Ugh frustrating!!! ::UPDATE::

Re: Ugh frustrating!!! ::UPDATE::

• kz's_girlygirl member

  November 2013

  Omg what a headache!! What did the nurses say? I am so sorry you are getting the run around.

  
  
  
  TTC since 2008
  Dh:34, no issues.  Me:31, Endo, slightly hypothyroid, deformed ovary, paracentric inversion.
  4 Gonal-F, Cetrotide, HcG, Crinone +TI cycles= all BFN
  Lap in 2012 to remove large unresolving cyst discovered endo and double lobed ovary.
   6 Gonal-F, Cetrotide, HcG, Crinone IUI cycles= All BFN,
  1st IVF w/ICSI- June '13 Antagonist: Gonal-F, Menopur, Ganirelix, HcG, Estradiol, Crinone= 7 retrieved, 4 mature, 1 unfertilized, 2 abnormally fertilized, 1 normally fertilized.  2DT of only embryo and our miracle BFP.
  Our beloved baby boy was born sleeping Oct. 13, 2013 due to pROM/IC/Uterine infection.
  2nd IVF w/ICSI- Feb. '14 EPP/lupron/antagonist: Estrace, lupron, HGH, Gonal-F, Menopur, HcG, PIO, lovenox, doxy/dex.=21 retrieved, 16 mature, 15 fertilized!!  5dt of 1 blast/ 6 frozen. BFP!  Beta 1 9dp5dt:83.9  Beta 2: 11dp5dt: 145.2  Beta 3  14dp5dt: 497  Please be our sticky rainbow baby!
  
  
  

  
  

  
  
  

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• kjf114 member

  November 2013

  maybe your RE takes calls and looks at protcols while on vaca??-- mine does he still stays in the loop even on vaca. Hopefully that's the case!

         
  
  Me: 28, DH: 30 TTC since March 2012
  PCO & MTHFR Homozygous/Severe MFI (undescended teste & double hernia as baby)

  12/12: 50mg clomid= bfn
  1/13: 100mg clomid= bfn
  2/13: 100mg clomid= bfn 
  6/13: IVF/ICSI (x1 4AA)=BFFN ~49R, 44M, 33F, 14 frosties  OHSS
  8/13: FET #1 (x1 4AA)=First EVER BFP 4dp5dt!! d&c @ 6.5 wks, blighted ovum
  10/13: FET #2 (x2 4AA)= BFP 4dp5dt! Twins!!, perfect u/s then spontaneous m/c @ 5 wks
  11/13= RPL/Karotyping= MTHFR Homozygous c667t
  1/14= FET #3 our 2 year anniversary & hopefully our miracle

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• O2girl member

  November 2013

  I'm waiting to hear back from the nurse. I don't see a problem with starting on the estrace again before we have an answer about the MRI... It only costs me $2 per bottle..... Then if my MRI is positive ill just go off it and start lupron.... But if it is neg then I'll already be priming for FET.... Waiting for phone calls is the worst

  Me: 38
  DX:  Adenomyosis, Compounded MTHFR, PAI-1 4G variant
  
  DH: 34
  MFI due to Testicular Cancer
  
  Married March 2012
  IVF w/ICSI #1
  10 little polar bears
  FET #1 with 2 polar bears ~Nov 6, 2013 BFN
  FET # 2 with 2 more polar bears ~March 19, 2014 BFP!!!
  Beta 1= 276
  Beta 2= 662
  4/19/14 ~ baby A became an angel
  5/02/14 ~ baby B became an angel
  5/3/14 ~ D&C
  FET #3 with 1 male polar bear ~October 3, 2014
  October 13, 2014 ~ BFN
  Fur Children:  Memphis 3y, Dutch 3y, Marcel 2y, Meadow 1y
  
  
  
  
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• kjf114 member

  November 2013

  argggg I seen your update-- I'm soo sorry.. I have heard other girls in same situation last year something about labs closing for 2-3 week periods of time near xmas. I'm sooo sorry 3 weeks is definitely a long time when your ready yesterday. On a positive note you'll probably be my fet buddy..

