011

    BFP#1 9/9/12 -- EDD 5/14/13 -- MMC 10/10/12 Miso 10/19/12

    BFP #2 9/17/13 -- EDD 5/25/14-- CP confirmed 9/21/13
     BFP #3     2/1/14 -- EDD 10/5/14 -- NMC 2/10/14

    Dx: low progesterone & mild hypothyroidism

    My Chart

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  • Giants721Giants721 member
    @lindsebert I have everything crossed for you too!!!
    Married since July 2012
    TTC #1 since April 2013
    BFP #1 9.16.13 / EDD 5.26.14 / Natural miscarriage 7w4d


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  • TVLilyTVLily member
    @lindsebert & @giants721 fx for you ladies!! Sending you both lots of positive vibes.

    I definitely understand not wanting to see the bfn @lindsebert ((hugs)).

    EDD 5/2/14, NMC 9/11/13
    EDD 10/15/14, CP 2/8/14
    IF Diagnosis: PCOS, MFI 

    Current Cycle: 5 mg Femara/1000mg Metformin + TI = BFP, EDD 4/23/15 Please be our RAINBOW

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    My Chart

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  • hadley135hadley135 member
    Fingers crossed for @Giants721 and @lindsebert!!!

    Hope everyone had a nice Thanksgiving!! (Those here in the states)

    I am 4 weeks out from the D&E and no sign of AF. I know it is not unusual to take several weeks, but I hope it comes sooner rather than later. I am not sure if we can start in January if this first cycle takes time to start.

    Favorite holiday food-- ham, stuffing, pumpkin pie (I couldn't pick one lol)
    Me: 28 DH: 30 
    TTC-January 2013
    BFP#1--September 2013 (EDD 5/30/2014)--D&C for Missed MC @ 9 weeks 3 days
    BFP#2--August 2014 (EDD 4/30/2015) --hoping this is our rainbow!
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  • zapgurl44zapgurl44 member
    Hi girls, I hope those in the states are enjoying their thanksgiving. @lindsebert and @giants721 everything crossed for you! I start clomid+TI this cycle followed by crinone and heparin 3dpo. If no BFP this cycle then we will take a break till March. ****QOTW-I love stuffing and sweet potatoes
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    BFP #1 9/6/2009 EDD 5/29/10. Missy Moo born 5/12/10 after 3 months of bedrest due to PTL, IC and a bicornuate ute causing IUGR
    BFP # 2 1/28/12 EDD 10/6/12 No heartbeat seen @ 10 weeks, Autumn
    BFP #3 8/18/12 EDD 5/2/13 No heartbeat seen at 7w3d, Mae
    BFP #4 01/31/2013 EDD 10/15/2013 No HB seen in our little girl at 10w2d due to trisomy 12, Abigail
    BFP #5 6/27/2013 EDD 3/10/2014 diagnosed with protein S deficiency heparin twice a day. Luke's HB stopped at 8wks
    BFP#6 12/22/2013 EDD 9/4/2014 No HB seen at 7w2d, Leia

    BFP #7- 5/12/14 EDD 01/2015, ruptured ectopic 5/31/14

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  • kr_rykr_ry member
    Giants721 said:
    @lindsebert Happy Thanksgiving! How are you? I hope all you other ladies are doing well!

    I am 6 DPO. My temps keep rising, so I am hopeful. We hit -3,-1,O,O+1.

    my favorite holiday food is stuffing! I love carbs.

    Good luck!
    TW loss mentioned 

    **BFP#1 9/5/12   EDD 5/15/13  changed to 5/25/13 after u/s,  missed mc 10/19/12.  D and C 10/22/12** 
     **BFP#2 9/12/13  EDD 5/16/14 changed to 5/27/14 after u/s, hb 126 on 10/11/13, miscarriage on 10/24.13**
    ~RPL testing results from 12/6/13 show everything normal except elevated prolactin. Blood work is now in the normal range. All AL welcome!
    BFP #3 10/24/14  Our rainbow baby was born July 2015
    BFP 4 10/28/19 EDD 7/6/20
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  • kr_rykr_ry member
    @lindsebert fingers crossed. As for me AF returned this morning on cd36. I am calling my doctor tomorrow to schedule my saline u/s. NTTCAL related I applied for a new job and I should hear if if I will get an interview next week sometime. I currently teach Head Start and I applied for a special education job at an elementary school which would be better pay since I would be in a district instead of Head Start.
    TW loss mentioned 

