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I've been Out-Mothered...

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So MIL asked me if I give DD infant massage, I said yes, but not the daily.  She asked how often, and I said, 'here and there'. She said she used to give her babies massages every day to relax them.....(insert awkward silence here).

I've just been out-mothered.  Anyone else been out-mothered yet/recently?
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  • BelhurstBrideBelhurstBride member
    Meh, daily massages would have over stimulated my first.
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  • ELauren88ELauren88 member
    My friend informed me that if you're EBFing you should be giving vit D drops. My pedi hasn"t said dick about it. She sure told me.
     
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  • CaliforniaDream87CaliforniaDream87 member
    MynaBird said:


    jessicaivana said:

    I am constantly being told that I need to put a onesie under everything LO wears...including the onesie. Seriously? So if he is wearing a long sleeve onesie he needs a short sleeve one under it. I do NOT get this logic. Or if he is wearing a short sleeve onesie- he needs another one under that.

    If he is wearing a snap down one piece- I put a onesie under it because I feel like the buttons can be drafty. And sometimes I put a onesie on under his zip down pjs at night because it's cold. But to wear a onesie under a onesie...WTF.

    I don't consider this out mothering...I consider it a waste of laundry and creating an overheated/over clothed baby!


    But what goes under the bottom onesie? WHERE DO THE ONESIES STOP?


    I'm sure that "mommy know-it-all" who "out mothers" has a perfect answer for that ;)
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  • MissyCeeMissyCee member
    jessicaivana said:

    I am constantly being told that I need to put a onesie under everything LO wears...including the onesie. Seriously? So if he is wearing a long sleeve onesie he needs a short sleeve one under it. I do NOT get this logic. Or if he is wearing a short sleeve onesie- he needs another one under that.

    If he is wearing a snap down one piece- I put a onesie under it because I feel like the buttons can be drafty. And sometimes I put a onesie on under his zip down pjs at night because it's cold. But to wear a onesie under a onesie...WTF.

    I don't consider this out mothering...I consider it a waste of laundry and creating an overheated/over clothed baby!

    I am right there with ya! When visiting my MIL I dressed LO in an adorable long sleeve onesie. MIL remarked "oh she's not wearing anything under this?" and I was just dumbfounded. Why does she need something under her onesie exactly??

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    Exactly....my sarcasm doesn't always translate via the written word...
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  • MinnesotaMomma91MinnesotaMomma91 member
    Im out mothered by the chick who wont put the prescription diaper rash cream on her dd cause its unnatural.

    Apparently she knows sooooo much more then me cause she bf and i ff. Yup she knows so much like how many problems i had nursing to the point i hated it and it wasnt worth the cluster of plugged ducts, the mastitis, and the ruptured abcess, and fighting ds bad latch.

    Oh but! Now shes suplimenting with formula. Haha
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    jessicaivana said:

    I am constantly being told that I need to put a onesie under everything LO wears...including the onesie. Seriously? So if he is wearing a long sleeve onesie he needs a short sleeve one under it. I do NOT get this logic. Or if he is wearing a short sleeve onesie- he needs another one under that.

    If he is wearing a snap down one piece- I put a onesie under it because I feel like the buttons can be drafty. And sometimes I put a onesie on under his zip down pjs at night because it's cold. But to wear a onesie under a onesie...WTF.

    I don't consider this out mothering...I consider it a waste of laundry and creating an overheated/over clothed baby!

    lol! This is me actually. LO has never not had a onesie on. Where's my awardddd
    jokes of course. Just a thing my mom did, and my sister did with her babies, so it was just natural to me to always have an undershirt on a baby. 
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  • CaliforniaDream87CaliforniaDream87 member
    ELauren88 said:


    LokiLahve said:

    I have a feeling OP is using the term "out mothered" sarcastically.


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    God, I've missed you. Pretty sure we ALL read the sarcasm....
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  • bluegirl0429bluegirl0429 member
    amandarins said:
    I am out mothered by an EBF/natural birth is the only way to give birth Nazi. Seriously, anyone who does not do these things is less of a mother. Meanwhile, my c section FF baby is perfectly healthy and has never been sick while her 2 LOs have asthma, allergies and are constantly fighting colds. So no, formula and c section birth does not guarantee inferior health fuckyouverymuch.
    I can't love this response enough! 

    I am the only formula feeding/c-section mama in my "parent and infant group" I attend. I feel "out mothered" all the time. LO is growing wonderfully and is happy so I can't complain! 
    *E - 08/29/2013*


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  • RevezRevez member
    MommyKristin88 said:
    No one can out mother me! I'm on that shit like white on rice! Seriously though, I know this chick that can do no wrong when it comes to her kids and she lets the world know it. If I get one more lecture about all that I do "wrong" I might barf on her.
    Is she on this board???
    Actually, she might be now that you mention it... she did have a kid in A13.

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  • LokiLahveLokiLahve member
    CaliforniaDream87 said:

    ELauren88 said:


    LokiLahve said:

    I have a feeling OP is using the term "out mothered" sarcastically.


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    God, I've missed you. Pretty sure we ALL read the sarcasm....

    You sure Cali? Your initial reply doesn't seem to imply you took it as sarcasm.
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    edited November 2013
    LokiLahve said:

    CaliforniaDream87 said:

    ELauren88 said:


    LokiLahve said:

    I have a feeling OP is using the term "out mothered" sarcastically.