         
  
  Me: 28, DH: 30 TTC since March 2012
  PCO & MTHFR Homozygous/Severe MFI (undescended teste & double hernia as baby)

  12/12: 50mg clomid= bfn
  1/13: 100mg clomid= bfn
  2/13: 100mg clomid= bfn 
  6/13: IVF/ICSI (x1 4AA)=BFFN ~49R, 44M, 33F, 14 frosties  OHSS
  8/13: FET #1 (x1 4AA)=First EVER BFP 4dp5dt!! d&c @ 6.5 wks, blighted ovum
  10/13: FET #2 (x2 4AA)= BFP 4dp5dt! Twins!!, perfect u/s then spontaneous m/c @ 5 wks
  11/13= RPL/Karotyping= MTHFR Homozygous c667t
  1/14= FET #3 our 2 year anniversary & hopefully our miracle

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• O2girl member

  November 2013

  kjf114 said:

  argggg I seen your update-- I'm soo sorry.. I have heard other girls in same situation last year something about labs closing for 2-3 week periods of time near xmas. I'm sooo sorry 3 weeks is definitely a long time when your ready yesterday. On a positive note you'll probably be my fet buddy..

  you're a good buddy to have
  
  I just wish my RE would have said something... I don't know last week about this... I could have started my estrace and stuff while I waited on the MRI results... He knew he was going to be on vacation.... The nurse even remembered that I was going to be on vacation in December... How did they not think to mention this? ::banging head against wall:: communication would have put my heart at ease.... Guess I just have to get over it...

  Me: 38
  DX:  Adenomyosis, Compounded MTHFR, PAI-1 4G variant
  
  DH: 34
  MFI due to Testicular Cancer
  
  Married March 2012
  IVF w/ICSI #1
  10 little polar bears
  FET #1 with 2 polar bears ~Nov 6, 2013 BFN
  FET # 2 with 2 more polar bears ~March 19, 2014 BFP!!!
  Beta 1= 276
  Beta 2= 662
  4/19/14 ~ baby A became an angel
  5/02/14 ~ baby B became an angel
  5/3/14 ~ D&C
  FET #3 with 1 male polar bear ~October 3, 2014
  October 13, 2014 ~ BFN
  Fur Children:  Memphis 3y, Dutch 3y, Marcel 2y, Meadow 1y
  
  
  
  
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• krdesi member

  November 2013

  Wow! I would be seriously annoyed! That is really frustrating!
  
  
  
  
  
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                TTC #1 since May 2012

                May 2013: First R.E. appointment

                DH: SA is good

                 May 2013: CD3 Blood work-normal
             June 2013: Hsg-Right tube blocked

                 July 26, 2013: Starting Follistim for IVF #1

                August 2013: IVF #1 Cancelled- Abnormal embryos

           October/November 2013: IVF #2 w/ICSI

                      November 8, 2013: Transferred two early blasts (no frosties) 

  November 18, 2013: First EVER BFP! 

  Beta#1: 91  Beta#2: 288

  1st U/S- 5w2d Saw yolk sac!

  3rd U/S- 7w4d HB of 157bpm!

  TEAM BLUE!

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• O2girl member

  November 2013

  krdesi said:

  Wow! I would be seriously annoyed! That is really frustrating!
  
  
  
  
  
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  It's not like we don't pay them enough money.... To just stay on the same page..... This process is taking far longer than I planned....
  Maybe I should just stop planning thins

  Me: 38
  DX:  Adenomyosis, Compounded MTHFR, PAI-1 4G variant
  
  DH: 34
  MFI due to Testicular Cancer
  
  Married March 2012
  IVF w/ICSI #1
  10 little polar bears
  FET #1 with 2 polar bears ~Nov 6, 2013 BFN
  FET # 2 with 2 more polar bears ~March 19, 2014 BFP!!!
  Beta 1= 276
  Beta 2= 662
  4/19/14 ~ baby A became an angel
  5/02/14 ~ baby B became an angel
  5/3/14 ~ D&C
  FET #3 with 1 male polar bear ~October 3, 2014
  October 13, 2014 ~ BFN
  Fur Children:  Memphis 3y, Dutch 3y, Marcel 2y, Meadow 1y
  