    **BFP#1 9/5/12   EDD 5/15/13  changed to 5/25/13 after u/s,  missed mc 10/19/12.  D and C 10/22/12** 
     **BFP#2 9/12/13  EDD 5/16/14 changed to 5/27/14 after u/s, hb 126 on 10/11/13, miscarriage on 10/24.13**
    ~RPL testing results from 12/6/13 show everything normal except elevated prolactin. Blood work is now in the normal range. All AL welcome!
    BFP #3 10/24/14  Our rainbow baby was born July 2015
    BFP 4 10/28/19 EDD 7/6/20
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  • kr_rykr_ry member
    hadley135 said:
    Fingers crossed for @Giants721 and @lindsebert!!! Hope everyone had a nice Thanksgiving!! (Those here in the states) I am 4 weeks out from the D&E and no sign of AF. I know it is not unusual to take several weeks, but I hope it comes sooner rather than later. I am not sure if we can start in January if this first cycle takes time to start. Favorite holiday food-- ham, stuffing, pumpkin pie (I couldn't pick one lol)

    I hope AF returns soon for you!
    TW loss mentioned 

    **BFP#1 9/5/12   EDD 5/15/13  changed to 5/25/13 after u/s,  missed mc 10/19/12.  D and C 10/22/12** 
     **BFP#2 9/12/13  EDD 5/16/14 changed to 5/27/14 after u/s, hb 126 on 10/11/13, miscarriage on 10/24.13**
    ~RPL testing results from 12/6/13 show everything normal except elevated prolactin. Blood work is now in the normal range. All AL welcome!
    BFP #3 10/24/14  Our rainbow baby was born July 2015
    BFP 4 10/28/19 EDD 7/6/20
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  • HorseLover11HorseLover11 member
    Happy Thanksgiving ladies!! Sorry I can't quote everyone here bc I'm mobile but thinking of all of you!! @lindsebert - chart stalking u lady and it looks great. Symptom don't necessarily start early anyways so don't think too much ab t but I totally understand about testing.
    I'm so excited for my appt - thanks for remembering! The RE gave no recommendations after my kareotyping results except to get the hsg done which I think I'll opt out for right now as I don't think my tubes/ute structure are contributing to my losses. Disappointed he didn't say anything about egg quality or things like that but who knows :p hope this other doc is hopeful ab getting me back on track. I've temped a little and they're my typical post o temps so I don't know if I'm in the wait for a for af or what. My betas on Monday were 21 so I hope they just hurry up and drop completely.
    fav holiday food is stuffing and mashed or sweet potatoes

    Off BC, NTNP since June 2011

    Started acupuncture/herbs July 2012 

    First BFP 9-8-2012,EDD 5-15-2013, heartbeat of 175 at 8w2d, mmc discovered on 10-26-12 (11w6d) Cytotec on 10/26/12

    8/23/13 DX with non-IR PCOS

    Second BFP 9.12.13, EDD 5.29.14, heartbeat of 114 at 6w1d, mmc discovered on 10-18-13, D&C on 10/23/13 (baby girl/Trisomy 10) 

    Third BFP (surprise at Beta draw after d&c) on 1/10/14 (15dpo), EDD 9.20.14 Please be our RAINBOW!

     Lilypie First Birthday tickers

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  • lindsebertlindsebert member
    @ninthgirl - (((hugs))) while you wait

    @hadley135 - FX that AF comes soon!! 

    @zapgurl44 - FX that this cycle is it for you! 

    @kryan108 - GL with the upcoming saline US, and FX for you about the new job! 

    @horselover11 - I hope things go well at this upcoming appt., and I hope your numbers get to zero soon! ((Hugs))

    @Emnob28 - So sorry for your loss and that you are joining us, but welcome. (((Hugs))) I hope you don't have to wait long for AF, and you and DH can try as soon as your emotionally ready. 

    Update on me girls - Like I was fearing, FF was wrong. Huge temp drop today accompanied with spotting and cramping. I removed my positive OPKs and my CHs moved to the right day. I'm leaving them there so my LP stats won't get skewed. Due to DHs work schedule, we're done with IUIs for a while now. :( I'm just really not in a good place today. Thanks for all of the FX and thoughts though. 
    TTC Our Rainbow Since May 2011

    BFP#1 9/9/12 -- EDD 5/14/13 -- MMC 10/10/12 Miso 10/19/12

    BFP #2 9/17/13 -- EDD 5/25/14-- CP confirmed 9/21/13
     BFP #3     2/1/14 -- EDD 10/5/14 -- NMC 2/10/14

