Anyone else feel amazing - better than non-pregnant?

jessher · November 2013

I feel better pregnant than I do non-pregnant. I don't mean in the first trimester, but the last 2 months have been pretty great. I am much more agreeable, able to let things go and not get annoyed with people, feel awesome physically, still sleep great, and best of all have a really elevated sex drive and get to have lots more sex than normal. Plus I am getting more stuff done around the house, keep things cleaner, and stay on top of cooking nightly.

In short, I feel like a better version of myself and while I am enjoying it, it makes me sad that I can't always be this way. It also makes me fear PPD, as I have a history of depression and this experience makes me wonder if all the hormones in me right now are good for my mental health and without them I will tank.

I've had 4 other kids, so you would think I would have a better understanding of my body and how it goes through pregnancy, but I had all my other kids in my 20s and I just don't think I was as aware of my moods then as I am now at age 39. I don't think I liked being pregnant before, but I in hindsight I think what I remember is the tough last few weeks, not the whole pregnancy in general.

Can anyone else relate/share experiences about this? I see lots of complaints on here but not as many people feeling awesome, but I know there must be others out there!

babylimas · November 2013

I felt like that last time. Once the HG passed, I loved pregnancy. This pregnancy I haven't even remotely felt like that.

clo1982 · November 2013

Nope, not even close.

ntdane · November 2013

I felt great when pregnant with DS. I never got sick, I was really active and incredibly productive. This time, not so much, but I think it's because there are two of them and I'm chasing a 2.5 yo all day. I still think I'm having an easier time than some others, but I can feel my body going downhill fast.

jwls84 · November 2013

clo1982 said:
Nope, not even close.

This! I am a total bitch! I can't even stand being around myself I don't know how anyone else is managing to not slap me!
However I do feel comfortable! Like 100x's more comfortable with this pregnancy then the last so I mean that's good, but I am still a bitch. Only 3 and half months left!

recline84 · November 2013

No. I can't wait to have my body back. I feel like a whale just trying to roll over or get off the sofa! I love the end result, but pregnancy can kiss my ass.

pepperedmoth · November 2013

jessher said:

I feel better pregnant than I do non-pregnant. I don't mean in the first trimester, but the last 2 months have been pretty great. I am much more agreeable, able to let things go and not get annoyed with people, feel awesome physically, still sleep great, and best of all have a really elevated sex drive and get to have lots more sex than normal. Plus I am getting more stuff done around the house, keep things cleaner, and stay on top of cooking nightly.

In short, I feel like a better version of myself and while I am enjoying it, it makes me sad that I can't always be this way. It also makes me fear PPD, as I have a history of depression and this experience makes me wonder if all the hormones in me right now are good for my mental health and without them I will tank.

I've had 4 other kids, so you would think I would have a better understanding of my body and how it goes through pregnancy, but I had all my other kids in my 20s and I just don't think I was as aware of my moods then as I am now at age 39. I don't think I liked being pregnant before, but I in hindsight I think what I remember is the tough last few weeks, not the whole pregnancy in general.

Can anyone else relate/share experiences about this? I see lots of complaints on here but not as many people feeling awesome, but I know there must be others out there!

Yep, the bolded part is me. I don't feel as MUCH more fabulous as you do (I have sciatica, rib pain from carrying high, I get short of breath) BUT my moods have definitely stabilized (I also have a history of depression). I am able to concentrate a little better and be more productive. I like it.

I too wonder if the changes in hormones are helping to balance my mental health issues, and I too fear PPD when it all goes away. For now I'm enjoying it!

htn1763 · November 2013

I'm not sure I am a better version, but pretty much the same. I haven't had any pregnancy symptoms at all, even during the 1st tri. I really just forget I am pregnant most of the time!

I think I am more tired, but I am not sure. I am generally lazy and like to use it as an excuse to make my DH just do more

LaurenAsh23 · November 2013

nope nope and nope. I have been more organized and cleaning more, but otherwise, no.

stefaknee · November 2013

I'm super moody, BUT, I agree. I feel good. I love nesting.. my house is cleaner. I don't feel pregnant, lol.

