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I dont want to go! (long whiney rant)

finallymom16finallymom16 member
edited November 2013 in November 2013 Moms
So, my neices(in law) birthday party is today. I was hoping to have gone into labor so could get out of going, but that didnt happen this week, unfortunately.

This girl is a hot mess. Im going to chalk it up to her only being 17, but the way she talks to me, and thinks is OK, blows my mind. Actually, the way she talks to EVERYBODY, blows my mind. Everytime she sees me, she never fails to say "oh look at how FAT you are" or something along the lines of how big my ass has gotten, how I have cankles, etc. Not to mention the fact that shes always putting others down to make herself feel better. So needless to say, I was going to pull the, "im due in 9 days and really not up to going to your birthday party, im sorry. Would you like a gift card or cash?" Card...

Unfortunately for me, my SO's mother (whom I love, even though she drives me bsc from being so overprotective) is going and doesnt want to go alone. She asked literally 5 times if I was going and I repeatedly told her no, but after she said she didnt want to go by herself, I caved. Now I have fucked myself into going to this party to watch this entitled brat of a neice open gifts that she won't appreciate, talk down to everyone she sees, and probably comment on my size/weight at least ten times.

Pray that I can make it through the day without tp'ing a 17 year old.

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  • mom2curlygirlsmom2curlygirls member
    What a little shit! I don't think I'd be able to hold it in. And at 17, I was no longer having birthday "parties". We may have gone out to dinner but nothing big and fancy.
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  • Princess_LilyPrincess_Lily member
    Nope, would not go to that girls party, but I would send a gift card.

    You don't have to tolerate that crap, especially from your IL side. I'm sure your SO will understand.
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  • SamanthaPoSamanthaPo member
    I may or may not go. It would depend on how...friendly...I was feeling that day. If I did get her a gift, I would get her a gift that is practical, but not something she would request. Like a gift card for a gas station.

                                                              

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  • Maimes10Maimes10 member
    Oberville said:
    Embarrassing teenagers in from of their friends is a hobby of mine. Rarely do I get the chance when I can prepare. Usually it's some twat in line behind me at a store saying something racist or degrading or down right ignorant. I would put together a brave heart esque speech including lots of big words she doesn't know and encourage her to apply her negativity to good use before she has to apply to Burger King. Oh and bring her some aloe for that burn!!! Oooooo
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  • EdvoncupacakeEdvoncupacake member
    "At least I'm not an asshole" would be my response. Ugh! Get yourself a pizza cookie as a reward for not going ballistic at the party. That would be well earned.
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  • Littlemama01Littlemama01 member
    I'de probably go just cause I assume there would be food and I'm pretty much always up for party food, but if that little snot commented on my weight at all I would definitely snap back. Keep it on file until she gets pregnant and then you can give it right back to her.
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  • CoIvieCoIvie member
    I wouldn't go. I wouldn't care how much she didn't want to go by herself. Nobody can talk to me or about me like that and then I attend their party....especially with a gift. Since you're so fat, that would've been my reason for not going.
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  • SamanthaPoSamanthaPo member
    karissa2009 said:
    Agree with PPs, seems a little weird to still be having a big to-do at 17; my family just got together for dinner. And I love the idea of getting her a gift card that's useful instead of something fun. Or better yet, a savings bond!
    A savings bond would be even better considering it won't be worth much for quite some time!!!!

                                                              

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  • lafsalotlafsalot member
    I wouldn't give her the time of day... Sounds like an over indulged girl that I have absolutely no patience for. I'd play the uncomfortable prego card at this point and leave early since you committed to MIL to go.
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  • Anna.MarieAnna.Marie member
    TP her! She's 17 and needs to be taught how to talk to adults.
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