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No AF, BFP or BFN...

CeCe8579CeCe8579 member
edited November 2013 in Secondary IF
I still haven't gotten AF and no BFP or BFN. According to my positive OPK, I'm either 13, 14 or 15DPO. I had what I suspected to be implantation bleeding 8 days ago. I've had brown spotting twice. TMI, once Thursday when I had a hard poop and last night when DH and I had sex. I've had nausea, sore boobs, darkened areolas, twinges and slight cramping (not like period cramping, more like the cramping I had when I was pregnant with DD), bloating, lots of CM increased urination and have been a major emotional wreck. I keep feeling little gushes of moisture down y there and every time I think it's AF but it's CM. No typical AF symptoms but I'm trying really hard not to read too much into the symptoms I've had. I don't know what my body is doing. If I don't start AF by Monday, I think my RE is going to do bloodwork. If he says no to bloodwork, I'm going to demand it since I've been pregnant with no BFP at home before. That way I can get my progesterone on track if need be and so I know what's going on. I just wish I knew what was going on for sure because we're on our honeymoon and we have to worry about all this. My DH has been wonderful and very supportive. I'm trying not to get my hopes up but I'm not giving up until I know for sure that this cycle is over. I will post updates as I have them. Please pray for us. Thank you do much ladies being such wonderful support!
Carly
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Re: No AF, BFP or BFN...

  • KC1212KC1212 member
    Keep testing and don't assume one way or the other until you know 100%. I tested a BFN last Friday and got a BFP on Sunday.

    Hoping its just early. FX for you and Congrats on the wedding :)
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    Me: 27 DH: 33
    Married 6 years
    Conceived DS after 4 years of MFI

    TTC # 2 (not trying,not preventing ever)
    May 2013 - August 2013 Timed Intercourse = BFN
    September 2013 Timed Intercourse, Weekly Acupuncture, Herbs=BFN
    October 2013 Timed Intercourse, Weekly Acupuncture, Herbs, and "warming foods" = BFP
    Beta #1 19, Beta #2 18 Progesterone 4.6 Miscarried 11/9/13
    November 2013 - Benched, waiting for first post-loss AF.
    No longer benched per New RE/OB!
    Jan. 15 2014 - BFP. HCG 3900 - Ectopic :( 
    Jan. 16 2014 Left tube removed and D&C
    March 2, 2014 First AF


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  • CeCe8579CeCe8579 member
    KC1212 said:

    Keep testing and don't assume one way or the other until you know 100%. I tested a BFN last Friday and got a BFP on Sunday.

    Hoping its just early. FX for you and Congrats on the wedding :)

    Thank you so much! I'm praying for you.

    Carly
    (Former UN: iloveshanej)

    Birdie born 05/01/2007
    Rainbow Surprise Baby due 05/26/2017                                          


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  • KC1212KC1212 member
    P.S. hard poop is always a good sign. I tend to have loose stools in the morning (tmi) I'm sure you wanna know that.

    But my point is with DS and this brief BFP I became constipated quickly.
    image

    Me: 27 DH: 33
    Married 6 years
    Conceived DS after 4 years of MFI

    TTC # 2 (not trying,not preventing ever)
    May 2013 - August 2013 Timed Intercourse = BFN
    September 2013 Timed Intercourse, Weekly Acupuncture, Herbs=BFN
    October 2013 Timed Intercourse, Weekly Acupuncture, Herbs, and "warming foods" = BFP
    Beta #1 19, Beta #2 18 Progesterone 4.6 Miscarried 11/9/13
    November 2013 - Benched, waiting for first post-loss AF.
    No longer benched per New RE/OB!
    Jan. 15 2014 - BFP. HCG 3900 - Ectopic :( 
    Jan. 16 2014 Left tube removed and D&C
    March 2, 2014 First AF


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  • CeCe8579CeCe8579 member
    KC1212 said:

    P.S. hard poop is always a good sign. I tend to have loose stools in the morning (tmi) I'm sure you wanna know that.

