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nbr-tmi-dtd

lyndsihutsonlyndsihutson member
in November 2012 Moms
Only borderline TMI but DH has been complaining that we never DTD. When in reality it is at least 2, sometimes even 3, times a week. Is he really that deprived? How much sex are yall having? I'm just so tired being pregnant now that when I finally get her to bed I want to sleep! Every other day or so seems efficient enough to me. Wdyt?

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  • kjmommy1214kjmommy1214 member
    DH and I average about 3 times a week. It can be more on a good week. I have always figured that we are in the minority. I don't think that YH is deprived though.

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  • Hummingbirdbaby3Hummingbirdbaby3 member
    We are about 2x a week. Pre baby it was 3x a week. IMO a min of 2-3 is great but I don't think that's common. I'm pretty happy with our sexy life!!!
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  • SurpriseAt39SurpriseAt39 member
    @lyndsihutson
    Pre-first baby, we used to DTD almost daily.
    Since DS, it has dropped to once or twice a week.
    And since being pregnant again, sometimes it's once every 2 weeks due to exhaustion, sickness and house guests.

    I don't think 2-3 times a week is depriving him.
    But, if like us, you used to do it daily, I can see why he's feeling neglected.

    My DH totally understands how I'm feeling, so he doesn't push it, but he still feels lonely.

    Hopefully my sickness goes away soon. I miss DH.
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  • LBStewartLBStewart member
    DH and I definitely are definitely having our own issues right now.  Once a week would be on a good week for us.  I'm also due in April, but I'm just so tired that dtd isn't really happening much right now.
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  • kerrigrooveskerrigrooves member
    yikes, we're once a week, last week it was twice in one day...
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  • SNBellandSNBelland member
    I think YH needs a reality check as well. I am pg again and he have sex maybe once a week. Pre-baby #1 we had it almost daily, but DH understands since me and the toilet are very acquainted lately. He should give you a break. 
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  • lyndsihutsonlyndsihutson member
    Thanks ladies.. i dont feel so bad, lol.


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  • shella923shella923 member
    I don't even want to WRITE how often we DTD.  SAD.  I was never super in the mood too often but since going on paxil got even worse.Going to see doctor next week. Had to vent. 
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