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Pissed at H

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I told him two weeks ago that we had an appointment tomorrow. It's our first appointment at the midwife office and they will be doing an u/s. It's our first one! The first time we will see the little bean.
Well, H didn't even tell his boss and committed to going into work at the same time as my apt.
I'm so pissed. Why couldn't he just listen to me?! It seriously sucks that I'm gunna have to see do the u/s without him. And my mom can't go with me either.
The thought of him not being there seriously makes me want to cry and flip out (blame it on the hormones) all at the same time.
Am I being ridiculous?
Married on 8/31/2013


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Re: Pissed at H

  • Mrs MacRoMrs MacRo member
    My husband is doing the same thing - ugh! First appointment is on Tuesday and he hasn't even tried to take the time off for it, even though he works for his family and they would totally let him come! So mad! I feel for you....
    With DS he came to all appointments and I don't expect him to do the same this time but surely the ones with u/s?!
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    He can't go in late. His boss is out of town and when he isn't around, H is in charge. I just cannot believe he didn't even try to make some sort of arrangement or something bc he didn't even remember!!!
    I'm trying so hard to not think about it. He knows I'm pissed and he is apologetic but there is nothing we can do now. This wouldn't have even been an issue had he listened to me!!!
    It's seriously going to suck being there alone. I just want to scream at him "We are married! Your my husband and this is your child too! I shouldn't have to do these things alone!!" But that might be taking it a bit too far since he has apologized numerous times already. I'm still mad.
    & to top it off, he expects me to act like everything is peachy. Im extremely upset that I will be there alone! Let me just be mad!!!!!

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    Married on 8/31/2013


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  • Sierra524Sierra524 member
    He wants me to reschedule. I really don't want to bc this is the first time I will get to see proof that there rly is a baby in there.
    Married on 8/31/2013


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  • MollySmMollySm member
    I would be annoyed, but I probably wouldn't reschedule.  He should have figured it out when you first made the appointment.  
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  • lexyhihihilexyhihihi member
    I would be irritated as all heck if i were you, but focus on getting to see your baby!  He's the one missing out on all the fun.
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  • Sierra524Sierra524 member
    Thanks ladies! You are all right...he will be missing out, not me. Makes me feel a little better when I think of it like that.
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