  
  
  
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• O2girl member

  November 2013

  weeklyplanner said:

  Sorry to hear that.  I hope the holidays keep you busy enough so the time flies by.  Also, I really felt it was best to stop trying to plan things.  I mean, if my plans worked, I'd have 20 month old, conceived naturally twins running around my empty house right now.  I've learned the hard way to not get caught up on dates or planning.  Things will happen on their own time.  Once I learned to let go of the control just a little bit, my heart was at peace more.  Honestly, there is ALWAYS going to be waiting during and after IF.  After your transfer you will wait for beta 1, hopefully beta 2, first u/s, heartbeat u/s, NT scan, anatomy scan.... I think us IF girls never get to just chill!

  
  I'm slowly learning that I just need to relinquish control.. Maybe this is a lesson in patience for me... And I needed to be reminded that I can't have everything I want my way all the time... Maybe this will make me appreciate my potential children even more.... I guess I need to look at the big picture and stop worrying about every set back...
  

  Me: 38
  DX:  Adenomyosis, Compounded MTHFR, PAI-1 4G variant
  
  DH: 34
  MFI due to Testicular Cancer
  
  Married March 2012
  IVF w/ICSI #1
  10 little polar bears
  FET #1 with 2 polar bears ~Nov 6, 2013 BFN
  FET # 2 with 2 more polar bears ~March 19, 2014 BFP!!!
  Beta 1= 276
  Beta 2= 662
  4/19/14 ~ baby A became an angel
  5/02/14 ~ baby B became an angel
  5/3/14 ~ D&C
  FET #3 with 1 male polar bear ~October 3, 2014
  October 13, 2014 ~ BFN
  Fur Children:  Memphis 3y, Dutch 3y, Marcel 2y, Meadow 1y
  
  
  
  
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• TaylorH84 member

  November 2013

  Ohmygoodness! How stressful and irritating! I would've totally busted out crying and threw something! I've gotten really good at throwing things this cycle! First, I chucked a tervis cup across the kitchen and shattered it! Who knew you could even break a tervis cup!? Last week I threw one of my Brighton bracelets across my room and broke it in half! I'm going to have all sorts of other issues by the time I'm done with IVF...like anger management hahaha jk! I won't even tell you what pissed me off to throw the bracelet....smh )

  2013- 2 IVF cycles with PGD to prevent genetic disorder from being passed on. Both BFFN

  2/2014 pregnant!  EDD 10/17/2014
  

  
  

  All always welcome!

       
  

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• O2girl member

  November 2013

  TaylorH84 said:

  Ohmygoodness! How stressful and irritating! I would've totally busted out crying and threw something! I've gotten really good at throwing things this cycle! First, I chucked a tervis cup across the kitchen and shattered it! Who knew you could even break a tervis cup!? Last week I threw one of my Brighton bracelets across my room and broke it in half! I'm going to have all sorts of other issues by the time I'm done with IVF...like anger management hahaha jk! I won't even tell you what pissed me off to throw the bracelet....smh )

  Hahahaha my DH has become very good at picking up after my throwing something. I even went in my backyard and shot wine bottles with my crossbow.... Just to break things.... Then sadly I tripped on my step to my garage to put the crossbow away and broke my crossbow..... **sigh**.
  But I did just purchase passes to go skeet shooting so I'm going to go break more STUFF!!

  Me: 38
  DX:  Adenomyosis, Compounded MTHFR, PAI-1 4G variant
  
  DH: 34
  MFI due to Testicular Cancer
  
  Married March 2012
  IVF w/ICSI #1
  10 little polar bears
  FET #1 with 2 polar bears ~Nov 6, 2013 BFN
  FET # 2 with 2 more polar bears ~March 19, 2014 BFP!!!
  Beta 1= 276
  Beta 2= 662
  4/19/14 ~ baby A became an angel
  5/02/14 ~ baby B became an angel
  5/3/14 ~ D&C
  FET #3 with 1 male polar bear ~October 3, 2014
  October 13, 2014 ~ BFN
  Fur Children:  Memphis 3y, Dutch 3y, Marcel 2y, Meadow 1y
  
  
  
  
  January 2015 Siggy Challenge TTCAL
  Animals Interacting with Snow
  
  
  
  

  
  

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• Sunny B member

  November 2013

  They should have informed of you this beforehand! How annoying!!
  

