Pregnant after 35

Oh what a day!!!!!!!

James Atticus arrived in wild fashion right on his due date of November 21, 2013 at 6:40 in the evening. 

I woke up Thursday morning and started having contractions around 6:30 am.  I went along with my day because I knew after having my daughter that I was in for a long process.  With DD I was in labor for 3 days.  Around lunchtime I decided to call my Drs office to just check in and was told to come in after lunch to get checked.

DH and I went to the office around 2pm was hooked up to the monitors and checked and was told I was 3 cm dilated.  Was told it would be best to go back home for a little while and when the contractions got stronger to call back and either get re-checked at the office or go straight to the hospital depending on the hour of the day.  We went back home, hung out with DD, had lunch and all the while my contractions were getting bad but still bearable. 

Around 5:30 I decided to call back because it was getting painful. Was told to come to the office since they were still doing office hours.  After somehow managing to get through the worlds most excruciating car ride EVER we were about to arrive at the Drs office.  I threw up in the car, luckily I remembered to bring a bag just in case.  I knew we weren’t going home this time.  Transition labor had started.  I somehow got out of the car and went into the office to get checked.

I lucked out at had my own Dr, who delivered DD and I LOVE her.  She checked me, told me I was 8-9 cm and that I had to get to the hospital right away.  She said “you aren’t going to have this baby right now but you need to get there right away.”  Luckily for us the hospital is only 5 mins from the office.  I again somehow managed to get back in the car. 

We turned left out of the office and I had the contraction to end all contractions.  In that split second my water broke and this baby was coming.  We were never making it to the hospital.  I told DH he needed to turn back around we had to go back to the Drs office because the baby was coming. 

DH turned the car around we pulled into the office. He jumped out of the car and went and got someone to help me.  I was escorted back into the office and into an exam room and within less than 5 minutes and 3 pushes James Atticus was born in my DRS office by the most wonderful doctor put on God’s green earth.  She and the staff were AMAZING!!!!!  Not once, during the whole terrifying experience did I feel unsafe.  I knew I was in the best of hands, even though we weren’t at the hospital.  I got my doctor to deliver me again, I had the natural birth I wanted, just not in the fashion I was expecting.

Instead of heading to the hospital with DH in our Honda Pilot with Baby Geeps still inside of me I got a free ride in an ambulance from the wonderful members of the Volunteer EMS Squad with Jimmy in my arms and alarms blazing.  As those that know me IRL know  I HATE attention so this was beyond mortifying for me.  We were admitted to the ER, got checked out and then brought up to the Post Partum floor. 

We are both happy, healthy and happy to be home!  This kid already shaved a few years off my life lol

 


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  • LucyRicardo3LucyRicardo3 member
    edited November 2013
    oh. my. goodness!! wow!!
    that is an AMAZING story!
    so glad everyone is ok!
    congratulations!!

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  • Holy cow Geeps!!! That is quite the story!! So glad you had a wonderful dr that you loved and glad all went well with the delivery! Congratulations mama!!! He's gorgeous!
    Me:41, DH:41 Positive for MTHFR mutations- one copy C677T, one copy A1298C. One daughter born on Thanksgiving in 2013. Six losses.
  • Wow! You and James will have a story to tell for years to come!

    Congratulations on your beautiful son.

    AMA & SAIF. TTC #1 since Oct. 2010. DX: Unexplained. BFP on break after 32 months trying and 2 med cycles. Baby girl born at 40w0d!

