So, I know I shouldn't be worried about this because he will talk when he is ready, but I am. My son still does not talk and it is incredibly frustrating. We know he can hear because he completes things we ask him. Please go get your shoes, where are your ears? Belly? etc....Come here, go get your chair and help mommy cook...and he runs to get his chair. So his hearing and comprehension are good, and he is very good at electronics no matter what it is. He signs to me the few signs I have taught him to tell me when he is hungry or needs his diaper changed. We, collectively as a family, are constantly prompting him to talk and we get nothing. every so often he will come off with a very clear word or short phrase, but then he won't say it again.
I feel like I'm going crazy!! I soooooo want him to be able to talk to me and tell me what he wants instead of just pointing and grunting. All he says is Hi, Dada, and Vroom (when he plays with his trucks), and once in a blue moon I can get him to say Mama or Mom. But that is all we have. And because he knows what he wants and can't properly tell me, he gets frustrated and it has been happening a lot more lately.
We have our 18M checkup next month....I just want him to start talking before that so we know everything is good and won't have to go through some sort of speech therapy. Any advice on how to maybe help this along myself.....
Re: Still not talking at 17mo.....what gives?
My 17 month old son talks some, but until about the last week said very few words around me. He babbles in his own language all the time, but I was getting very few words out of him. I've learned though that he does say more words around other people, specifically his grandmother. Does your son babble? Does he spend time with other people that you could ask? I've come to learn that my son does things differently around me - or so it would appear - because I feel like I've learned what he wants and needs without him having to say the words all the time. If that makes sense?
I talk to him all the time, and we're always singing songs, playing music or have the tv on for the noise when we're home. My son really responds to music well, in fact I think he's trying to sing the ABC's with me now. I try to read books to him too, although his attention span is like 60 seconds. He goes to daycare and I know that they read and talk all day there too. If your son is being exposed to language every day in some way or multiple ways, I'm not sure there is anything else you can do. Hang in there! I'll bet the words will start flying out of his mouth soon.
Something that my friends and I have noticed with our kids is that they seem to have "language leaps" whenever they get out of the normal routine for a bit. Vacations, day trips, just seeing new people. After visiting my mom in California for two weeks, DD came home with about 15 new words. Try getting in some new experiences, it may help.
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Thanks for all your responses ladies. I am doing everything that all of you are suggesting, trust me I'm not a sit back and watch type of parent. I read to him constantly because he LOVES books. I can ask him any part of the book (find the puppy, where is the fire truck, where is the cookie) and he will flip to the page and point to it. I narrate every where we go, I probably look like a fruit loop in the stores. I point stuff out as we drive. We sing, we dance, we work on sizes, colors, shapes, animals, Disney characters, everyday items all play based. We do sign language, we work on animal sounds...we do it ALL!!! I explain to him what I do when I cook. He mimics my movements and what I do, just not my mouth or my words. He knows what he can and can't touch and is very responsive and receptive to all commands no matter what it is. And really, he could care less about TV. He is more interested in his toys and his books and when I let him play with them, the apps on my ipad that are for him.
And it isn't that I don't want to get an EL. I will do whatever I have to do in order to help my son with anything. I just don't want to do anything too early to invoke frustration for him, and I don't want to wait until it is too late when it becomes more difficult. I feel like I'm walking a tight rope on what to do when. I just want to do what is best for him. Our Pedi said she wasn't going to worry until he is 2 because of the language explosion that you girls have mentioned, and she mentioned it too.
Guess I will start getting my resources around, and start watching some videos and reading books on how to maybe kickstart the process to teaching him to talk a bit. Maybe we can make enough headway in the next 4 weeks before out appt. to make me not worry so much.
Just a thought, but are you with him all the time, or does he go to day care, or have a family member watch him at all?
The reason I ask is because DD (18months) is watched by my parents during the week while Dh & I work, and she often will use a new word during the day with them, but then doesn't repeat that word for days in DH, or my presence. The time we spend with her is mostly evenings and this is the last part of her day, she is not really at her sharpest, she is getting tired and ready for bed.
Usually, I will notice her using a "new" word on the weekends. Also, I will say she is most likely right around the corner from an explosion because the new words are definitely coming faster the past few weeks. From 15-17months I don't think she really learned any new words and then in the last month she has probably picked up at least 6-8 that she will consistently use now, including Mama (finally:)
I love the word fiddlesticks and use it almost daily
Snicklefritz is also a favorite daily word to mask my pre mom trucker mouth. Lol
Thanks for all the suggestions and ideas. And to answer your question DiveFrog, yes he goes to grandma's house while DH and I work.
I'm going to ease up on myself a little bit especially after this weekend. He seemed to pick up new letter sounds, can now say yes by shaking his head, says thank you in sign language, and can correctly identify the letter 'R' out of the whole alphabet (weird I know). I'm going to work with him at home a little more heavily than I was before to see if we can make some magic happen before out appt. next month. Thanks again to all of you. I appreciate everything.