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Be blessed...

TurtleMommy5TurtleMommy5 member
edited November 2013 in Blended Families
Peace!
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Re: Be blessed...

  • SimpleJaneSimpleJane member
    Holy fuck. So much wrong here.
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  • HisChamaoleGirlHisChamaoleGirl member
    #-o I don't know where to start

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  • cole2144cole2144 member
    Maybe your boyfriend needs to man up and take a more active role instead of dropping DS on his parent`s doorstep whenever things get hard.
    No one else will ever know the strength of my love for you. After all, you are the only one who knows what my heart sounds like from the inside.
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  • SimpleJaneSimpleJane member
    edited November 2013
    It's gotta be MUD right? RIGHT?! Somebody tell me it's MUD.
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  • Sunday924Sunday924 member
    Was your bf living with his parents when he saw him Th-M?
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  • sweetwalkssweetwalks member
    No words right now. At least not constructive words...
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  • xmaryrickxxmaryrickx member
    Welcome to the board.

    You have more issues than Time magazine. The first being a boyfriend who has no backbone. So that's great. This kid is what, five? And HE calls the shots? Yeah, no. Your BF is doing himself no favors in the winning custody department by not taking every single second of his CO'd time. Every.single.second. His son wants to spend time with BMs family, it happens on HER time. What judge would ever give him MORE time when he doesn't take what is already his? BMs actions/inactions are completely irrelevant until BF grows up and acts like a father.

    This is a clusterfuck.
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  • TurtleMommy5TurtleMommy5 member
    I don't believe I asked for judgment so if that's all you have to contribute, please refrain from replying. Any constructive criticism and advice is welcomed. Otherwise, please scroll on by.
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  • TurtleMommy5TurtleMommy5 member
    Sunday924 said:

    Was your bf living with his parents when he saw him Th-M?

    Yes
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  • xmaryrickxxmaryrickx member
    TurtleMommy5 said:

    I don't believe I asked for judgment so if that's all you have to contribute, please refrain from replying. Any constructive criticism and advice is welcomed. Otherwise, please scroll on by.

    I believe you posted on a PUBLIC message board. You get what you get.

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  • cole2144cole2144 member
    TurtleMommy5 said:
    I don't believe I asked for judgment so if that's all you have to contribute, please refrain from replying. Any constructive criticism and advice is welcomed. Otherwise, please scroll on by.
    I think you came to the wrong board. No one sugar coats things here.
    No one else will ever know the strength of my love for you. After all, you are the only one who knows what my heart sounds like from the inside.
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  • xmaryrickxxmaryrickx member
    I misread and thought it was her parents. Same applies. He doesn't spend the time he has with his son, he will never win more.
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  • TurtleMommy5TurtleMommy5 member
    cole2144 said:


    TurtleMommy5 said:

    I don't believe I asked for judgment so if that's all you have to contribute, please refrain from replying. Any constructive criticism and advice is welcomed. Otherwise, please scroll on by.

    I think you came to the wrong board. No one sugar coats things here.


    There is a difference between sugar coating and passing judgment. But I see I will be getting nothing but he latter here because all your blended families must have been perfect from the beginning, right?
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  • TurtleMommy5TurtleMommy5 member
    cole2144 said:


    TurtleMommy5 said:

    I don't believe I asked for judgment so if that's all you have to contribute, please refrain from replying. Any constructive criticism and advice is welcomed. Otherwise, please scroll on by.

    I think you came to the wrong board. No one sugar coats things here.


    There is a difference between sugar coating and passing judgment. But I see I will be getting nothing but he latter here because all your blended families must have been perfect from the beginning, right?
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  • TurtleMommy5TurtleMommy5 member
    Well, first and last post ever on this board lol. Be blessed everyone! :)
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  • HisChamaoleGirlHisChamaoleGirl member
    You said you had your bf file for custody. Is there a reason he didn't come up with the idea in his own? You say he drops his son off early from visitation when he asks. Like pp said, SS shouldn't be calling the shots. It sounds like you are the one that wants the extra time with SS.

    BFP #1 11/07/2012 EDD 07/09/2013 M/C 11/22/2012

    BFP #2 02/05/2013 EDD 09/19/2013 Arrived via c-section 09/27/2013

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  • SimpleJaneSimpleJane member
    Be blessed yourself sweetheart!
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  • HisChamaoleGirlHisChamaoleGirl member
    Well that has to be a record for the shortest amount of time it took for us to "scare" off someone ....

    BFP #1 11/07/2012 EDD 07/09/2013 M/C 11/22/2012

    BFP #2 02/05/2013 EDD 09/19/2013 Arrived via c-section 09/27/2013

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  • Pinkpenguin+Pinkpenguin+ member
    Wow...just wow. I'm confused- What is the point of posting something looking for advice if you don't want advice?
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  • sweetwalkssweetwalks member
    @Pinkpenguin+ she didn't want advice. She wanted to be told she was right & it was all gonna be okay. 

    See my post titled "TurtleMommy5"

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  • CFjo2010CFjo2010 member
    Aaaawww well God Bless to you too sweetheart X_X
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  • +just+j++just+j+ member
    Awww! I go put my kid to bed and I miss out on responding! Turtle - if you scroll down to "family picture", there is guy named Ryan and his girlfriend "muckyduck". They might sympathize with you and blow sunshine up your ass. Try that. Because this board does not. We speak the truth. God bless your child and your stepson. I hope their parental figures in their lives pull their head out.
    "he offered her the world. she said she had her own" - poet Monique Duval
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