KayCee85 · November 2013

Absolutely not. I can't sleep. I feel like a cow. I was constantly nauseous for the first 16 wks, followed by migraines, followed by a two month long uti (not even exaggerating). Lately I've been having pretty uncomfortable BH pretty much all day long. Oh, I also have placenta previa so I can't have sex. I cry over everything and have daily pep talks with myself "you're growing a human. Its not supposed to be easy." "Stop being a whiny bitch." "Suck it the F up." PS: my husband probably hates me.

peachy0709 · November 2013

Yes and no. It's weird, I'm a worrier by nature, and I've found during pregnancy I'm able to quell my worries a lot faster and realize when I'm being irrational or things are out of my control. I also just can't bring myself to be a total stress monkey like I normally am while pregnant. That being said, I have noticed that when people say or do things that bother me, it takes me WAY longer to cool down than it use to. I am normally a pretty slow burn before I get annoyed with people, but now it just takes the smallest comment and I am raging.

I'mGonnaMarryYou · November 2013

recline84 said:

No. I can't wait to have my body back. I feel like a whale just trying to roll over or get off the sofa! I love the end result, but pregnancy can kiss my ass.

This exactly!

bumpuser9058414 · November 2013

I feel a lot better now than I did in first tri but def not better than I feel non-pregnant. I feel kind of sexy being pregnant, until I try to get up off the couch!

ALHolli · November 2013

I did last pregnancy. I feel overall great compared to m/s but I'm still achey and my hypoglycemia keeps things interesting, so I gotta be a step ahead of that. No motivation to do shit lol. Maybe once or twice a week I get a fire lit under me and I'll vacuum lol

mn27mommy · November 2013

First pregnancy yes, LOVED being pregnant even first tri... This time.... not so much.

aesmom · November 2013

No not even close. Especially waking up every two hours to pee. I just need some uninterrupted sleep!

clo1982 · November 2013

@recline84 that is exactly my feeling! I'm all for the result but I am not a fan of the journey...and obviously the result is worth the journey since here I am doing it again! I do truly envy women who are good at being pregnant though. I wish I could have that type of experience where I loved being pregnant.

JKS21 · November 2013

Oh yeah, the first time - I had less moods and was even more laid back than normal (I had a son). This time.... oh boy.. my hormones are most times pretty out of control and crazy (and it's a girl this time-haha hmmmmm)

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DTNZ4Ever · November 2013

I did last time around never got sick not even a cold. I had 2 weeks when I felt horrible but it passed. This time I'm feeling more aches and pains, I'm on my second cold, I've been dealing with BV, I was on pelvic rest for 8 weeks. I think it's the difference with being pregnant at 30 and then 35.

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benevolentforce · November 2013

I still do not feel well, and mentally things aren't as optimal for me as they are when not pregnant. However, I have two friends who felt like you (better than when not pregnant), and it's always wonderful to see. In one case in-particular, she had anxiety issues prior, and hasn't since being pregnant/giving birth to that baby (who is now 4). I hope the positive changes stick with you, OP!

jessher · November 2013

Thanks for the feedback, everyone. I guess all I can do is enjoy it while it lasts! At least I know how to address depression if it does pop up.

I've often found myself wondering if the gender of the baby matters. Does extra testosterone from having a boy affect MY sex drive/mood? I wonder!

CruiseGirl28 · November 2013

I was a terrible sleeper pre-pregnancy, but I've been falling asleep easily and sleeping through the night. I shouldn't get used to it.

I also feel better about my body image too. I love showing off my bump!

teaforthree · November 2013

Physically, I wouldn't say I feel better than non-pregnant. I've been suffering with heartburn, constant back pain, being uncomfortable in general (esp at night), etc., but I do LOVE the shape of my belly and feeling the baby's movements. However, mentally I've noticed a huge improvement. I suffered from various anxiety issues prior to BFP, and have had none since. I have been much more relaxed and rational. I wonder what the hormones are doing to me, and hope they don't crash after baby is born (*knock on wood*). I figure I will just deal with one thing at a time, whatever comes my way.

Npironi · November 2013

All i have to say is NO, and for those of you who do..God Bless you!

jessher · November 2013

teaforthree said:

Physically, I wouldn't say I feel better than non-pregnant. I've been suffering with heartburn, constant back pain, being uncomfortable in general (esp at night), etc., but I do LOVE the shape of my belly and feeling the baby's movements. However, mentally I've noticed a huge improvement. I suffered from various anxiety issues prior to BFP, and have had none since. I have been much more relaxed and rational. I wonder what the hormones are doing to me, and hope they don't crash after baby is born (*knock on wood*). I figure I will just deal with one thing at a time, whatever comes my way.

