Need to Vent!!!! (and whine)

boymomstrong · November 2013

So I am at the grocery store with my son, and sitting out side is VERY pregnant lady! She is rubbing her belly, and talking to her friend, and she is SMOKING!!!! just going on and on about how excited she is, and its all I can do to give her a withering look and dash in side before I start to cry...

(whining is about to happen)

Its just not fair, that its hard for some to get pregnant, and sometimes those who can dont even care that what they are doing is hurting that baby... its just another dagger in my gut when I think about it....

Thank you for letting me vent... :0)

kzawisl · November 2013

((Hugs)) I know. I had an employee rip me a new one because they were painting one floor below us and she claimed the fumes were going to harm her baby. Then she went outside and had a cigarette. She was 21 and had had sex with her boyfriend twice, and got KU.

boymomstrong · November 2013

kzawisl said:

((Hugs)) I know. I had an employee rip me a new one because they were painting one floor below us and she claimed the fumes were going to harm her baby. Then she went outside and had a cigarette. She was 21 and had had sex with her boyfriend twice, and got KU.

Some people! And 2 times???? I wish!

) In a perfect world!

Thanks for the hugs...

kmc84 · November 2013

She sucks (they both do!!) I worked with a 19 year old who got pregnant on accident, smoked, drank orange soda, coffe and coolattas like they were going out of style. Oh and her main food group was made up of Cheetos

boymomstrong · November 2013

Ugh! Grose! I cant even imagine that being my diet NOT pregnant! Also in this day and age, I dont believe in accidents any more... Too many forms of BC and FREE from a planned parenthood clinic, there is just no reason to "accidentally" get KU!

Sorry you had to see 2 ladies making bad choices daily! I m sure that was the worst....

pinkmickey24 · November 2013

I just saw the same thing this weekend and I felt the same way. It's so frustrating.

Robeano · November 2013

I totally get where you are on this. I had a similar thing with my cousin. She was dating a 40 year old (when she was like 23) while he was separated from his wife, got pregnant by accident and continued to smoke throughout her whole pregnancy. But at least she stopped smoking pot and drinking

boymomstrong · November 2013

Robeano said:

I totally get where you are on this. I had a similar thing with my cousin. She was dating a 40 year old (when she was like 23) while he was separated from his wife, got pregnant by accident and continued to smoke throughout her whole pregnancy. But at least she stopped smoking pot and drinking

Small Miracles! I hope your cousin is ok (the baby cousin)

Robeano · November 2013

ya, this was awhile ago. Baby turned out well despite everything.

TJ1979 · November 2013

Ugh, I hate that. I totally get the not fair thing. I had a 20 year old pregnant bartender chastise me for wearing nail polish... Then go outside and smoke. What is wrong with people. Hugs kfde.