Re: I Have the Sads...Vent :(

• TravelingCouple member

  November 2013

  HisGirlFriday929 said:

  So sorry for your loss!!  What an awful thing to go through by yourself at her house like that!

  It was the worst day of my life. I had to tell my husband over the phone that we lost the baby because he was 3 hours away and I didn't feel right waiting to tell him. I swear when I think about this past summer it feels so surreal. I just can't believe everything that happened.
  
  

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• nswain85 member

  November 2013

  I am so so sorry... gosh, how heartbreaking. Maybe try and go have a nice dinner or a few drinks to make yourself feel better. Do something nice for you

  Trying to have baby #1 since April 2013

  DH SA March,May 2014 - Low motility and shape issues. On vitamins per RE to help

  Me testing April 3, 2014 - FSH and LH good, HSG showed blocked right tube

  April 29, 2014 - First RE appt., right tube needs to be removed and possibly left also if

  it's bad too. RE suggests going straight to IVF

  June 4, 2014 - LAP/HSC and unexpected endo. removed but tubes got to stay!

  June 13, 2014 - Post-Op appointment. We decide where to go next since main issue

  is MFI influenced. Trying naturally until decision... Repeat SA  in September. Aiming for IUI #1 November 2014.

  

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• TravelingCouple member

  November 2013

  Thank you ladies for the kind words!

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• Reagan1010 member

  November 2013

  I'm so sorry for your loss!

  

  
  

  
  

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• MusicFanatic member

  November 2013

  *hugs* I'm so sorry.

  
  

  
  

  (Zoe Claire- born at 33.6 weeks- November 19, '14 - 5lbs 15oz)

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• TeeJ526 member

  November 2013

  I'm so sorry. ::HUGS::

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• jamjoyful member

  November 2013

  I'm sorry! Hugs from me too!

  

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• beckynsean11 member

  November 2013 edited November 2013

  I'm so sorry Some days are harder than others. There's no reason to beat yourself up, you're definitely allowed. I vote go do something nice for yourself. Hugs!

  
  

  ETA: I know it's hard to talk about it with irl friends. I'm always around if you need someone.

  
  

     Me: IR-PCOS, elevated DHEAs, low progesterone, weak ovulation  DH: low volume, low T

  SHG 5/10/13: both tubes blocked; HSG 6/28 = Left tube cleared! Right blocked.

  BFP#1 7/20/13 EDD 3/30/14, m/c 8/19/13, D&E 8/21/13, Chromosomal results = normal, female

  Lap & hysteroscopy scheduled for 10/31, right tube cleared, no endo found! ...Happy Halloween!

  Cycle 14: Clomid (50)+ IUI = BFP! EDD 9/16/14~ Rowan Elizabeth born sleeping at 17w4d on 4/12/14 due to IC.

  ~There is no foot too small that it cannot leave an imprint on this world~

  New RE June 2014. RPL b/w - negative. SIS looking for uterine/cervical abnormalities & Asherman's 6/10/14 - ALL CLEAR!  

  Cycle 16: Natural IUI = CP, Cycle 17: Femara (2.5) + IUI = BFN, Cycle 18 Femara (5) + IUI = BFFN, Cycle 19: Break

  Cycle 20: Clomid (50)+ IUI = BFP EDD 6/20, transvaginal cerclage 12/19, Carson Quinn born sleeping at 16w3d on 1/6/15 due to IC

  Phone consult with Dr. Haney (Univ of Chicago) for transabdominal cercalge scheduled for 2/9/15.

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• wishiwaspreggo member

  November 2013

  So sorry for your loss what a terrible thing to happen when you're visiting a friend... I agree with PPs, do something for you today!

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• CMSullivan326 member

  November 2013

  I'm so sorry, TC. ::hugs::

  *Evan Michael*
  

  {06/15/2010 ~ 9lbs. 4oz, 22.5in.}

  *Twin Angel Babies*

  {Said Goodbye on 08/13/2011 at 17w3d}

  No longer TTC

  *~Kisses to My Bestie Boo, ScrappyLika~*
  

  
  

  
  

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• mmb248 member

  November 2013

  I'm so sorry for your loss.  I can imagine that it being this friend makes it more difficult to hear.  {{{hugs}}}
  

  
  

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  Me: 33     DH: 38
  

  TTC since August 2011
  

  DX:  PCOS and subseptate uterus
  

  August 2013:  Clomid + Trigger + IUI TI = BFN
  

  September 2013:  Clomid + Trigger + TI = BFN
  

  October 2013:  Clomid + Trigger + IUI canceled
  

  November 2013:  NTNP
  April 2013:  Femara + Trigger + IUI = ???
  

  
  

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• obxlaurak member

  November 2013

  I am so sorry.  =(
  

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• PugMum member

  November 2013

  I have no words other than I am sorry. 

  Married 11/21/2018

  Me: 33 / DH: 33

  TTC #1 since 2012, finally successful in 2016

  BFP 11/29/2013 - EDD 8/9/2014 - MMC 12/31/2013 8 weeks 2 days - Tried to MC naturally for 4 weeks, D&C 2/2/2014
  

  IUI 01/25/2016 - BFP 2/5/2016 - Natural Home Delivery to our DD 10/8/2016

  IUD removed 10/3/2018 

  Ready to TTC for #2

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• angelg3134 member

  November 2013

  I'm really sorry. *internet hug*

  "As soon as I saw you, I knew an adventure was going to happen." -Winnie The Pooh
  
  
  

  
  
  

  
  
  
  

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• jcsumm0 member

  November 2013

  I'm so sorry you had to go though that.  ((hugs))

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• IvyMagic828 member

  November 2013

  Lots 'n lots 'n lots of hugs to you!  So sorry you had to go through that and then have those feelings come flooding back again. 
  

