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Do you ever? And am I alone?

KC1212KC1212 member
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Do you ever lurk other boards just to read the drama? It makes me so happy to have this board because there's so crazy crap on some of the others. Sometimes I get me some Doritos and just read for laughs - am I the only one?
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Me: 27 DH: 33
Married 6 years
Conceived DS after 4 years of MFI

TTC # 2 (not trying,not preventing ever)
May 2013 - August 2013 Timed Intercourse = BFN
September 2013 Timed Intercourse, Weekly Acupuncture, Herbs=BFN
October 2013 Timed Intercourse, Weekly Acupuncture, Herbs, and "warming foods" = BFP
Beta #1 19, Beta #2 18 Progesterone 4.6 Miscarried 11/9/13
November 2013 - Benched, waiting for first post-loss AF.
No longer benched per New RE/OB!
Jan. 15 2014 - BFP. HCG 3900 - Ectopic :( 
Jan. 16 2014 Left tube removed and D&C
March 2, 2014 First AF


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  • freakyfastfreakyfast member
    Nope I do the same, except I get a bag of pretzel goldfish.  
    :-\"



      


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  • CheesyPeasCheesyPeas member
    Most definitely.  I also have an apparent masochistic side that makes me look at how many people from my old board are pregnant again.  I much prefer the dramatic threads though.  Have a good one to share with us?
    November 2010 - 10.5 week loss  o:) 
    October 2011 - DS (7)  <3 
    July 2014 - Stillborn DD (24 weeks)  o:) 
    August 2015 - DD (3)  <3 
    April 2018 - 5 week loss o:) 

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  • ScarletBegonia79ScarletBegonia79 member
    yes! after my CP i went over to one of the other boards that shall remain nameless and not only was there an instruction post saying "no drama" but there were drama responses to the "no drama" instructions. i would be too nervous to ever post there for fear of getting my head bitten off but it was entertaining to read!

    TTC #2 since 8/2012

    IUI #1 April 2014: BFN

    IUI #2 July 2014: BFN

    IUI #3 August 2014: BFN

    BFP: September 15, due May 22nd 2015

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  • CeCe8579CeCe8579 member
    Guilty! 
    Carly
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  • Jen071407Jen071407 member
    edited November 2013
    Yes! I just don't understand the need! I'm sure we are "puppies and rainbows" to some people, but shit, we've all got enough stress with 2IF, so if someone posts something just because they need to vent or get some positive thoughts (clearly I'm guilty of this!) then by all means go right ahead! :o3 :o3 :o3

    Two DDs 10/08 and 08/10, no primary IF
    TTC #3 since 10/2011 - dx unexplained/weak ovulation
     3 BFN clomid + TI cycles, 5 BFN clomid/gonal f IUIs, 1 mmc IUI
    2/19/2014 IVF #1 Unexpected low E2 (oversuppressed) -> increased to max doses = 3 or 4 follicles, converting to IUI
    BFFP Saw 1 beautiful heartbeat at 6w6d, follow up u/s at 9w showed mmc. Eff this.
    NTNP 5/2014-9/2014, OPKs and TI 10/2014 - 1/2015. 
    RPL testing all normal, AFC, AMH, and FSH all normal. 
    IVF 1.2 1/22/2014 natural cycle start, AFC 28, 300 gonal f/150menopur. 
    ER 2/3/15 14R 8M 3F w/ICSI Day 5 transfer on 2/8/15 of one "Grade A+" blast and have TWO frosties! 

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  • freakyfastfreakyfast member
    Speaking of drama... :-?  I spy some.  :ar!



      


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  • Jen071407Jen071407 member
    freakyfast said:

    Speaking of drama... :-?  I spy some.  :ar!
    Where?!

