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saying goodbye to my fur baby ;,,,(

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My fur baby boxer is extremely jealous of A. A and my fur baby got into a little fight over a toy leaving A with 3 stitches to his forehead :(. It breaks my heart but he has to go. Any suggestions on where to take him. Please no negative comments I know what needs to be done and feel horrible that my fur baby of 7 yrs is leaving.
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  • JBDamonMJBDamonM member

    No suggestions, and certainly no comments, but HUGE HUGS. I can't imagine how hard this is and how sad you must feel.

    Any chance you have a family member or friend looking for a new pet?


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  • kaf7kaf7 member
    edited December 2013
    Huge hugs. With our dog we had to sign a written agreement to give him back to the breeder if we couldn't keep him for any reason. Did yours come from a breeder? Otherwise, maybe @prettyaccountant has some suggestions?
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  • TJ1979TJ1979 member
    I'm so sorry. That's such a hard decision. I agree with PPs about trying to find someone without children to take him. Or look for a no kill shelter in your area.
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  • Dstevens429Dstevens429 member
     We put the word out so hopefully someone will want him. No kill shelter is our next option but I hear they are normally full. Calling to make an appointment tomorrow with one. Until then we have him confined to the kitchen which he hates .so sad to hear him cry. @prettyaccountant...if you have any suggestions pls let me know
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  • Dragonfly1226Dragonfly1226 member
    I'm so sorry hon. I can't imagine how hard this must be. (((((Hugs)))))
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  • Ruthie04Ruthie04 member
    I'm so sorry. I don't have pets and dont have advice, but sending lots of hugs your way!
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  • phishgirl29phishgirl29 member
    I'm so sorry :((. Loosing a pet (no matter the circumstances) is so hard. ((Hugs))

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  • Mrs.AmyDylanMrs.AmyDylan member
    Is he a pure bred boxer? Check with Boxer Rescue in your area. I googled it, but it is just coming up with my area.
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  • PennyLane26PennyLane26 member
    (((hugs))) No judgment here! What a terrible situation to be in! Hopefully he can find a good home with no little ones.
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  • mdiblasi10mdiblasi10 member
    I am so sorry. I know it's hard to hear him crying because he is confined, but it is safest for all that way. Big hugs. 
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  • kmc84kmc84 member
    I'm so sorry you need to make this tough decision :( have you contacted local vets offices to see if they know anyone who might be looking for a boxer or perhaps they can find an appropriate shelter or rescue? ((Hugs))
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  • imoveritimoverit member
    How very scary that must have been for you. This has got to be really hard. Huge hugs. I agree with a no kill shelter or boxer rescue in your area. Im so very sorry.
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  • PrettyAccountantPrettyAccountant member
    I'm so sorry. I'm a volunteer with an animal rescue group and we take in dogs and cats for various reasons. Try to find a no kill rescue or shelter (this can be very difficult). Also, be strong because you might get judged but know in your heart you are doing the right thing.
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  • kzawislkzawisl member
    I haven't read the comments, but my heart breaks for you. You're doing the right thing. We had to find a new home for our Schnoodle after he snapped at N twice. We were able to find a local family through mutual friends. I would suggest a boxer rescue group.
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  • queenbonequeenbone member
    How scary! I'm sure you are making the right decision.

    I had to re-home one of my cats before DS2 was born. It took me 2 yrs of trying to work through his issues and looking for the exact right people to take him. I hope you can find someone you feel comfortable with to take your dog soon.
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  • Eve_AngeliqueEve_Angelique member
    So sorry, what a tough decision to make, but it seems to be the right one! I agree you should look for a boxer rescue group in your area, I hope you can find him a home that will love him like you do!
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  • mcgeevamcgeeva member
    Oh no! My hearT absolutely breaks for you. So scary about ds but sad to lose your first baby. I'm sure you pup will go to a good home with no kids. It's so hard for some dogs to deal with kids coming in the picture. I have a little dog who stick jumps up and knocks ds down so I can't imagine if he was bigger. You did the right thing because you dot know what else could provoke him. I'm really sorry

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