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disrupted adoption support

cbottalicbottali member
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Hello everyone. Sorry to barge in here and ask for help. I was googling and not having much luck.

my oldest ds was placed with us 2 years and 3 months ago. His bio dad re surfaced about a year ago and just yesterday he received custody back. obviously I'm devastated and I don't know where to turn. does anyone know of an online support group I can join?
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Re: disrupted adoption support

  • LadyXaverianLadyXaverian member
    I am newer to this board, so I don't have an answer for you, but I am so sorry. :(  
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  • aligrossaligross member
    Okay.... I have started writing a response 5+x's and deleted every one of them... The biggest question I have for you is, were you fostering or had you adopted him??? I am confused at this whole situation - because the law states that once you've done finalization, that's it... he's your's, nobody can take him away! 

    I'm so sorry that you are going through this and have no advice... 
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  • JoshKrisAdoptJoshKrisAdopt member
    aligross said:
    Okay.... I have started writing a response 5+x's and deleted every one of them... The biggest question I have for you is, were you fostering or had you adopted him??? I am confused at this whole situation - because the law states that once you've done finalization, that's it... he's your's, nobody can take him away! 

    I'm so sorry that you are going through this and have no advice... 

    I'd like to know the answer to this too. I'm so sorry you're going through this. I hope the outcome is whatever is best for the little one :(
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  • IRRIRR member
    I am soo sorry, I can't imagine.  I hope your heart heals quickly.  As PP asked, was this a foster placement?  Makes no difference just wondering how this happened. Take time to mourn and hopefully you have friends and family to lean on.
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