    Two DDs 10/08 and 08/10, no primary IF
    TTC #3 since 10/2011 - dx unexplained/weak ovulation
     3 BFN clomid + TI cycles, 5 BFN clomid/gonal f IUIs, 1 mmc IUI
    2/19/2014 IVF #1 Unexpected low E2 (oversuppressed) -> increased to max doses = 3 or 4 follicles, converting to IUI
    BFFP Saw 1 beautiful heartbeat at 6w6d, follow up u/s at 9w showed mmc. Eff this.
    NTNP 5/2014-9/2014, OPKs and TI 10/2014 - 1/2015. 
    RPL testing all normal, AFC, AMH, and FSH all normal. 
    IVF 1.2 1/22/2014 natural cycle start, AFC 28, 300 gonal f/150menopur. 
    ER 2/3/15 14R 8M 3F w/ICSI Day 5 transfer on 2/8/15 of one "Grade A+" blast and have TWO frosties! 

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  • freakyfastfreakyfast member
    edited November 2013
    @ Jen071407 you have PM.  Anyone else want it? LOL I sound like a brat. 

    ETA: But we have a lurker. Hi Lurker  :-q



      


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    freakyfast said:
    @ Jen071407 you have PM.  Anyone else want it? LOL I sound like a brat. 

    ETA: But we have a lurker. Hi Lurker  :-q
    I guess lurker is the wrong word... but yeah. 



      


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  • CeCe8579CeCe8579 member
    I want to know! Hehe!
    Carly
    (Former UN: iloveshanej)

    Birdie born 05/01/2007
    Rainbow Surprise Baby due 05/26/2017                                          


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  • freakyfastfreakyfast member
    Iloveshanej  - PM



      


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  • +SouthernMomma++SouthernMomma+ member

    LOL, ^^^^ everything above cracked me the hell up!

     

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  • CheesyPeasCheesyPeas member

    @freakyfast Me, me, me!  I need something to pass the rest of my workday.

    November 2010 - 10.5 week loss  o:) 
    October 2011 - DS (7)  <3 
    July 2014 - Stillborn DD (24 weeks)  o:) 
    August 2015 - DD (3)  <3 
    April 2018 - 5 week loss o:) 

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  • freakyfastfreakyfast member
    CheesyPeas - you have pm!  :ar!



      


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  • freakyfastfreakyfast member
    TicketTuesday said:
    @ Jen071407 you have PM.  Anyone else want it? LOL I sound like a brat. 

    ETA: But we have a lurker. Hi Lurker  :-q
    Wait fo realz? I need a laugh. PM me too. :)
    Done - PM



      


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  • KC1212KC1212 member
    @freakyfast PM me the drama Rama please!!! :D kthanx!!
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    Me: 27 DH: 33
    Married 6 years
    Conceived DS after 4 years of MFI

    TTC # 2 (not trying,not preventing ever)
    May 2013 - August 2013 Timed Intercourse = BFN
    September 2013 Timed Intercourse, Weekly Acupuncture, Herbs=BFN
    October 2013 Timed Intercourse, Weekly Acupuncture, Herbs, and "warming foods" = BFP
    Beta #1 19, Beta #2 18 Progesterone 4.6 Miscarried 11/9/13
    November 2013 - Benched, waiting for first post-loss AF.
    No longer benched per New RE/OB!
    Jan. 15 2014 - BFP. HCG 3900 - Ectopic :( 
    Jan. 16 2014 Left tube removed and D&C
    March 2, 2014 First AF


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  • freakyfastfreakyfast member
    KC1212 said:
    @freakyfast PM me the drama Rama please!!! :D kthanx!!

    And done... PM



      


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  • freakyfastfreakyfast member
    Hopefully it is still there and you all see the drama in it.  It is just even more funny to me because it is right under our nose.  I must have too much time on my hands.  :ar!



      


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  • pettycrockerpettycrocker member
    I lurk a lot of boards, but not really for drama- unless someone makes a thread directing people to drama on another board, then I figure it's worth checking out. 

    I primary lurk IF and SAIF for information. 


    Spontaneous pregnancy #1
    DD1 July 31, 2011

    Trying for #2 since Oct 11
    732973 Clomid Cycles
    2 IUIs 
    3 Fresh IVFs= 1 Ectopic treated with MTX
    Spontaneous pregnancy #2= Ectopic #2= lost left tube
    Spontaneous pregnancy #3= DD2 January 29, 2016
    Spontaneous pregnancy #4= Ectopic #3
    Spontaneous pregnancy #5= Baby #3 is a BOY!!! 