    Dx: low progesterone & mild hypothyroidism

    My Chart

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  • zapgurl44zapgurl44 member
    @lindsebert-(((hugs))) I'm sorry that this cycle looks like a bust.
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    BFP #1 9/6/2009 EDD 5/29/10. Missy Moo born 5/12/10 after 3 months of bedrest due to PTL, IC and a bicornuate ute causing IUGR
    BFP # 2 1/28/12 EDD 10/6/12 No heartbeat seen @ 10 weeks, Autumn
    BFP #3 8/18/12 EDD 5/2/13 No heartbeat seen at 7w3d, Mae
    BFP #4 01/31/2013 EDD 10/15/2013 No HB seen in our little girl at 10w2d due to trisomy 12, Abigail
    BFP #5 6/27/2013 EDD 3/10/2014 diagnosed with protein S deficiency heparin twice a day. Luke's HB stopped at 8wks
    BFP#6 12/22/2013 EDD 9/4/2014 No HB seen at 7w2d, Leia

    BFP #7- 5/12/14 EDD 01/2015, ruptured ectopic 5/31/14

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  • Giants721Giants721 member
    @lindsebert I'm sorry and thinking of you!
    Married since July 2012
    TTC #1 since April 2013
    BFP #1 9.16.13 / EDD 5.26.14 / Natural miscarriage 7w4d


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  • HorseLover11HorseLover11 member
    (((Hugs))) @lindsebert thinking of u

    Off BC, NTNP since June 2011

    Started acupuncture/herbs July 2012 

    First BFP 9-8-2012,EDD 5-15-2013, heartbeat of 175 at 8w2d, mmc discovered on 10-26-12 (11w6d) Cytotec on 10/26/12

    8/23/13 DX with non-IR PCOS

    Second BFP 9.12.13, EDD 5.29.14, heartbeat of 114 at 6w1d, mmc discovered on 10-18-13, D&C on 10/23/13 (baby girl/Trisomy 10) 

    Third BFP (surprise at Beta draw after d&c) on 1/10/14 (15dpo), EDD 9.20.14 Please be our RAINBOW!

     Lilypie First Birthday tickers

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  • kr_rykr_ry member
    (Hugs) to @lindsebert
    TW loss mentioned 

    **BFP#1 9/5/12   EDD 5/15/13  changed to 5/25/13 after u/s,  missed mc 10/19/12.  D and C 10/22/12** 
     **BFP#2 9/12/13  EDD 5/16/14 changed to 5/27/14 after u/s, hb 126 on 10/11/13, miscarriage on 10/24.13**
    ~RPL testing results from 12/6/13 show everything normal except elevated prolactin. Blood work is now in the normal range. All AL welcome!
    BFP #3 10/24/14  Our rainbow baby was born July 2015
    BFP 4 10/28/19 EDD 7/6/20
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  • TVLilyTVLily member
    ((Hugs)) @lindsebert I'm sorry Hun. Thinking of you.

    EDD 5/2/14, NMC 9/11/13
    EDD 10/15/14, CP 2/8/14
    IF Diagnosis: PCOS, MFI 

    Current Cycle: 5 mg Femara/1000mg Metformin + TI = BFP, EDD 4/23/15 Please be our RAINBOW

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    My Chart

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  • lindsebertlindsebert member
    Thanks for all the hugs girls. We're not sure how long DH will be working on the project up north, so our IUI break could be a while. 

    @lindsayhilleary - GL this IUI cycle. I'm rooting for you! Hopefully YH will get better with the injections. 
    TTC Our Rainbow Since May 2011

    BFP#1 9/9/12 -- EDD 5/14/13 -- MMC 10/10/12 Miso 10/19/12

    BFP #2 9/17/13 -- EDD 5/25/14-- CP confirmed 9/21/13
     BFP #3     2/1/14 -- EDD 10/5/14 -- NMC 2/10/14

    Dx: low progesterone & mild hypothyroidism

    My Chart

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  • czarmomczarmom member
    @lindsebert  (((hugs)))

    Sorry I missed the check-in last week.  I was in the TWW  and was hopeful, but got AF a day early :(   Was my first cycle trying post D&C, so maybe next month will be my lucky month.   

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    BFP #1 - DS 2007

    BFP #2 - 8/25/13 - mmc 10/10/13

    BFP #3 - 1/14/14 - EDD 9/30/14



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  • lindsebertlindsebert member
    czarmom said:
    @lindsebert  (((hugs)))

    Sorry I missed the check-in last week.  I was in the TWW  and was hopeful, but got AF a day early :(   Was my first cycle trying post D&C, so maybe next month will be my lucky month.   
    Sorry to hear that AF showed. ((Hugs))
    TTC Our Rainbow Since May 2011

    BFP#1 9/9/12 -- EDD 5/14/13 -- MMC 10/10/12 Miso 10/19/12

    BFP #2 9/17/13 -- EDD 5/25/14-- CP confirmed 9/21/13
     BFP #3     2/1/14 -- EDD 10/5/14 -- NMC 2/10/14

    Dx: low progesterone & mild hypothyroidism

    My Chart

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