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"Being deeply loved by someone gives you strength, while loving someone deeply gives you courage." ~ Lao Tzu
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  • Lavender PLavender P member
    Sometimes I secretly hope that BM and SF get divorced so he can see what she is really like. I know it would be awful for SS and don't really want it to happen, but I feel like he is completely oblivious or worse, accepting of her behavior.
    "Being deeply loved by someone gives you strength, while loving someone deeply gives you courage." ~ Lao Tzu
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  • PumpkinpiemommaPumpkinpiemomma member
    DS and I haven't heard from his 'dad' since January. I am praying he doesn't show up around Christmas acting like dad of the year with gifts for DS. If he does it will only be to make himself look good and to soothe his conscience, if he in fact has one. I would much rather have him never see DS than for him to pop in once a yr and confuse him.
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  • Lavender PLavender P member
    @GotGingy, I agree. It just makes me nuts that she acts like we are these awful people who do nothing for SS, when really she puts up roadblocks every chance she gets.
    "Being deeply loved by someone gives you strength, while loving someone deeply gives you courage." ~ Lao Tzu
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  • ambrvanambrvan member
    It's been crazy at work, and I've been hiding in the bathroom every so often to take a break. I am only one person, and I can only so do much at once.
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  • Sunday924Sunday924 member
    I've wished BD was involved just so that DH can understand what I have to deal with with BM 1 and 2. I would never really want him involved but DH has no idea what it is like.
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  • KTdiditKTdidit member
    I'm a day late but I'm sitting here for a 3hr glucose test and bored out of my mind.

    Yesterday out of the blue DS said he wanted to go to BDs house. I hadn't told him that BD texted me because I didn't want to get his hopes up for BD to not call. When DS said that yesterday I asked him why he wanted to go there, but I didn't contact BD about it. DS just said he wanted to go to his house and play and then got distracted with his toys. Didn't mention it again. I feel only slight guilty
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  • Lavender PLavender P member
    wendilea said:
    @LavenderP we deal with the same issue - no matter what DH does, he has "never done anything for the kids" and is a "deadbeat."  At the same time, both BM's refuse visitation or pull some shit and we end up in court.

    Wendi, I definitely feel your pain. BM checked SS's cell phone and found out that he had been texting/talking to his dad, so she took it away. Seriously? Most parents would be thrilled the only thing their preteen was doing was talking to his other parent. She told SS that if he wants to talk to his dad that DH has to call her phone. DH called four times and of course she never picked up or called back or even told SS he called.
    "Being deeply loved by someone gives you strength, while loving someone deeply gives you courage." ~ Lao Tzu
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