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May 2013 Moms
mamatohne
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@shantxtell
mamatohne
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It was very hard for me to come back here but I feel like I have a target on my back when it comes to you. (not really sure if you even care) I'm sorry you may have certain feelings about me and a certain fffc, however I took the advice of several moms here on how I should approach coming back, if that was what I chose to do, 4 out of 5 advised me to just start posting again. I'm sorry if you feel like you need an explanation and didn't get one. All I can say is EVERYTHING about that post was so poorly written I didn't even know how to defend my self. I still don't.
I really love coming here, learning that my baby is nothing and everything like everyone else's! I love seeing all the babies and watching them grow! I love being part of this group of wonderful ladies who understand 99% of what I'm going through.
Sometimes you should keep in mind the fact that you don't know what is going on in someone personal life, or how your words might affect them.
I also what to take a minute to apologize if I have ever made anyone feel the way I have felt during all of this!
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Re: @shantxtell
I think the general feel, at least from some of us is that you hid away and said nothing, while our board was getting blasted to pieces from half of The Bump, because of something you said that we apparently were too nice to you about. And don't forget, called the dumbest/craziest group of moms on the entire Bump... Because of something YOU said!?! I know this is the interwebz and all, but if a friend or colleague did that to me in real life, allowed me to get blasted for being to nice to them, we'd have problems.
Then you pop back up, in all places, on HDBD, with not a word said. It's gonna rub some people the wrong way.
Here's the thing TarynLeann, I understand why that could have been upsetting for you and why you would have wanted to never come back. And I'm not the board police or the mayor of May 2013 so I have no right to stop you from coming back. However considering I stood up for you as a regular poster and defended your right to explain yourself I sort of expected an explanation or a thanks guys or something once all the attention died down. I didn't expect ladeeda everything is back to normal. Do I think you are a child abuser..obviously not, and we all said that, but I also think that some of us thought a thanks for sticking up for me guys was in order. Hell even a guys I am coming back and I'd prefer we don't talk about Spankgate anymore. Literally I had people on other boards calling me an idiot and saying they felt sorry for our children and you come back to post photos on HDBD and call out Shanxtell for being too mean? That's your triumphant return? So glad I took all that shit for someone who doesn't even care. Eleventy¡
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TTC #2:
March - May 2014 - Natural cycles - no luck
June 2014 - Clomid 50mg - BFN
July 2014 - Clomid 50mg - BFN
August 2014 - Clomid 50mg - BFN
September 2014 - Clomid 50mg - Fingers crossed...
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TTC #2:
March - May 2014 - Natural cycles - no luck
June 2014 - Clomid 50mg - BFN
July 2014 - Clomid 50mg - BFN
August 2014 - Clomid 50mg - BFN
September 2014 - Clomid 50mg - Fingers crossed...
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Also no more posts about TWD! I am two seasons behind and for me Rick is still normal and about to be a father. Aaaand there is a crazy woman with walkers on leashes...I hope she sticks around because as mayor I have decided to put Boo and NJAZGIRL on leashes and force them to post my opinions for me. Excellent. Oh and everyone will get an exclamation point debit card and there will be mandatory drug testing in order for you to use it. I of course am allowed to use both drugs and exclamation points with reckless abandon because I'm the mayor.
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