  TTC since May 2012
  Me: 32 H: 31
  

  DX: MFI-Very Low Count, I have Hashimotos.

  IVF prep September 2013 cancelled due to Ovarian Cyst
  IVF #1 October 2013 Antagonistic Protocol with ICSI  ER 10/31/13 (18R 16M 11F- 6 blasts to freeze)
  ET delayed due to OHSS 
  FET scheduled for July 8. Delayed due to a crazy high TSH (it had been under control for YEARS!)
  FET #1 8/5/14 sET BFN 

  
  

  All welcome!

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• O2girl member

  November 2013

  @sunny B
  I know, right?! One would think that would be an important bit of info my RE could give me.... I'm just trying to find the silver lining.. I get to get drunky at my Holiday party (booze hall here I come) and go ski this season after all.....

  Me: 38
  DX:  Adenomyosis, Compounded MTHFR, PAI-1 4G variant
  
  DH: 34
  MFI due to Testicular Cancer
  
  Married March 2012
  IVF w/ICSI #1
  10 little polar bears
  FET #1 with 2 polar bears ~Nov 6, 2013 BFN
  FET # 2 with 2 more polar bears ~March 19, 2014 BFP!!!
  Beta 1= 276
  Beta 2= 662
  4/19/14 ~ baby A became an angel
  5/02/14 ~ baby B became an angel
  5/3/14 ~ D&C
  FET #3 with 1 male polar bear ~October 3, 2014
  October 13, 2014 ~ BFN
  Fur Children:  Memphis 3y, Dutch 3y, Marcel 2y, Meadow 1y
  
  
  
  
  January 2015 Siggy Challenge TTCAL
  Animals Interacting with Snow
  
  
  
  

  
  

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• mmhopeful member

  November 2013

  I'm sorry.

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  Married August 2012 -- Me (40 yrs old) My husband (45 yrs. old) 

  RE referral from ObGYN in late Jan. 2013 -- Testing Confirms Unexplained IF 

  IUI #"s1 - 3 (Femara + IUI) April - June 2013 - all BFN

    Decided to do IVF... Began stimming on September 10th!  Egg Retrieval 9/20/13.  19 eggs: 6 to mature to freeze after 6 fertilized with ICSI

   3 morula stage embryos transferred on 9/25/13.....Beta #1 on 10/4/13/ = 7.5  Beta #2 on 10/6/13 =  negative

    IVF#2 - Lupron plan  (set to begin on 10/28/13)  (Planning on thawing and fertilizing our 6 eggs with ICSI as well as all of the mature eggs they retrieve with this fresh cycle.)

   Late October 2013 - ectopic pregnancy - methotrexate injection....benched 3 months

  CD1 - 12/5/13...Lupron set to start on 12/26/13; CD1 - 1/2/14....Baseline 1/3/14....begin follistim tonight and continue with lupron.  (Got my calendar today!  IVF#2 is a go!)

  ER = 1/14/14  (11 eggs....9 were mature. 9 fertilized.  Of the 6 mature eggs we thawed, only 4 fertilized.  At this time, we have 13 eggs fertilized and growing.  Waiting for news about a 3-day or 5-day transfer.)

  ET = 1/19/14  (5dt).....3 blastocysts transferred!   (All nine embryos didn't make it to freeze.  =(  )

  Beta #1 = 1/28/14   (2 weeks after ER)  BFP! 209 (9dp5dt)   EDD 10/7/14

  Beta #2 - 1/30/14  (11 dp5dt) 302

  Beta #3 - 2/3/14  (15 dp5dt)  1222 

  Ultrasound set for 2/17/14......TWINS!        Twin A - HR 124 bpm; Twin B - HR 126 bpm

  Final Ultrasound with RE 3/10/14 - Twin A - HR 176 bpm; Twin B - HR 177 bpm.

   PAIF/SAIF Welcome! 

   

   

   

  
  

   

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