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  • Congrats! But OMG. My first labor was a whopping 3 hrs after being induced. So my doc has already said we are likely to induce this time about a week early to keep me from delivering in my car! I am now, after reading this, ENTIRELY on board with this plan. Again, congrats! He's beautiful.
  • I hope you don't mind a comment from a previous lurker/just intro'd here person, but - congratulations!  So glad you and your son are OK after that adventure, and that you got your favorite doc (and especially not the a$$hat you'd mentioned before) caring for you during the delivery!  
    Me: 39  DH: 44  together since 2000 married 9/2004 TTC #1 since 2/2012
    BFP #1 6/5/2012  m/c 6/15/2012 about 5w3d   BFP #2 6/?/2013 m/c 7/1/2013 5w 3d
    BFP #3 8/25/2013  EDD 5/7/2014    DD A. born 5/8/2014!!  Love!!!!
  • Wow - what a story!   I'm so glad that everything worked out ok.   Little James is a cutie.  Congratulations!!
    Me-41, Hubby-40.
    1st BFP-8/17/12!  Missed Miscarriage discovered @ 8 week US.  D&C.
    2nd BFP-2/13/13!  Blighted Ovum discovered @ 8 week US. Natural miscarriage.
    3rd BFP-5/22/13!  By early June, progesterone plummeting.  Another loss.
    August 2013 - started Donor Egg process, but surprise BFP with my own eggs.
    Dear Son born 5/28/14
  • Wow, what an amazing story!!  Congratulations!!!!! He is beautiful!!!!
    TTC since 10/09 Me-43 DH-44 RE and testing 10/10-11/10, Recommending IVF 1/11 New RE AMA and DOR-DH low motility IVF #1.1 cancelled 3/11 due to poor response IVF #1.2 May 2011, one perfect 8-cell embryo, 3dt-BFN, IVF #2.1 Converted to IUI d/t poor response. New RE 9/2011. IVF 2.2 completed using HGH,EPP,DHEA, Q-10 and accupuncture. Transferred one 8-cell, grade one embryo on 10/19. BFP 10/31/11 Chemical pregancy on 11/2/11. Started stims for IVF #3, our final try, on 12-2-11. ET on 12/18. Transferred 3 Grade A embryos-BFFN Planning DE IVF, late March/early April- Donors ER expected to be 4/2-4/4. PAIF/SAIF welcome
  • Congratulations on a beautiful son...thank you for sharing your amazing story!
    Me, 41; DH 38; TTC since July 2012, 1st round of Clomid, BFP on 10/19, what an incredible blessing!  M/c on 7w3d; D&C on 11/30; 4th round of Clomid 100mg = BFP on 04/19!!! M/c #2 at 7w; D&C on 5/30, then repeat D&C on 7/1.  Saline u/s on 8/2, uterus looks great!  Will start TTC in 09/13 w/ Clomid 100mg. Surprise natural BFP on 8/25!!! Beta #1=95, #2=182, #3=404!  EDD 5/4/13...Grow baby grow!


  • Wow! What a great story. Congratulations!
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  • Congrats!  What a beautiful baby!
  • That does sound like quite a wild ride! Congrats! He is adorable!
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  • Wow!  Congratulations!  Wonderful story and beautiful babe!
  • Wow wow wow! Awesome! Congratulations! Gorgeous boy! :)
  • Congrats! 
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  • What a story! I'm so happy to hear that everything turned out so well even if it was unusual/unexpected! James is soooo cute! Congratulations!
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  • What a wonderful birth story!  Thank you for sharing and congratulations :) 
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  • Thanks everyone :).  It will be a day I will never forget that's for sure lol.  We think he's pretty cute but I know we are very partial.  Had his first visit with the pediatrician and he is doing great so alls well that ends well.

     

    Sending lots of luck to all of you with time left to cook.  Enjoy every moment because it goes by in a flash, at least with this pregnancy it did with me. 

    I'll check back in on all of you from time to time to see how you are doing.  You have been an amazing bunch of women and I am so very grateful for all of you.  Other boards are not as supportive and friendly as ours and I always felt I could ask or answer anything and no snark would come of it.

    Much appreciation for all your kind words :)

     


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  • Wow! That is amazing!! Congratulations on your beautiful baby boy! I hope you are feeling well :)
  • Holy cow! What a great story!  He just didnt want to wait another second to meet you. Congrats mama!
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