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I just realized dh never saw heartbeat

sunflwr2sunflwr2 member
in Miscarriage/Pregnancy Loss
as I was commenting on another post I realized I got to see our babys heartbeat twice. it was low both times but a hearbeat none the less. my husband came to our first early ultrasound and there was only a gestational sac. but he wasnt at the next two when I saw the heartbeat. so he never actually saw our baby. I had a d&c today and was actually feeling so much better. but when I realized this, it crushed me. I feel so awful he wasnt there. im the only one who got to see it. just when I thought I was moving forward, now I cant stoo crying. awesome.
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  • dajhughesdajhughes member
    Oh sweetie I am so sorry. Nothing about these situations is fair. My heart breaks for you. Some of my biggest pain was in aching for my DH. Hugs to you and YH.
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  • Meganz927Meganz927 member
    Hello thanks for posting a comment on my post. I know the pain your feeling our losses will never be forgotten. Just know all the emotions your going through is normal and helping you heal. For tomorrow is a brighter day. T&P

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  • Jessy336Jessy336 member
    I am so sorry for your loss.  Nothing is easy or fair right now.  I felt awful on Friday because I told DH to go to work, that the u/s would be fine & I would have new pictures for him when he got home....

    sending lots of hugs your way 

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