   
  

  Married since 8.2.08
  DS born 8.11.14
  BFP #2: 9.14.16, EDD: 5.24.17
  
  

  

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• sister13 member

  November 2013

  So sorry TC!

    

  TTC#1 since May 2012. Low AMH, High FSH.
  Factor II (Prothrombin) Mutation
  TTGP Award Best PIP 2013 & 2014

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• Bredins wife member

  November 2013

  I'm so sorry for your loss, and that you are having a hard time. ***hugs***
  

  

  
  
  
  TTC #2 since 8/2012
  Me:28 H:34
  Me: all tests normal!
  H:  Azoospermia (Sperm count zero).
  MFI Urologist all test normal.
  Biopsy Feb. 14
  
  ****EVERYONE WELCOME****
  

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• Weezy56 member

  November 2013

  I am very sorry for your loss : (

  
  

  
  

  
  

  
  

  
  

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• ClaireHuxtable member

  November 2013

  I'm so sorry for your loss. I hope you find comfort and peace. It's a long struggle and I still don't have command over my feelings. I feel you completely. 

  
  

  I experienced a very similar thing and reacted in the same manner as you did. We kept the miscarriage a secret and my friend called and right as I was going to bring it up, she blurts out that she's 7 mos pregnant.  I was so sad - sadder than I wanted to admit to myself.  I know it's not her fault, she didn't know, but it just stung so bad.  I will sometimes replay that convo over and over in my head. But, I know, I'll feel better soon. You will too.

  
  

  Sending many, many hugs your way. 

   

  Don't worry, I'm working on it. 

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• Smile0704 member

  November 2013

  Im so sorry for your loss. Positive thoughts going out to you. 

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• TJD12 member

  November 2013

  I'm sorry   I hope you feel better soon!

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• nyg2042 member

  November 2013

  I am so sorry you had to go through that. My best friend got pregnant after we had been trying and had a loss. I hadn't told her, but I decided to share with her a few months later. It actually helped a lot.

  
  

  
  

  
  

  BFP #1 : 3/20/13 | EDD: 12/1/13 | MC: 4/15/13 

  BFP #2: 1/9/14 | EDD: 9/21/14  

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• Spookster member

  November 2013

  I am so sorry :-( 

  **~Future Mama to my June "Sprout"~**
  EDD- 06/13/2017
  **Stinkerbelle-8-27-10 * Mr.P's 2nd Mama 7-27-07**
  

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• TravelingCouple member

  November 2013

  Thank you everyone so much, your support means a lot. I love this board (((hugs))) back. Sorry I poofed, I got swamped at work and couldn't get back on. My hubby picked me up a bottle of wine today, all for me!

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• TravelingCouple member

  November 2013

  Thanks packer.

  
  

  And very sorry for all of you ladies who have also experienced a loss. It's a terrible thing to be able to empathize and I wish no one ever had to experience it.

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• augusta17 member

  November 2013

  I'm so sorry for your loss. I say relax and take some time for you.

  TTC #1 since 08/2013
  

  BFP#1: 1/6/2014 EDD: 9/17/2014 Natural MC: 1/17/2014 (5w3d)

  BFP #2: 6/7/2014 EDD: 2/18/2015 Natural MC 6/19/2014 (5w)

  BFP #3: 10/22/14 EDD: 7/1/2015  

  *Taking Progesterone supplements* Beta 1: 777, Beta 2: 2589 *GROW BABY!*

   

  

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• Neary2011 member

  November 2013

  I am soooooooooooooo very sorry for your loss !

   Married: June 9, 2011 

  TTC Baby #1: January 2012

  Baby #1: BFP: February 16, 2012, EDD: October 24, 2012, July 2, 2012, we found out we are expecting a GIRL !

  11-2-2012 @ 12:55am, 41 weeks and 1 day, Kendall Rose was born, weighting 7lb. and 12oz.

  TTC Baby #2: June 2013

  Baby #2: BFP: August 16, 2013, EDD: April 18, 2014, Gender Predictor said: Girl  "Christian April" MC: August 24, 2013 @ 5 weeks and 1 day

  TTC Baby #3: October 2013

  Baby #3: BFP: December 31, 2013   EDD: September 8, 2014, Gender Predictor said: Girl "Sweet Pea September" stopped growing January 12 @ 6 weeks  (Missed Miscarriage), D and C: January 28, 2014 @ 8 weeks 2 days

  Baby #4: BFP: June 13, 2014 EDD: February 25, 2015, October 10, 2014, we found out we are expecting a BOY !

  "Love Bears all things, hopes all things, and endures all things"

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• nikiz628 member

  November 2013

  *hugs*
  

                                      
                                 
                                          
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  [TTC Since October 2013] [ BFP 1.27.15  EDD: 10.8.15]
  

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• MKAM10 member

  November 2013

  I am so, so sorry. That is really rough.

  

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