DH and I decided the FN together. I gave him a list of Welsh middle names to choose from (since I was imposing our girl middle name whether he liked it or not) and he chose Rhys.
Without DH:
Girl: Vera Myfanwy
Boy: Felix Llewellyn
With DH:
Girl: Giada Myfanwy
Boy: Oscar Rhys*
*winner!
With DH: Elisabeth (Still arguing over middle name) (Still arguing over first name) Archimedes
I have a LOT of guilty pleasure girl names, but when it comes down to this actual child who we've struggled with for so long- Elisabeth is really the only choice in my mind. DH came up with Archimedes- I'd never have come up with it on my own but it's so much fun in the middle that I've fallen for it too. Without his input I'd have gone with something much more traditional though.
Friends for 17 years. Married 10. TTC since Jan 2009.
2012: Lost "Peanut" at 17weeks to PTL/IC.
2013: IVF#3/FET#4 Elisabeth CJ born April 30, 2014 Cerclage, P17, and 3 months of bed rest brought us our Rainbow.
With: No idea (I'm with Joy on this one, we're lucky we named DD) and Theodore. Or something.
I think we are agreed that the MN would be my grandmother's FN or maiden name depending on sex, and by "agreed" I mean that DH has not objected to this for our theoretical, probably never-to-be-conceived third child, and I wouldn't leave the hospital without getting my way.
DD born 10/10/07 * DS born 11/25/11 * #3 due 3/9/2015
Hmm, edit feature isn't working today. I was going to say we were team green for both kids so I was going to change my answer.
For our first I really wanted Charlotte or Amelia Wren. We agreed on Alice Wren (baby was a boy). We agreed on Everett years ago, but had I not has any input, Jared would have been my choice at the time.
Second baby was also team green and I wanted either Ruby Piper or Augusta Pearl for a girl. Unfortunately, BIL named his dog Ruby so that was out and DH won't get on board with Augusta.
It's hard for me to remember since I constantly monitor what DH might like. I know DH's name for a son would be Theodore but I vetoed cause I like nn Ted/Teddy and he only likes Theo. For a girl I like Hazel (not even sure if it was my #1)' but DH vetoed. Our names are constantly changing!
I'll just go back to the first pg when we were team green and had a blank slate to work with. Without DH: Fiona Elizabeth or Fiona Bernadette and Theodore Anything-he-liked
With DH: Margaret Victoria and Theodore Moses.
We went with Theodore Cardiff, a surprise choice he suggested in the hospital.
For a hypothetical 4th child, without DH: Bernadette and Gregory. With DH: probably Lucy and George.
Hmm, the twins probably would have been Ewan Joseph and Garrett Raymond with that are Rhys Joseph and Jude Raymond. I still live Ewan so we will see if I can sneak it in this time. My first son, we both totally agreed on the name Graeme Robert. All middle names are family names and there was no real discussion, we both were in board.
"Normal day, let me be aware of the treasured day you are. Let me learn from you, love you, bless you before you depart...let me hold you while I may."
DH came up with DD1's name entirely on his own; I pushed for DD2's name for like...two years (well, not quite), and he picked it out of a list of names.
For this LO...
Without DH:
Claudia Scarlett Atticus Larson
With DH:
Claudia Scarlett (I really, really think I can sell him on this one. It's everything he likes in a girl name) ....No idea. We have sooo many boys' names and we love them all, so it could seriously be anything.
Boy: Otto Benjamin (though DH's car is named Otto, so we can't use it. Haha!)
DH without me:
Girl: Madeline (line ending not lynn) Amelia
Boy: Ichabod (not sure of middle name)
DH and I together:
Girl: Violet Amelia
Boy: Milo Jasper
I did actually name Basil by myself with no help from DH. We tossed around boy names, but from day one I just knew she was a girl, and that I wanted to name her Basil Isabella. This time around is going to be harder I think... Though no way would I let DH name a kid without my veto power. He suggests horrible names most of the time.
Re: If it were up to you...
Alice Jean
Simon Wilbur
With
Sara Rose
Oscar Justin
Love: March 2010 Marriage: July 2013 Debt Free: October 2014 TTC: April 2015
Oscar born November 20, 2016 at 35w6d
Oscar born October 2011
Miscarriage at 8 weeks (August 2013)
DD due September 1, 2014
Oscar born October 2011
Miscarriage at 8 weeks (August 2013)
DD due September 1, 2014
Tess
Peter
With
Ainsley Ilana (not being used-we are having a boy)
Luka Charles
I actually think collaborating with my husband improved the name.
