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Sticky situation....

Waliany2015Waliany2015 member
in Miscarriage/Pregnancy Loss
So I had a missed miscarriage at 8 weeks. My bf and I had been planning to get married summer 2015 but after all this we decided to get married this spring and to try again ASAP. My issue is that my cousin is getting married this summer and I am concerned she will be upset I'm stealing her spotlight as she had told me a few weeks ago she was upset her brother announced he is also getting married. I'm not sure if I should explain my situation to her as she had uterine cancer last year and had a complete hysterectomy. I drove 2 hours to visit her after her surgery and sat with her a few times for chemo. I also don't want her to feel bad that we are TTC. Should I tell her why I pushed the wedding up or just let it go and hope she isn't upset
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BFP 9/24/13 EDD 6/8/14 no HB at 1st U/S Stopped growing at 7 weeks D&C 11/01/13

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Re: Sticky situation....

  • Meganz927Meganz927 member
    I think you need to worry about your own situation and do what's best for you. You can't live your life in fear of others opinions as there will always be opinions from everyone no matter what. Not to sound insensitive toward your cousin, a sad situation, but I wouldn't tell her your TTC just knowing she won't be able to in the future. Just maybe tell her you guys just don't want to wait any longer.
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