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    God, I've missed you. Pretty sure we ALL read the sarcasm....
    You sure Cali? Your initial reply doesn't seem to imply you took it as sarcasm.



    Clearly a reading fail on your part. I know sarcasm, thanks for your concern though. Definitely didn't need you to point ANYTHING out to me.
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  • Critter015Critter015 member
    Ugh, MIL let DH sleep on her chest every night, not because he wouldn't sleep on his own, but because she wanted him to feel loved! I do not have time for that shit! Thank GOD she BFed or no telling what I'd be dealing with!
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  • ELauren88ELauren88 member
    LokiLahve said:
    LokiLahve said:
    I have a feeling OP is using the term "out mothered" sarcastically.
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    God, I've missed you. Pretty sure we ALL read the sarcasm....
    You sure Cali? Your initial reply doesn't seem to imply you took it as sarcasm.
    Aw now, don't get butt hurt.

    Also, this:
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  • LokiLahveLokiLahve member
    ELauren88 said:


    LokiLahve said:

    CaliforniaDream87 said:

    ELauren88 said:


    LokiLahve said:

    I have a feeling OP is using the term "out mothered" sarcastically.


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    God, I've missed you. Pretty sure we ALL read the sarcasm....
    You sure Cali? Your initial reply doesn't seem to imply you took it as sarcasm.

    Aw now, don't get butt hurt.

    Also, this:
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    My butt feels great, no hurting going on here, although that gif looks like it hurts. Cali annoys me...the feeling is mutual, whatevs.

    Also, any Johnny Depp gif is welcome, at any time in my eyes.
    :x
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    LokiLahve said:

    ELauren88 said:


    LokiLahve said:

    CaliforniaDream87 said:

    ELauren88 said:


    LokiLahve said:

    I have a feeling OP is using the term "out mothered" sarcastically.


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    God, I've missed you. Pretty sure we ALL read the sarcasm....
    You sure Cali? Your initial reply doesn't seem to imply you took it as sarcasm.

    Aw now, don't get butt hurt.

    Also, this:
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    My butt feels great, no hurting going on here, although that gif looks like it hurts. Cali annoys me...the feeling is mutual, whatevs.

    Also, any Johnny Depp gif is welcome, at any time in my eyes.
    :x


    Bahahahahaha mutual? Oh, please. You don't annoy me. I don't like you, period. It's not a secret. Every time you call me out, you do it often, I'll reply. If I annoy you...oh well. I really don't give a shit.
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  • LokiLahveLokiLahve member
    @californiadream87 call it annoying, not liking, however you want to word it. Like I said, the feeling is mutual.
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    edited November 2013
    LokiLahve said:

    @californiadream87 call it annoying, not liking, however you want to word it. Like I said, the feeling is mutual.

    @lokilahve if you're going to say something is "mutual" when I'm involved get the wording right.

    "Annoying" does not equal "dislike". I find many things annoying. You? Not so much.
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  • AprilRaineAprilRaine member
    ELauren88 said:


    LokiLahve said:

    CaliforniaDream87 said:

    ELauren88 said:


    LokiLahve said:

    I have a feeling OP is using the term "out mothered" sarcastically.


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    God, I've missed you. Pretty sure we ALL read the sarcasm....
    You sure Cali? Your initial reply doesn't seem to imply you took it as sarcasm.

    Aw now, don't get butt hurt.

    Also, this:
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    Totally off topic, but my toddler has recently started doing that ^^^ to me and thinks it's the most hilarious thing ever. Where the eff does he learn this stuff? Or is it just instinct 'cause things that make mommy yelp are funny!?!
    Obviously I'm not getting out mothered if my toddler thinks it's okay to zap my ass crack, right?
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  • ELauren88ELauren88 member
    AprilRaine said:

    ELauren88 said:


    LokiLahve said:

    CaliforniaDream87 said:

    ELauren88 said:


    LokiLahve said:

    I have a feeling OP is using the term "out mothered" sarcastically.


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    God, I've missed you. Pretty sure we ALL read the sarcasm....
    You sure Cali? Your initial reply doesn't seem to imply you took it as sarcasm.

    Aw now, don't get butt hurt.

    Also, this:
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    Totally off topic, but my toddler has recently started doing that ^^^ to me and thinks it's the most hilarious thing ever. Where the eff does he learn this stuff? Or is it just instinct 'cause things that make mommy yelp are funny!?!
    Obviously I'm not getting out mothered if my toddler thinks it's okay to zap my ass crack, right?


    Omg. I'm crying, I'm laughing so hard. ::dedz::

     
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    AprilRaine said:

    ELauren88 said:


    LokiLahve said:

    CaliforniaDream87 said:

    ELauren88 said:


    LokiLahve said:

    I have a feeling OP is using the term "out mothered" sarcastically.


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    God, I've missed you. Pretty sure we ALL read the sarcasm....
    You sure Cali? Your initial reply doesn't seem to imply you took it as sarcasm.

    Aw now, don't get butt hurt.

    Also, this:
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    Totally off topic, but my toddler has recently started doing that ^^^ to me and thinks it's the most hilarious thing ever. Where the eff does he learn this stuff? Or is it just instinct 'cause things that make mommy yelp are funny!?!
    Obviously I'm not getting out mothered if my toddler thinks it's okay to zap my ass crack, right?


    This made me lol so hard i woke up ds.oops. i regret nothing.
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