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  • chusumchusum member
    PM please I enjoy grabbing some popcorn!!

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    Married August 9, 2008
    TTC Since September 2009

    1st   BFP | EDD 10/23/10 | Natural M/C 03/27/10 | 10w 0d
    2nd BFP 06/26/10 | EDD 02/25/11 | Natural  M/C 07/17/10 | 8w 1d
    3rd  BFP 12/17/10 | EDD 08/24/11 | Natural M/C 12/31/10 | 7w 4d
    4th  BFP 06/22/11 | EDD 02/25/12 | M/C D&C on 07/27/11 | 9w4d
    5th  BFP 09/17/11 | DD Paige Lily born 05/16/12
    6th  BFP 08/11/12 | EDD 04/11/13 | CP
    7th  BFP 09/29/13 | EDD 06/04/14 | Natural M/C 10/27/13 | 8w1d
    8th  BFP 12/16/13 | EDD 09/01/14

    DX: Pericentric Inversion of Chromosome 8 & compound heterozygous for MTHFR mutations
    RX: Lovenox/Heparin & Folgard

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  • freakyfastfreakyfast member
    chusum said:
    PM please I enjoy grabbing some popcorn!!
    Done - PM



      


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  • KC1212KC1212 member
    edited November 2013
    @freakyfast you know that thing you sent me in the pm? I thought it looked odd. I didn't think I had seen IT before lol!
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    Me: 27 DH: 33
    Married 6 years
    Conceived DS after 4 years of MFI

    TTC # 2 (not trying,not preventing ever)
    May 2013 - August 2013 Timed Intercourse = BFN
    September 2013 Timed Intercourse, Weekly Acupuncture, Herbs=BFN
    October 2013 Timed Intercourse, Weekly Acupuncture, Herbs, and "warming foods" = BFP
    Beta #1 19, Beta #2 18 Progesterone 4.6 Miscarried 11/9/13
    November 2013 - Benched, waiting for first post-loss AF.
    No longer benched per New RE/OB!
    Jan. 15 2014 - BFP. HCG 3900 - Ectopic :( 
    Jan. 16 2014 Left tube removed and D&C
    March 2, 2014 First AF


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  • KC1212KC1212 member
    Mrs Castillo said:

    I lurk a lot of boards, but not really for drama- unless someone makes a thread directing people to drama on another board, then I figure it's worth checking out. 


    I primary lurk IF and SAIF for information. 
    I seriously lurk PAIF but - the rest is all entertainment :)
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    Me: 27 DH: 33
    Married 6 years
    Conceived DS after 4 years of MFI

    TTC # 2 (not trying,not preventing ever)
    May 2013 - August 2013 Timed Intercourse = BFN
    September 2013 Timed Intercourse, Weekly Acupuncture, Herbs=BFN
    October 2013 Timed Intercourse, Weekly Acupuncture, Herbs, and "warming foods" = BFP
    Beta #1 19, Beta #2 18 Progesterone 4.6 Miscarried 11/9/13
    November 2013 - Benched, waiting for first post-loss AF.
    No longer benched per New RE/OB!
    Jan. 15 2014 - BFP. HCG 3900 - Ectopic :( 
    Jan. 16 2014 Left tube removed and D&C
    March 2, 2014 First AF


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  • annibesannibes member
    I haven't lurked much in awhile but I should.

    And regarding 2IF drama.. I'm so lost. Hopefully I didn't cause it!
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  • KC1212KC1212 member
    annibes said:

    I haven't lurked much in awhile but I should.

    And regarding 2IF drama.. I'm so lost. Hopefully I didn't cause it!