    But my point is with DS and this brief BFP I became constipated quickly.

    Thank you for the encouragement. I'm definitely not normally constipated. Hugs!

    Carly
    (Former UN: iloveshanej)

    Birdie born 05/01/2007
    Rainbow Surprise Baby due 05/26/2017                                          


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  • KC1212KC1212 member
    Glad we could talk poop together. Hit me up if you wanna talk CM sometime.
    It's been real. Good luck!
    image

    Me: 27 DH: 33
    Married 6 years
    Conceived DS after 4 years of MFI

    TTC # 2 (not trying,not preventing ever)
    May 2013 - August 2013 Timed Intercourse = BFN
    September 2013 Timed Intercourse, Weekly Acupuncture, Herbs=BFN
    October 2013 Timed Intercourse, Weekly Acupuncture, Herbs, and "warming foods" = BFP
    Beta #1 19, Beta #2 18 Progesterone 4.6 Miscarried 11/9/13
    November 2013 - Benched, waiting for first post-loss AF.
    No longer benched per New RE/OB!
    Jan. 15 2014 - BFP. HCG 3900 - Ectopic :( 
    Jan. 16 2014 Left tube removed and D&C
    March 2, 2014 First AF


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  • CeCe8579CeCe8579 member
    KC1212 said:

    Glad we could talk poop together. Hit me up if you wanna talk CM sometime.
    It's been real. Good luck!

    Haha! Thanks!
    Carly
    (Former UN: iloveshanej)

    Birdie born 05/01/2007
    Rainbow Surprise Baby due 05/26/2017                                          


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  • CeCe8579CeCe8579 member
    Well, I can add the other element of morning sickness to my list plus dizziness and an extremely heightened sense of smell. I swear if I'm not pregnant, my body is even more cruel then I thought! Aaahhh, I hate not knowing! I want to enjoy my honeymoon but I wish I was home so I could go to the doctor.
    Carly
    (Former UN: iloveshanej)

    Birdie born 05/01/2007
    Rainbow Surprise Baby due 05/26/2017                                          


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  • Jen071407Jen071407 member
    The unknown is the worst! Have you taken any tests?

    Two DDs 10/08 and 08/10, no primary IF
    TTC #3 since 10/2011 - dx unexplained/weak ovulation
     3 BFN clomid + TI cycles, 5 BFN clomid/gonal f IUIs, 1 mmc IUI
    2/19/2014 IVF #1 Unexpected low E2 (oversuppressed) -> increased to max doses = 3 or 4 follicles, converting to IUI
    BFFP Saw 1 beautiful heartbeat at 6w6d, follow up u/s at 9w showed mmc. Eff this.
    NTNP 5/2014-9/2014, OPKs and TI 10/2014 - 1/2015. 
    RPL testing all normal, AFC, AMH, and FSH all normal. 
    IVF 1.2 1/22/2014 natural cycle start, AFC 28, 300 gonal f/150menopur. 
    ER 2/3/15 14R 8M 3F w/ICSI Day 5 transfer on 2/8/15 of one "Grade A+" blast and have TWO frosties! 

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  • CeCe8579CeCe8579 member
    Jen071407 said:

    The unknown is the worst! Have you taken any tests?

    Yeah, all negative :-(

    I welcome all these symptoms if they are pregnancy related.

    Carly
    (Former UN: iloveshanej)

    Birdie born 05/01/2007
    Rainbow Surprise Baby due 05/26/2017                                          


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  • Jen071407Jen071407 member
    Fx for you!

