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Late Term and Child Loss
skb52286
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skb52286
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Want to say sorry for everyones loss...this is a pain that no one should ever have to feel.
Ive been lurking for a while and I'm ready to share about my perfect little angel Trenton Danger born 10/8/2013 and passed away on 10/16/2013. I woke up the Friday before not knowing how my day would end with me in the hospital. I saw a little spot when i got up, decided not to panic went to the Dr when they opened, was sent straight to the hospital as i was already 3cm. Within the hour i was sent to a hospital an 1.5hr away with a NICU as I was 23w 6d.
They think it was incompetent cervix as i wasn't contracting and after he was born they found an infection in the placenta.
Trenton was born 4 days later, never really felt any contractions but was fully dilated. He was little but a fighter; he was even trying to breath on his own. We had 4 days before he started to show signs of an infection and before we knew it we had to make the toughest decision of our lives. My little boy was very sick and had quickly went down hill. We had to decide to take him off the ventilator. We finally got to hold him that night and got to spend as much time we wanted with him. We called our families and were all there together to say goodbye to him. We got photos with him which I am so thankful for.
Its almost been a month since he came into the world and I miss him so much. I've taken his foot prints and have started making Christmas ornaments with them on it.
Sorry its long, thank you for reading;
Ive been lurking for a while and I'm ready to share about my perfect little angel Trenton Danger born 10/8/2013 and passed away on 10/16/2013. I woke up the Friday before not knowing how my day would end with me in the hospital. I saw a little spot when i got up, decided not to panic went to the Dr when they opened, was sent straight to the hospital as i was already 3cm. Within the hour i was sent to a hospital an 1.5hr away with a NICU as I was 23w 6d.
They think it was incompetent cervix as i wasn't contracting and after he was born they found an infection in the placenta.
Trenton was born 4 days later, never really felt any contractions but was fully dilated. He was little but a fighter; he was even trying to breath on his own. We had 4 days before he started to show signs of an infection and before we knew it we had to make the toughest decision of our lives. My little boy was very sick and had quickly went down hill. We had to decide to take him off the ventilator. We finally got to hold him that night and got to spend as much time we wanted with him. We called our families and were all there together to say goodbye to him. We got photos with him which I am so thankful for.
Its almost been a month since he came into the world and I miss him so much. I've taken his foot prints and have started making Christmas ornaments with them on it.
Sorry its long, thank you for reading;
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I am so sorry for the loss of your son Trenton! We are all here for you when you need us . Huge hugs!!
Heather
Brooke Elizabeth born Feb 17, 2013 grew wings May 9, 2013 @ 11 weeks & 4 days old from SIDS
I'm so sorry for the loss of your sweet Trenton. I hate that you're here, but this is seriously a supportive board - this helped me get through my loss last year, and I'm still here and find comfort and support every day. We are here whenever you need us. *hugs*
I am so sorry for the loss of your precious Trenton. We never want to welcome new members to this board as we don't want anyone else to have to be here. But welcome. The women here are amazing and so supportive.
Big hugs.
TTC since 2008
Dh:34, no issues. Me:31, Endo, slightly hypothyroid, deformed ovary, paracentric inversion.
4 Gonal-F, Cetrotide, HcG, Crinone +TI cycles= all BFN
Lap in 2012 to remove large unresolving cyst discovered endo and double lobed ovary.
6 Gonal-F, Cetrotide, HcG, Crinone IUI cycles= All BFN,
1st IVF w/ICSI- June '13 Antagonist: Gonal-F, Menopur, Ganirelix, HcG, Estradiol, Crinone= 7 retrieved, 4 mature, 1 unfertilized, 2 abnormally fertilized, 1 normally fertilized. 2DT of only embryo and our miracle BFP.
Our beloved baby boy was born sleeping Oct. 13, 2013 due to pROM/IC/Uterine infection.
2nd IVF w/ICSI- Feb. '14 EPP/lupron/antagonist: Estrace, lupron, HGH, Gonal-F, Menopur, HcG, PIO, lovenox, doxy/dex.=21 retrieved, 16 mature, 15 fertilized!! 5dt of 1 blast/ 6 frozen. BFP! Beta 1 9dp5dt:83.9 Beta 2: 11dp5dt: 145.2 Beta 3 14dp5dt: 497 Please be our sticky rainbow baby!
I'm so very sorry for your loss of Trenton. It sucks to welcome anyone to this board, but know that we're here for you however and whenever you need it.
Know that you and your family will be in my prayers.... I'm so, so sorry...