    Goodness no :) ! If I wasn't mobile I would PM you and tell ya. I'll blow ya a kiss so you know we love ya :-*
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    Me: 27 DH: 33
    Married 6 years
    Conceived DS after 4 years of MFI

    TTC # 2 (not trying,not preventing ever)
    May 2013 - August 2013 Timed Intercourse = BFN
    September 2013 Timed Intercourse, Weekly Acupuncture, Herbs=BFN
    October 2013 Timed Intercourse, Weekly Acupuncture, Herbs, and "warming foods" = BFP
    Beta #1 19, Beta #2 18 Progesterone 4.6 Miscarried 11/9/13
    November 2013 - Benched, waiting for first post-loss AF.
    No longer benched per New RE/OB!
    Jan. 15 2014 - BFP. HCG 3900 - Ectopic :( 
    Jan. 16 2014 Left tube removed and D&C
    March 2, 2014 First AF


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  • freakyfastfreakyfast member
    edited November 2013
    annibes said:
    I haven't lurked much in awhile but I should. And regarding 2IF drama.. I'm so lost. Hopefully I didn't cause it!

    :-* :-*
    ETA: I am not sure how this happened 



      


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  • freakyfastfreakyfast member

    ^^ HAHA that isn't what I put.. anyway @annibes no it is not about you.. I think the person who it was has left now. 

    Know that it is NOT any of the regulars here, and those that offer support.

    So if you post regularly and offer support. IT is not you! 



      


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  • annibesannibes member
    Come to think of it, I did get a bit of a funny feeling about a post or two recently, but I can remember who it was or even the content that made me double-think. I figured my radar went off at nothing at all but maybe I'm not as rusty as I thought I was.

    At least we have a kickass group here- even with the occasional llama.
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  • KC1212KC1212 member
    annibes said:

    Come to think of it, I did get a bit of a funny feeling about a post or two recently, but I can remember who it was or even the content that made me double-think. I figured my radar went off at nothing at all but maybe I'm not as rusty as I thought I was.

    At least we have a kickass group here- even with the occasional llama.

    Yup you're on the money. I felt the same way. That's why I didn't comment b/c I could not remember the person - I mean IT - for the life of me.
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    Me: 27 DH: 33
    Married 6 years
    Conceived DS after 4 years of MFI

    TTC # 2 (not trying,not preventing ever)
    May 2013 - August 2013 Timed Intercourse = BFN
    September 2013 Timed Intercourse, Weekly Acupuncture, Herbs=BFN
    October 2013 Timed Intercourse, Weekly Acupuncture, Herbs, and "warming foods" = BFP
    Beta #1 19, Beta #2 18 Progesterone 4.6 Miscarried 11/9/13
    November 2013 - Benched, waiting for first post-loss AF.
    No longer benched per New RE/OB!
    Jan. 15 2014 - BFP. HCG 3900 - Ectopic :( 
    Jan. 16 2014 Left tube removed and D&C
    March 2, 2014 First AF


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  • chrissynenachrissynena member

    ^^ HAHA that isn't what I put.. anyway @annibes no it is not about you.. I think the person who it was has left now. 

    Know that it is NOT any of the regulars here, and those that offer support.

    So if you post regularly and offer support. IT is not you! 


    I was reading this and thinking "Oh I hope it isn't me either" Please don't let it be me....


    TTC for 1.5 years with a crappy RE. 12 cycles with clomid (11 too many)
    New RE, 3 failed IUI's moving to IVF with ICSI
    IVF#1 BFP EDD 1/10/13
    Beta#1 51  Beta #2 148
    A/S 8/20/13 Team Pink
    Induced week 39 due to severe GD
    Baby girl born 1/4/13

           TTC #2 2 failed IUI's moving on to FET 3/2014
    ET 3/25 
    Beta #1 127
    Beta #2 845
    U/s 4/22 It's TWINS!!
    Team Purple!!

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  • ally510ally510 member
    So late to the party here, but I want to see the drama! @freakyfast...PM me too please!!!
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  • freakyfastfreakyfast member
    chrissynena said:

    ^^ HAHA that isn't what I put.. anyway @annibes no it is not about you.. I think the person who it was has left now. 

    Know that it is NOT any of the regulars here, and those that offer support.

    So if you post regularly and offer support. IT is not you! 


    I was reading this and thinking "Oh I hope it isn't me either" Please don't let it be me....

    Nope not you! 



      


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  • freakyfastfreakyfast member
    ally510 said:
    So late to the party here, but I want to see the drama! @freakyfast...PM me too please!!!
    I sent it to you, not sure if you got it from someone yet or not. 



      


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