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May 2014 Moms
deeandsteve
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Out of control
deeandsteve
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Does anyone else feel like they are out of control at work? Like everything everyone does is very annoying and you just want to tell them off? I know its the hormones, but at times it feels like moments of clarity - like NO, I shouldn't be putting up with this, or NO you shouldn't be interrupting me whenever YOU feel the need. Even before I get up for work in the morning, I feel defeated, like I just can't deal with the rest of day unless its at home with my dog and hubby, watching movies and eating.......LOL
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Re: Out of control
BFP # 1 - 12/19/09 EDD 08/27/10 - D&C 1/26/10 @ 9w5d
BFP # 2 - 06/05/10 EDD 02/17/11, DS1 born on 2/14/11
BFP # 3 - 04/10/13 EDD 12/21/13 - D&C 05/15/13 @ 8w4d
BFP # 4 - 07/27/13 EDD 04/08/14 - CP 07/29/13
BFP # 5 - 09/14/13 EDD 05/28/14, DS2 born on 5/22/14
I also feel generally pretty worthless, though. I just don't have a lot of concern for work right now. I felt the same when I was pregnant with my son. You just realize how unimportant some things really are by comparison...
Not so much at work, but I tend to be more like this in my personal life. I have so many crazies, egotists and *ssholes in my family and among people I know socially (many that I have to endure) that usually I just let sleeping dogs lie...the whole "don't argue with a fool because people won't know the difference." But since I have been pregnant, I have felt a lot less like putting up with people's ish.
I even recently deleted my brother from facebook because he would not stop posting hundreds (literally hundreds) of posts (some of them really disrespectful) on my facebook profile that he knew went against my personal beliefs. I asked him repeatedly to stop and he just kept on. My DH's response was, "You know how your brother is..." So he gets a pass for being an asshole just because he is always an asshole? I don't think so.
And, last night, I actually got in a huge argument with a couple of people because they were posting things that were just factually incorrect about the ACA. Someone had made an inquisition about the ACA (or, at least, that was my view of the post) and people were just blatantly giving her incorrect information. Then I got blasted and called names because I was trying to help someone.
2011: FSH 13.3 & E 99; AMH 0.54 2nd FSH 6.2 E 40's AFC: 8
BFP from Clomid/IUI ~ Pre-e and IUGR during pregnancy ~ DS born 9/4/12
Feb./March 2013: AMH less than 0.16 (undectable) and AFC = 4;
BFP from supps ~ DS#2 due May 2014
May 2014 January Siggy Challenge:
ALL THE TIME.
my department currently has nine people in it.
five of them are now managers. FIVE. guess who does all the work while they go to meeting after meeting about who knows what? the four of us left behind.
they spend meeting after meeting coming up with diffrerent ways to be up our asses monitoring how we do our jobs, while they can't even DO our jobs themselves.
can't wait to be done with this place forever.
But now if I give people attitude for being an idiot it's because I'm "pregnant and hormonal"
No, bitch, it's because you're stupid.
What is really pissing me off is that when you suddenly quit putting up with people's shit/bad behavior, then they are like, "Whoa! Pregnant hormonal lady!" or "Who peed in your cheerios?" and act like the problem is with you! Nope. When you are an inconsiderate, asshat, douchebag as usual and I just finally qot sick of putting up with it. That is on YOU not me.
Edit: Oops! Saw someone else just had the exact same sentiment. It must be going around...
2011: FSH 13.3 & E 99; AMH 0.54 2nd FSH 6.2 E 40's AFC: 8
BFP from Clomid/IUI ~ Pre-e and IUGR during pregnancy ~ DS born 9/4/12
Feb./March 2013: AMH less than 0.16 (undectable) and AFC = 4;
BFP from supps ~ DS#2 due May 2014
May 2014 January Siggy Challenge: