We are 6w3d today and had our 2nd Ultrasound yesterday Afternoon. They were able to get a great picture but unable to find a pulse/heartbeat. My heart dropped to my stomach and just wanted to breakdown right there on the table. After everything now this?!?
The nurse said the baby is still really small and it could just be too early. They want me to come back Friday for another test and she said if we dont get a pulse at that time then it will be the time to worry.
My DH tells me not to worry yet I lay awake at 4am making myself sick from worry. Meanwhile my family is ready to celebrate the first grand baby. They say I am being a party pooper but Im just so dang worried.
Has anyone else not gotten a pulse on their first ultra sound?
I would love any advice/insight.
TTC since September 2009
9/09: 1st RE misdiagnosed, Me: normal DH: azoo
9/10: 3 year break
3/13: new RE!!
4/13: DH has drunk swimmers!
7/13: Uterine Septum- Hysteroscopy
8/13: IUI #1- Follistim + Trigger = bfn, DH: azoo 
9/13: Frozen swimmers! Stimming for IVF
10/13: IVF/ICSI ER=(x2) 19R 18M 13F 4 Frosties 10/15: Beta 1=125 10/17: Beta 2 =

Re: Ultrasound/No Pulse..Help!
3rd cycles clomid + Ovidrel = BFN
4th cycles letrozole/Ovidrel + IUI = BFN
IVF #1 = BFP! Twins due 2/5/2014
And tell your family that you have every right to be nervous!
TTC since September 2009
9/09: 1st RE misdiagnosed, Me: normal DH: azoo
9/10: 3 year break
3/13: new RE!!
4/13: DH has drunk swimmers!
7/13: Uterine Septum- Hysteroscopy
8/13: IUI #1- Follistim + Trigger = bfn, DH: azoo
9/13: Frozen swimmers! Stimming for IVF
10/13: IVF/ICSI ER=(x2) 19R 18M 13F 4 Frosties 10/15: Beta 1=125 10/17: Beta 2 =
| Married since 2008 | DH and I: Both 30 | Me: Endometriosis and Carrier of an X-Linked Dominant Genetic Disorder | DH: Low Morph | Planning IVF with PGD and PGS in 2013 | Freeze-All IVF #1: March 2013 ER 3/26. 29R, 12M, 11F. 4 5AA frozen blasts. Freeze-All IVF#2: May 2013 ER 5/15. 31R, 21M, 20F. 6 5AA frozen blasts. Our PGD probe was completed in late June (total of 20 weeks to develop). PGD and PGS Results came on 6/19: 3 healthy embryos (normal chromosomes and unaffected by my family's genetic disorder). FET #1: July 2013 Natural Cycle - Cancelled due to insufficient lining (only got to 7.5mm). FET #1.2: August 2013 - Medicated Cycle with Lupron & Estrogen Patches to build up lining. Single embryo transfer was 8/23. Beta #1: 240! Beta #2: 578! U/S on 9/19 at 6w4d: We saw the heart beating at 131bpm. Second U/S on 10/4 at 8w5d: We saw the heart beating at 178bpm. EDD 5/11/2014
IVF/FET #1 - BFP!!
DX - PCOS 2004
FET #2 - scheduled for 11/24/15
Me: 42. DH: 46.
1st Pregnancy: MC, 11/19/00.
2nd Pregnancy: DS born 04/10/06.
3rd Pregnancy: CP, 03/11.
4th Pregnancy: MMC, D&C 11/30/11, Genetic testing revealed Trisomy 4.
5th Pregnancy: Ectopic, 2 doses of Methotrexate unsuccessful, surgery 4/10/12, right tube removed.
Tried Letrozole January 2013-July 2013 (including 2 IUIs), all BFN. After 2 1/2 years of trying for child #2, decided to "give up" after July cycle, based on AMA.
August 16, 2013: BFP our first month of "not trying!" Still in shock. Beta #1 (14dpo): 183. Beta #2 (17dpo): 611. Ultrasound 8/30/13: baby measured 6 weeks, 1 day, heart rate of 118 bpm!
Ultrasound 9/13/13: 8 weeks, heart rate of 176!
Baby is due 4/26/14
Me: 42. DH: 46.
1st Pregnancy: MC, 11/19/00.
2nd Pregnancy: DS born 04/10/06.
3rd Pregnancy: CP, 03/11.
4th Pregnancy: MMC, D&C 11/30/11, Genetic testing revealed Trisomy 4.
5th Pregnancy: Ectopic, 2 doses of Methotrexate unsuccessful, surgery 4/10/12, right tube removed.
Tried Letrozole January 2013-July 2013 (including 2 IUIs), all BFN. After 2 1/2 years of trying for child #2, decided to "give up" after July cycle, based on AMA.
August 16, 2013: BFP our first month of "not trying!" Still in shock. Beta #1 (14dpo): 183. Beta #2 (17dpo): 611. Ultrasound 8/30/13: baby measured 6 weeks, 1 day, heart rate of 118 bpm!
Ultrasound 9/13/13: 8 weeks, heart rate of 176!
Baby is due 4/26/14
DH - 41
IUI#1 with Clomid - BFN
IVF #1 -3d transfer of 3 embryos. BFP. Unviable HB at 6 weeks. D&C at 8.5 weeks.
IVF #2 -5d transfer of 2 blasts. BFP. Low Beta HCG - did 5 beta tests over 10 days - RE concerned ectopic. 1st U/S HB 114! 2nd U/S HB 150! Graduated from RE 7 weeks 5 days (11/5). First OB appt 8 weeks 4 days (11/11) - HB 170 and measuring exactly on schedule. Phew.
EDD 6/19/14. Keeping every finger and toe crossed tight.