    Two DDs 10/08 and 08/10, no primary IF
    TTC #3 since 10/2011 - dx unexplained/weak ovulation
     3 BFN clomid + TI cycles, 5 BFN clomid/gonal f IUIs, 1 mmc IUI
    2/19/2014 IVF #1 Unexpected low E2 (oversuppressed) -> increased to max doses = 3 or 4 follicles, converting to IUI
    BFFP Saw 1 beautiful heartbeat at 6w6d, follow up u/s at 9w showed mmc. Eff this.
    NTNP 5/2014-9/2014, OPKs and TI 10/2014 - 1/2015. 
    RPL testing all normal, AFC, AMH, and FSH all normal. 
    IVF 1.2 1/22/2014 natural cycle start, AFC 28, 300 gonal f/150menopur. 
    ER 2/3/15 14R 8M 3F w/ICSI Day 5 transfer on 2/8/15 of one "Grade A+" blast and have TWO frosties! 

     image

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  • CeCe8579CeCe8579 member
    Jen071407 said:

    Fx for you!

    Thank you!

    Carly
    (Former UN: iloveshanej)

    Birdie born 05/01/2007
    Rainbow Surprise Baby due 05/26/2017                                          


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  • pettycrockerpettycrocker member
    Clomid always made my cycles a bit longer. When is the last time you tested? 


    Spontaneous pregnancy #1
    DD1 July 31, 2011

    Trying for #2 since Oct 11
    732973 Clomid Cycles
    2 IUIs 
    3 Fresh IVFs= 1 Ectopic treated with MTX
    Spontaneous pregnancy #2= Ectopic #2= lost left tube
    Spontaneous pregnancy #3= DD2 January 29, 2016
    Spontaneous pregnancy #4= Ectopic #3
    Spontaneous pregnancy #5= Baby #3 is a BOY!!! 



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  • CeCe8579CeCe8579 member
    I tested this morning and got another BFN. I guess I'll be call my RE tomorrow.
    Carly
    (Former UN: iloveshanej)

    Birdie born 05/01/2007
    Rainbow Surprise Baby due 05/26/2017                                          


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  • KC1212KC1212 member
    I am so so sorry. I was rooting for ya :(
    image

    Me: 27 DH: 33
    Married 6 years
    Conceived DS after 4 years of MFI

    TTC # 2 (not trying,not preventing ever)
    May 2013 - August 2013 Timed Intercourse = BFN
    September 2013 Timed Intercourse, Weekly Acupuncture, Herbs=BFN
    October 2013 Timed Intercourse, Weekly Acupuncture, Herbs, and "warming foods" = BFP
    Beta #1 19, Beta #2 18 Progesterone 4.6 Miscarried 11/9/13
    November 2013 - Benched, waiting for first post-loss AF.
    No longer benched per New RE/OB!
    Jan. 15 2014 - BFP. HCG 3900 - Ectopic :( 
    Jan. 16 2014 Left tube removed and D&C
    March 2, 2014 First AF


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  • pettycrockerpettycrocker member
    KC1212 said:
    I am so so sorry. I was rooting for ya :(

    Yea. I think we were all hoping to see a honeymoon BFP in here. :( Sorry girl, FX for next cycle. 


    Spontaneous pregnancy #1
    DD1 July 31, 2011

    Trying for #2 since Oct 11
    732973 Clomid Cycles
    2 IUIs 
    3 Fresh IVFs= 1 Ectopic treated with MTX
    Spontaneous pregnancy #2= Ectopic #2= lost left tube
    Spontaneous pregnancy #3= DD2 January 29, 2016
    Spontaneous pregnancy #4= Ectopic #3
    Spontaneous pregnancy #5= Baby #3 is a BOY!!! 



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  • CeCe8579CeCe8579 member
    edited November 2013
    Thank you so much ladies! I think AF is one her way in. No spotting or bleeding yet but I'm cramping like crazy. I somewhat feel at peace with it this morning but I know I'll have my ups and downs. IF sucks!
    Carly
    (Former UN: iloveshanej)

    Birdie born 05/01/2007
    Rainbow Surprise Baby due 05/26/2017                                          


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