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For those who've experienced a chemical pregnancy, what was your experience? What seems to be normal bleeding, lighter/ heavier than normal? What was the length ( longer, normal, shorter)? How long did it take to get a BFN?

I'm starting to play mind games with myself, like the possibility of an ectopic pregnancy. Right now it's light bleeding, red-brownish in color. Cramping has mostly subsided. Other pregnancy symptoms gone. Sound normal?

I'm not asking for a diagnosis, just a sort of what to expect without the extreme possibilities that Dr. Google has to offer...cancer or holding out some hope that I may be a freak and still pregnant.
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    I knew I was having a CP because my period was late, my temp was up and I didn't feel anything like when I had my miscarriage a few months earlier. I basically had a little heavier and crampier period than normal, and it only took a few days for the BFN. With my m/c, it too a couple of weeks for the BFN.



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    No advice, just ((hugs)) and a suggestion to maybe call your doctor? At the very least it will probably give you some peace of mind. 
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    I've had 5, all but the last one were shorter, 4 days as opposed to my regular period's 6.  Mine are heavier, with big clots.  I also tend to have very short cycle the following cycle. They are crampier.  If you have access to a private whirlpool tub, I would utilize it on the worst day.  I have negatives on hpt before I start to bleed, this last time it took around a week after my tests were no longer positive and my beta was 5 for me to start bleeding.  If you are worried about an ectopic, I would call your dr
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    April 2012 first loss - CP

    November 2012 2nd loss - 7 weeks (though I ovulated late so it is likely a CP as well)
    Hormone workup and u/s showed everything looked fine

    December 2012 3rd loss - CP
    GP tested my hormones and incorrectly diagnosed me with premature ovarian failure
    (hormone testing needs to be timed with you cycle)

    January 2012 OB/GYN recurrent loss testing
    I do not have premature ovarian failure. 
    Dx:
    MTHFR (take a B-complex daily) - single gene
    Factor II (take a baby asprin daily) - single gene

    February 2013 Genetic counseling
    Dx:
    MTHFR doesn't matter (take extra B, though)
    Factor II is unlikely but possible (later miscarriages)
    Balanced Chromosome Translocation bw 5&6 (likely causing everything)
    I was given a 49% chance at success due to the chromosome issue

    August 2013 4th loss - CP

    October 2013 5th loss - CP
    Prenatal workup found that I had low progesterone
    Further testing after loss found that I had low antithrombin

    November 2013 RE workup
    RE told me to stop the asprin (not my issue)
    RE told me that my low progesterone was due to my body knowing the pregnancy was failing
    Dx:
    Sono-HSG - Arcuate uterus
    DH is fine, so far (still waiting on karyotyping for him)

    Still need to do my CD3 hormone workup

    TL;DR:  5 losses => Balanced translocation, arcuate uterus, factor II, low antithrombin, and MTHFR

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    First of all I'm sorry you are going through this.  I just experienced a CP last week and it hit me harder than I would have thought.  The uncertainty is also so difficult to go through.  I agree that you should get in touch with your doctor for some peace of mind, particularly if you are worried about an ectopic.

    My CP was basically like a normal-to-heavy period.  I bled for 5 days with more back achiness than usual, bright red with small black clots.

    I had gotten a positive FRER on the day my period was due (Monday), started to bleed Friday morning and had a negative dollar store and dropped temp I think 3 days into the bleeding (the first time I tested after my positive). But my initial line on Monday was faint and I could only ever turn a FRER positive, not a dollar store test so I guess my HCG was already pretty low.

    Would you call what you have bleeding or just spotting?

    Very best of luck.

     


     

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    Didn't your doctor's office tell you to go in to the ER yesterday? You need to be seen by a doctor, have some betas drawn and be examined.  You could very well be dealing with an ectopic and it is better to be safe than sorry.
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    Mine was 2 very heavy gros days with clots and then like 2 days of spotting.  I had a negative within the week.
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    edited November 2013
    thanks ladies! I just need to step away from the internet. I'll be finding a doctor should I find myself in pain, or bleeding profusely. As it stands right now, I'm barely cramping if I do with a moderate to light flow. Thank you very much again. this just sucks :-( I just can't bring myself to go to the ER and pay a$200 copay for them to say congratulations you're having a miscarriage.
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    thanks ladies! I just need to step away from the internet. I'll be finding a doctor should I find myself in pain, or bleeding profusely. As it stands right now, I'm barely cramping if I do with a moderate to light flow. Thank you very much again. this just sucks :-( I just can't bring myself to go to the ER and pay a$200 copay for them to say congratulations you're having a miscarriage.

    Like I said yesterday, I had bleeding after my bfp, assumed I had miscarried, and a week later found out I was still pregnant. The bleeding was like a pretty normal period, and the cramps weren't anything more intense than usual. The bleeding stopped after a few days, and I wasn't in any more pain, so when I went the doctor and my betas were still up, it was a surprise.  It took another 2 weeks of blood draws and ultrasounds before it was determined to be ectopic. I made it to 8 weeks pregnant and was never in any pain.

    I'm not trying to scare you, but just because you're  not in pain, doesn't mean it's not ectopic. You really need to at least get blood drawn to confirm miscarriage and rule out an ectopic.


     

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    kateitho said:

    Mine was 2 very heavy gros days with clots and then like 2 days of spotting.  I had a negative within the week.

    Mine was pretty much the same as this. I would've been concerned if I got a positive hpt after bleeding like that. I hope you get it figured out.
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    With my CP, the negative test at the Dr office after three positive home tests was the first sign of CP. My period was several days late, but it was only mildly heavier than normal, and my cycle went back to "normal" (relatively speaking) right away. I usually have some cramping, and cramping that cycle was about the same. Length was maybe a day longer but not dramatically different than my usual cycle.

    Really, the only thing separating the CP and a normal cycle is that I had three days of positive home tests and my period was a few days late. If I hadn't been testing or charting, I might have never known I'd had a CP.

    This is exactly what I am experiencing right now. I'm glad to know my body isn't doing it wrong. Or whatever. I was surprised by the lighter flow today, but it sounds like that can be totally "normal" for a cp.

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    ninthgirl said:

    First CP had more clots than a period, but was the same in duration and similar in pain intensity (moderate cramping at first tapering off after 2 or 2 1/2 days). The AF the next cycle was awful for whatever reason. On the first day of bleeding my hCG was a 3, so already a BFN.


    Not sure how this CP will play out as the progesterone is still leaving my system so it hasn't started yet. hCG was 3 the day of my negative test, so I assume without progesterone supplements the bleeding would have started Thursday.

    Given how recently you got your BFP if you are not getting a BFN yet I would find somewhere to get a blood draw. Bills are no fun, but messing with your health is no fun either.
    heard that. I'm going to give it a week from when I started bleeding, so next Thursday. Should I get a BFP then, I'll be putting in a call to a different doctor, bc I just can't justify going to the ER at this point. Of course as I've said before, if something happens between now and then, i.e. pain, crazy bleeding, other crazy symptoms; I will definitely seek immediate medical attn.
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