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Don't know a due date!

So I'm at the mfm and the tech mentions that I'm 30 weeks and I said no I'll be 32 on Monday. We find out that I was told a due date of Jan 6 but in the charts I'm noted at Jan 15.
I'm sooo upset I can't stop crying. I don't understand how/why this happened.
My mfm told me to get over it and adjust. That I was wrong and that the 15th is what the have been working from.

Just needed to vent.

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Re: Don't know a due date!

  • He told you to get over it? Wow, that's rude. I totally understand your disappointment, I would be really upset too. I wonder why it took this long to figure it out?

    Baby Boy #1 born 1/15/2010

    Babies #2 & #3 arriving Spring 2014 (EDD June 18)

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  • What? What a mean mfm! I'm only at 25 weeks and if someone told me I was only 23 weeks I think I'd scream!! I'm pretty much celebrating every week at this point! So sorry he told you that!! Ultimately the babies will be born when they are ready, hope the rest of your pregnancy goes well!
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  • that is ridiculous and i'm sorry that he responded to you like that!  sometimes dr.'s make mistakes!!  when my RE was figuring out my due date, she came back and wrote down 2/14.  I told her, no- according to the dates it would be 2/4.  She double checked and said I was correct.  Things happen, so maybe they need to look again!!! 
    Me (37) DH (39); PCOS changed to Unexplained, changed to DOR in 2012 (finally a correct diagnosis!); 
    Started TTC 2009 with RE after 6 months.  
    Clomid + Trigger x2; 
    IUI + Femara x1,
    IUI + Follistim x2;
    IVF #1 (MDL) February 2013- BFN.
    IVF #2 (antagonist) May 2013, First BFP of my life. 
    Identical twin miracle BOYS (!!) headed our way- due date is technically 2/4/14 but c section is scheduled for 1/7! 


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  • Horrible! What an a$$!
    Me:35,  DH: 39   
    TTC since March 2011. All bloodword, SA & HSG are normal.  
    8/12: Clomid & TI - BFN 
    10/12: Colmid & TI - BFN 
    3/13:  Clomid, Trigger & IUI - BFN 
    4/13: Gonal F, Trigger & IUI: BFN  
    6/13: IVF #1 (1AA blast & 1BB blast) = BFN 
    8/13: FET #1= BFN
    10/13: FET #2= BFP!!!

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  • OMG, awful!  You shouldn't have been treated that way, I am so sorry.
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  • Damn, that's rude! I'm sorry. I would be really upset too. My obgyn nurse was trying to tell me I was a week ahead of what I really am and that was frustrating enough. Not my problem lady can't count!

    hang in there girlie! xo

  • I had a mix up with my EDD too...turned out the one time I had an emergency u/s at MFM the nurse mis-typed my EDD (it was off by about three weeks) and saved it in a way that it overwrote everything at the MFM office. Thankfully my midwives had the right EDD still, but it took almost a month before I caught it. I was not happy.
    J13 May Siggy Challenge: People lacking in common sense raise my blood pressure.
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  • Boo. I would be seriously annoyed to have 2 weeks tacked onto my timeline. Your MFM's reaction was pretty uncalled for, too. Hang in there.

    Age: 35 TTC since 2005, MFI & DOR 

    IVF #1 Sep '11 - canceled poor response

     IVF #2 Nov '11  8R/8M/4F 3dt x2 - chemical

    IVF #3 April '12  11R/6M/4F 3dt x2 - m/c

    FET #1 Aug 2012  3dt x2 - BFN

    **new RE**

     IVF #4 Jan '13 BFN 11R/6M/6F 5dt x2 - BFN

     IVF #5 July '13 16R/10M/10F 5dt x2 + 1 frostie

    9dp5dt Beta 1 = 344!! 16dp5dt. Beta 2 = 4822 7wk u/s= 2 heartbeats!

    Twin girls! 3/6/14

     

  • Just. Got the call. They don't know why they moved up the due date but they moved it back. Now instead if being 32 weeks I'm only 30.5.
    I feel robbed.

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