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KC1212 · November 2013

*warning there is a DS in my siggy but it isn't some big bright annoying ticker or anything*

Is that ok? I don't want to cause anyone pain. My usual home board is secondary infertilty but, we were also a victim of primary infertility.

We were delighted to get a BFP last Sunday but, my betas didn't double and I'm currently miscarrying at roughly 5 weeks -ish (based on LMP)

Heartbroken is an understatement.

My question is : I feel like I have the worst PMS mood swings ever. I cried because I lost my keys and bit my mom's head off.

When will all this even out? Is this normal?

Is it bad that I want to dust myself off and try again immediately?

Thanks for listening.

If you don't want me here because of my DS just politely re-direct me.

libby+nate · November 2013

I'm so sorry for your loss. I can't imagine the struggle of it on top of IF. I had a mm/c at 12 weeks and had a huge drop in hormones one week after my D&C where i was more emotional than I have ever been. After than things really regulated and now I'm feeling much more normal. If you are ready emotionally to try again and have the okay from the Dr., then absolutely try again right away. I could see also how it may help emotionally. Huge (((hugs)))

sunflwr2 · November 2013

im so sorry! I think the one thing im realizing is that however you are feeling is normal. one minute im fine and more positive then ever about trying again. the next minute im in a complete panic about this happening again (I have secondary infertility issues also which always haunt me) I could be laughing one second and wanting to cry the next. be forgiving of yourself. not only is it alot to go through mentally but physically your body is trying to heal also. and I think the fact that our hormones are all over the place makes it so much worse.
hang in there. this board is so helpful too.

Meganz927 · November 2013

Welcome, we are all here for support

I feel a lot of crazy symptoms as well and can't wait to feel normal again. Not quite sure how long it will take as this was my first pregnancy and first MC. ((Hugs))

lynseyadamson · November 2013

Hello, I'm so sorry about you loss.
It absolutely normal to have all of those mixed emotions, and they'll even out eventually.
I had a mmc in June and at first we wanted to wait a few months before trying again. After my first AF, I felt ready so we tried again and I was pregnant within a month. I had another mmc last week and I feel totally different this time, I want to wait till next year to try again. I've took this one much harder and I'm all over the place. One minute I'm feeling depressed, the next I'm happy, then I'm crying, then I feel fine and positive. Im angry, sad, guilty all at the same time. I'm sure once my hormones settle down I'll feel more like me again, as I'm sure you will.
I think as long as you are ready to try again, that is the right time. There is no time limit on your emotions, what's right for you is right for you!
Good luck for next time, you are in my thoughts x

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