Is anyone just not liking there partner right now

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• owlcup member

  November 2013 Answer ✓

  I feel the same way. It's not everyday, all the time, but sometimes for an unexplained reason I just cannot stand being around him. Blame the hormones. 

  
  

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• ricecakes1216 member

  November 2013 Answer ✓

  My H gets on my nerves very easily. I just find him annoying a lot of the time. I'll tell him he's annoying me. The other day he made me go to the store after I got off work when he had been home for 3 hours and could have easily gone. I call when I was at the store and told him how angry I was.
  
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• ahastin1 member

  November 2013 Answer ✓

  We finally had our blow up. It's been building for the past 3 weeks. It happened right after he made a comment along the lines of "oh, yeah, it's all because you're pregnant" when he came home and I was on the couch miserable. Amazingly after the blow up and we both got all our stuff out on the table he's been ridiculously understanding (and now he's touching my stomach which I don't like. At least not now...I'm too bloated for that!)

  
  

  
  

  
  

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• VeniVidiScripsi member

  November 2013 Answer ✓

  Yes but I know it's just hormones. He's not even really doing anything wrong, it's just the stage in my pregnancy. It happened when I was pregnant with DD too.
  

  
  
  

                   

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• nicolemcm member

  November 2013 Answer ✓

  The same things annoy me, but not too bad. I'm finding I'm crying at the smallest things he says the worst though.
  Last week, I had some spotting and was really freaked out about it, but put it out of my mind bc I was having lunch with a friend of mine and her 3 week old daughter. So I came home and I didn't talk to DH about it, but I mentioned my skin around my hips was itchy, and he said "well, that's a good sign, we could use a good sign" and I just started bawling. This is a complete 180 for me, so it's hard for him to get used to.
  

  
  
  

   

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• sepiatoned1 member

  November 2013 Answer ✓

  Its not my hormones he's just being stupid!

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• girl-23 member

  November 2013 Answer ✓

  Mines been driving me crazy lately too and he thinks I overreact to everything. Uhh.

  
  

  
   

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• steffs440 member

  November 2013 Answer ✓

  I feel so awful. Like right now, he's eating tomatoes.. and the way he's chewing makes me want to throw him off the balcony. This happens all the time. I snap at him for the smallest stuff.

  

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• MrsCase1 member

  November 2013 Answer ✓

  I sent my husband to watch the fight with some friends. We went out to celebrate his birthday last night, Lincoln stayed at my parent's for the first time, and still, the only thing we did when we got home was SLEEP!

  
  

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• mrs_drc_rn member

  November 2013 Answer ✓

  DH randomly gets on my nerves but then does something sweet so I kind of forget about it. He really hasn't been helping with cleaning or laundry, but then he made me some folate-rich soup to have for lunch so he broke even this week. We'll see how next week goes...

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• binkybabies member

  November 2013 Answer ✓

  Hmm I thought I was just going crazy that I was thinking I hated my husband right now.... Seems I'm not te only one!!!! Yeah!!! He drives me insane nowadays!!!! Simple things I ask him to do is a monumental fight!!! The other day I dropped him off at his workplace cause we had info he had to ask hr so I told him once you're done call me so we can figure out if you will take the bus back to me or I'll pick you up. Well he took the bus anyways without telling me cause he wanted to surprise me while I drove down earlier then I expected to pick him up..... Needless to say I didn't speak to him for hours. That's just one example of how he annoys the hell out of me.

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• mrsedwards8812 member

  November 2013 Answer ✓

  My husband has been on my nerves for the last couple weeks. I think it's a mix of both hormones and him just downright acting like an ass. I won't say he hasn't shown any enthusiasm but the majority of the comments I get about the baby are things related to finances...how expensive strollers and car seats are...how much we're spending on groceries (having horrible sickness with this one and can only stomach certain things, when I really want them), etc. He also picks at some of the things I've been doing, like the fact that I've been sleeping a bit more than usual. I fight, without medication, depression and PTSD symptoms everyday anyway, and he knows this. Throw these crazy pregnancy hormones and pregnancy sickness on top of that....well, you can imagine. And yes, dammit, it's exhausting and I'm tired. I nap. Get over it.

  Generally, men just have absolutely no clue what this is like and how it affects us. I love my husband but...well, his preacher put it rather well in the sermon today: It takes work to love someone sometimes. There are some days that it comes easily, like a football player running, untouched and getting the touchdown. Other days, that player has to fight and stttrrreeetttccchhh himself to get across that line-- it takes more work. Some days, we just gotta work overtime to show that love...or at least, control the urge to smack them! lol

   

   

  

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