Yes, this exactly! Of course I have the normal aches and pains, so it's not so much the physical side that is improved. It's just such a relief to feel centered, stable, and content emotionally and I want to stay this way. Plus the extra sex drive.

dancer7889 · November 2013

My DH actually says I'm a more pleasant person pregnant than not pregnant... And generally I have to agree with him. Aside from the random stupid cry, my moods and mood swings are so much better pregnant. It does worry me about ppd when my hormones will be all out of whack.

Physically I feel pretty good, not as good not pregnant, but close. I've been able to keep up all my dance, yoga, and Pilates with no problem, just a little less stamina.

But the last week or two, sleeping has been horrible. I half blame it on the super dry air, half on being uncomfortable.

2thdr333 · November 2013

I feel the exact same way. I feel like that sounds crazy to some, but despite the negative pregnancy symptoms, I just feel so happy all the time. I am smiling constantly, I am high energy and ready to go!

bunniekrissy · November 2013

Physically ... no. I have aches and pains and feel out of shape, get winded more easily, etc. However, I'm extremely motivated to accomplish projects, plan meals, clean house, etc. My mood is also good. I've never had any "bitchy" pregnancy side effects.

PinupMomma08 · November 2013

No way, I so feel gross, can't catch my breath, can't stand for more than 20 minutes, have no appetite and I can't sleep.

PinupMomma08 · November 2013

I do have an older family member who is normally a psychotic bitch from hell until she's knocked up. Then she's singing and baking cookies for people.

ProudMommy030614 · November 2013

All I have to say is I haven't seen my lady parts in a few months...

Excitedmum35 · November 2013

I was diagnosed with depression/anxiety a few years ago. After a VERY rough year (situational) last year my decision was to stay medicated for this pregnancy as I really felt in my first pregnancy I was depressed. I'm on a very low dosage (50mg zoloft) and I see my psychologist once a month and now every second.
Mentally- I feel like I'm not moody- I'm happy, regardless of the difficulties of last year. So yes- I feel mentally better than pre pregnancy.
Occasionally little things irritate me way too much and I really have to work at letting them go. And there's been a few ppl I really haven't wanted to be around.
But I'm not a bitch or snapping at ppl or crying feeling depressed at all.
I believe I'm having a girl- just thought I'd add that as pp suggested maybe it was a boy thing?
Physically- well I'm 35 and was carrying an extra 30kgs (that I put on last year due to stress!) so I'm not loving it physically that much!!

teaforthree · November 2013

jessher said:

teaforthree said:

Physically, I wouldn't say I feel better than non-pregnant. I've been suffering with heartburn, constant back pain, being uncomfortable in general (esp at night), etc., but I do LOVE the shape of my belly and feeling the baby's movements. However, mentally I've noticed a huge improvement. I suffered from various anxiety issues prior to BFP, and have had none since. I have been much more relaxed and rational. I wonder what the hormones are doing to me, and hope they don't crash after baby is born (*knock on wood*). I figure I will just deal with one thing at a time, whatever comes my way.

Yes, this exactly! Of course I have the normal aches and pains, so it's not so much the physical side that is improved. It's just such a relief to feel centered, stable, and content emotionally and I want to stay this way. Plus the extra sex drive.

I'm glad someone can relate, because I honestly didn't know if I was weird for actually feeling better. I think in large part it has to do with shifting my focus from what I would normally get hung up on to the growing baby inside of me. It's strange that something literally inside of me has been able to take me outside of myself, mentally. In that way, I feel this pregnancy and this baby have been very healing for me. I hope it stays, too!!

Grovecenter · November 2013

Bahaha I wished! I feel like I've been hit by a truck since the beginning lol

jennybean80 · November 2013

I've been feeling pretty great so far! I normally have lots of problems with my hips when not pg but have been having fewer issues even though I'm pretty damn big right now (24 weeks, twins). I am a little more stressed out than normal because of my cervix and my preemie history, but I'm trying not to let it get to me too much!

jessher · November 2013

Since this got bumped, I might as well update with a conversation I had with my midwife about this. She said she thinks it is the progesterone that levels out moods for those with anxiety/depression tendencies. So if you fall into a post partum depression, you can try wild yam cream or another type of progesterone cream or supplement.

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