Elisabeth Marie
William Thomas
With DH:
Elisabeth (Still arguing over middle name)
(Still arguing over first name) Archimedes
I have a LOT of guilty pleasure girl names, but when it comes down to this actual child who we've struggled with for so long- Elisabeth is really the only choice in my mind. DH came up with Archimedes- I'd never have come up with it on my own but it's so much fun in the middle that I've fallen for it too. Without his input I'd have gone with something much more traditional though.
Friends for 17 years. Married 10. TTC since Jan 2009.
2013: IVF#3/FET#4 Elisabeth CJ born April 30, 2014
Cerclage, P17, and 3 months of bed rest brought us our Rainbow.
Dum spiro, spero.
Francesca Jane
With: TBD....options are Magdalene, Maggie, Lucy, Ruby
Boy would have been Luke Edward
Without DH:
Asa Louis
Jane Elise
With DH:
Michael Louis
Jane Elise (It's about the only name we agree on).
If DD's name would have been left up to me, it would have been Allegra Frances. I would have named a boy August Robert
H hates Allegra and doesn't really like August.
BFP 1- EDD 2/09/11 Missed MC DX @11 weeks D&C- 7/25/10 BFP 2- EDD 12/22/11 Natural MC @ 5w 2d BFP 3- EDD 1/25/12 DD Josephine born 1/16/12
With: No idea (I'm with Joy on this one, we're lucky we named DD) and Theodore. Or something.
I think we are agreed that the MN would be my grandmother's FN or maiden name depending on sex, and by "agreed" I mean that DH has not objected to this for our theoretical, probably never-to-be-conceived third child, and I wouldn't leave the hospital without getting my way.
Lucca William
Roslyn Lucille
With
Matthew Forrest
Audrina Lucille
However, if we have another DD, I want Natalie for sure and he wants Gabrielle for sure.
Camille Adair (family name)
Calvin Thomas
With:
Holly Adair
Travis Edward
Charlotte Lindsey
Jared Lawrence
With DH:
Piper Helen
Everett Lawrence
For our first I really wanted Charlotte or Amelia Wren. We agreed on Alice Wren (baby was a boy). We agreed on Everett years ago, but had I not has any input, Jared would have been my choice at the time.
Second baby was also team green and I wanted either Ruby Piper or Augusta Pearl for a girl. Unfortunately, BIL named his dog Ruby so that was out and DH won't get on board with Augusta.
Theodore Bruce
Cordelia Pearl
Alistair Uriah
Aria Rae
With
Dominic Uriah
Corina Rae
Hermione Violet
Xander Wallace
With:
Natalie Arwen (or possibly Arwen Violet)
Nathaniel James
Dd1 is Lily Elizabeth which we both agreed on.
With DH: Margaret Victoria and Theodore Moses.
We went with Theodore Cardiff, a surprise choice he suggested in the hospital.
For a hypothetical 4th child, without DH: Bernadette and Gregory. With DH: probably Lucy and George.
TTC #1- unexplained...lost left ovary 4/07 IUI #1 2/10/09-BFN IUI #2 3/5/09-BFN IVF # 1-BFP
TTC#2- FET 4/7/11 BFP, Natural mc 5/5/11 IVF#2 ER 9/13/11, ET 9/16/11, Beta #1 9/27/11 BFP 254 Beta #2 9/30/11 793 -Twins!
Jack Logan
With his input:
Alaina or Maya
Micah Jack or Logan Jack
DH came up with DD1's name entirely on his own; I pushed for DD2's name for like...two years (well, not quite), and he picked it out of a list of names.
For this LO...
Without DH:
Claudia Scarlett
Atticus Larson
With DH:
Claudia Scarlett (I really, really think I can sell him on this one. It's everything he likes in a girl name)
....No idea. We have sooo many boys' names and we love them all, so it could seriously be anything.
Girl: Olive Amelia
Hank Russell
June Marilyn
With:
Hank James
Ada Kay
My furchildren, Dorothy and Johnny